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I was thinking this myself. Congrats, Janie!!! :drinker: :flowerforyou:

I'm with Anna on this one. Those descriptions are completely subjective!! Just make sure you put a current full body shot up and let them "judge" you however they choose. :flowerforyou:

Kim, that's a good point. I do have one sitter that my kids love, but she's rather far away unfortunately. So I use her occassionally. I do need to find a more local sitter if I'm really serious about wanting to date....thanks for pointing that out!! :flowerforyou:

Crystal, get out of my head!!!! Lol. Seriously though, I could've written your post. I have one night off from the kids every week, but take a class during the school year. Other than that, I have one weekday evening every other week and every other weekend free. I tend to think that most men are not going to want to wait…

Howdy, y'all! :laugh: Kim, 37, from Oklahoma.

I believe this 100%!

I've been told by a couple of my close friends that I have a big personality. Was that just a nice way of saying I'm quirky? :laugh: I know I'm quirky, but I look at it like this: my quirks are what makes me uniquely me. :bigsmile:

I did take the ex's name when we married and kept it after the divorce. I would've gone back to my maiden name, but 1) have two kids with his last name, 2) earned a college degree with his last name while married and 3) it became who I was after 12 years of marriage. It would've felt weird to go back to my maiden name,…

Good luck, Jen!!

^^^ This. I applaud you on stepping out of your comfort zone and asking the tough question. Even though it didn't turn out as you had hoped, now you know where he stands and can learn from this. :flowerforyou: Good luck and stay strong!!

Good luck, Jen!!

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That's so sweet!! It's those simple things that can make such a difference. Yay for you! :flowerforyou:

You are not bipolar or crazy!!! But as a fellow single mom, I can totally relate. For the sake of the kids, we have a routine that works for us and so it makes it tough to veer off the path. :flowerforyou: But it can be done if you choose to do it...I'd just take it slow and enjoy the time that you do have with him and…

This is exactly what I was thinking.....

I'm sorry....that stinks!!! If it helps, I'm kind of in the same place. Just taking everything one day at a time! :flowerforyou:

What happened to your guy?

I'm nosey....so how did it go??

Well, hello!! Single mom to two in Oklahoma. Feel free to add me if you like. I log in regularly, but don't tend to post too much. Good luck in your journey!

Kim Just turned 37 on Sunday Oklahoma Single momma to two wonderful kids, divorced since 2008 Nobody on the radar, but not trying to hard at this point....need to work on me a bit. :smile:

I can relate. Feel free to add me. :flowerforyou:

Single mom to two girls. Feel free to add me! I usually log in every day, and understand how hectic life can be!!

I don't think I could've said this better myself!!! :flowerforyou:

^^^ This. I want someone who isn't afraid to call me out when I cop an attitude. I need that, because I have lots of attitude that needs to stay in check. :laugh:

I know I'm a it late..........but HAPPY (late) BIRTHDAY!!!!!! :drinker:

You go, girl. Don't know if I could get back out there that quick. :drinker:

Well, I honestly don't know. For now, the plan is that I'll see him Wednesday night. But my tom may be on it's way and that would just be incredibly tragic. But at least I'll get to see him. As of May 1st, it will have been four weeks. :sad: At least I know he's sick of working all the time and wants a life again. :love:

Ditto!!!

Was single for about 4.5 years but am currently dating the cowboy exclusively now for about three months. The distance is a bit of a pain, but so far we've made it work. I don't really see anything changing, and I've been quite happy so far! :love:

Glad you're back!! Have missed your posts and glad things are going well for you. :flowerforyou: