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It's Monday
How was everyone's weekend? Do anything exciting? Any dates? My dad is visiting in a month so I am doing spring/summer cleaning so friday night and saturday morning were spent doing laundry and orginizing my closest. Oh the fun. Saturday afternoon after the rain stopped I went to my friends place which is on a lake for a…
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Stupid unrequited love!
I am sure some of you have experienced it! I am in love/lust/want with an acquaintance of mine but he has shown no signs of returning the feelings. I even thought I had asked him out a few months ago and was happy when he accepted but then it just turned into a friends-hanging-out night. And he continues to be super…
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Catfish tv show
Anybody heard of this show? It's about people who have met someone online, but someone is fishy, so the show goes and investigate for the person, to see if the person is legitimate or not. The man who created the show created it because he met a woman online who did this to him. Dr. Phil is doing a show about the show.…
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Upcoming Weekend Plans Anyone?
So what's everyone got planned for this weekend? Any hot dates or fun adventures? Here's what I got going: Friday evening, drop my daughter off with her dad for the weekend then I'm heading to see "The Conjuring". It looks like an awesome movie. Saturday morning is kickboxing and I will probably mow the yard in the…
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Since this is still MFP...
I saw this article online and thought it might interest some of the Peeps. Thoughts? http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/im-overweight-boyfriends-not-big-freaking-deal-134800157.html?nopharma=1
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independent women
I feel as though I've heard an awful lot lately about how guys aren't into independent women. Someone, please explain what this means in 2013!?
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weekend fun
So who has some weekend fun going on this weekend? I am leaving from work to go up into the blue ridge mountains to go camping and tubbing for a friends birthday. Will be about 30 of us so I hope not too much drama. Hopefully mother nature plays nice and lets the river calm down.
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Attracted to your own features?
A long time ago, someone told me that people are most attracted to their own features. For example, someone with dark hair/ dark eyes are more likely to be attracted to someone with dark hair/ eyes. A woman that has larger chests would be attracted a man with larger chest (probably not man boobs) and woman with large…
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Do you agree with the 3 month rule?
3 months is the magic time frame. Up until the 3-month-mark, a man is on his best behavior (or SHOULD be), he's swept up in the chemistry just like we are, he's infatuated perhaps, and he LOVES the attention a warm, loving, nice, attentive woman like us gives him. He likes the way it feels, and it keeps him there for that…
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If you could witness one event...
... in all of history, which would it be? Just witness, you can't change anything. You have no control over the situation.
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Evolution of a relationship
From another topic: Subconsciously or without giving it too much thought, this is indeed how most people imagine the evolution of their relationship. I was discussing about that the other day, about the fact that there is a (probably) reasonable expectation from most people for a relationship to "evolve", otherwise the…
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Night Shift, No weekends and bored
So I have recently started a new shift at work working night shift ... basically Start my work week Wednesday night and end it Sunday morning - come home sleep then I'm up and about around 6PM. The problem is my friends work normal hours and enjoy the weekends off. This has left me rather bored with nothing to do. Sure I…
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Beach date
More for the girls but the guys can chime in to on what they would like to see. I have a first date with a guy tomorrow night. We're going for a walk on the beach and to hangout there to talk. What do you wear to a beach date? I don't want to go too casual but I also know its the beach, lol so I can't exactly go dressy.…
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Weekend updates
So since we didn't have a Friday post how was everyone's weekend? Nothing really new and interesting here as the rain doesn't seem to want to stop. Friend had a bbq saturday and I ended up trading in my sandals for my cletes as the ground got muddy.
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When you are in a relationship...
Do you flirt? What's too much? Do you consider it normal or healthy? Do you talk about what's ok with your SO? Just wondering. My friends all have different views. I still flirt. I imagine the bf does as well. When I was married however, I didn't flirt.. Ever! I just felt wrong about it. Granted, I don't do it in front of…
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why do you like being single?
I know a lot of people are obviously trying to find someone because it can be nice to have someone to share your life with, but I thought we would switch things up a bit and look at reasons you like being single :drinker: I like the freedom of not having to check in with anyone and just do what I want, when I want. I have…
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Happy belated 4th of July - checking in
I have not been around a lot lately, and so I thought I would pop in and see what is cooking and wish all my American Single Peeps a belated Happy 4th of July. I hope you all did something fun and exciting. I am still single, but got horribly distracted by life in general, and not in a good way. I have made a pact with…
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Want to be amused?
Last night I was looking for something easy and fun to read, and stumble upon the kindle book.... "Not A Match: My True Tales of Online Dating Disasters" It is written by a man, and since everyone enjoys other dating disaster stories, I thought some of you might be interested--it is not long, but it is very amusing.........
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TGIF
A nice early friday post this week. What does everyone have going on? I have a half day at work today to prepare for a hiking/camping trip tomorrow. I need new tires on my car before I brave the backwoods drive to get to our camping spot. I have been looking forward to this weekend for a couple weeks now. I love to get out…
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June Funnies
I sometimes wonder if we should just make it a sticky...........
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"Desexualizing self" and clothing (men)
I saw a reply in a recent thread about how it's potentially dangerous to "desexualize" the self (at least for women) through clothing. I agree for the most part. But how do you people feel about the same for men? Is it even possible? If it is, I am probably guilty of it, lol...I usually wear pretty basic, un-trendy…
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Is it better to honest up front or later on?
Before everyone jumps on me .. hear me out. I am honest to a fault ... I hate lying to people and don't do it well. But when it comes to dating, I am being friendzoned all the time because I'm being my true self ... which is a tomboy ... I watch sports ... I yell at the tv during games ... I've been told this is…
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How to catch a man's eye
So trying to figure out the best thing to wear to be approached at a bar. I was told once I was very intimidating because I was dressed in jeans and a hoodie. I don't want to dress sleazy to just pick up ... but I want to wear something to catch a certain someone's eye. What is the best thing a girl can wear out for a…
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The friday topic
So it is friday finally. This week seemed to dragggggggg. What is everyone up to this weekend? I have the usual for me. Tonight I am going to go for a run (day 7 of my 30 days of running). Make some sangria and fruit salad for tomorrow and chill. Tomorrow I have football playoffs (I hope we lose so this season is over) and…
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"You're the Best! Around!"
Stupid song is stuck in my head...but actually a question for everyone behind it. Have any of you had issues with being "addicted" to being the best? Now maybe not necessarily the best in the world or regional area, but best at something in your group of friends. Has not being the best ever lead to stress? I'm the kind of…
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Is it better to poof?
There was a guy that I started talking to from online. We moved to texting, and talked about meeting on 3 seperate occasions....the first one he brought up, the second 2 I mentioned--when he mentioned it, I was nervous--we had just started talking, then when I mentioned it, it kind of got glossed over so figured he wasn't…
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The Most Bizarre online dating sites.
It seems that dating sites are getting very particular. Would you try any of these sites? Gothic Match: This site is filled with gothy EMO types who'll take you to see The Cure and read you Victorian poetry. While you'll see plenty of eyeliner, lip rings and tattoos on Gothic Match, most members are ordinary people simply…
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What do I need to know about dating?
My ex-husband left me last September. I was with him from the time I was 14 years old. I don't know anything about dating! I don't know what to expect! I don't know what the rules are! I am now 30 and clueless. I am also a christian, and don't believe in sex outside of marriage. I feel I am destined to be single FOREVER!…
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Cheating....
So a while back ago a friend of mine kept wanting me to "cover" for her while she was cheating on her husband..... After months of this behavior I actually asked her to stop telling her husband she was hanging out with me because quite frankly I didn't want my name being used and I didn't want to be a part of all of that.…
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Strange messages?
We all have the strange dates, but I just got a strange message! A man wrote this morning and just said hello.....good morning......then I looked and realized his screenanme was a girls name--not like a unisex name, but a straight out girl name, so I thought that was odd, so just asked........why is your screen name a…