Bariatric/Weight Loss Surgery

avrilamor
avrilamor Posts: 30
edited October 20 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi all..
Just curious..has anyone had a weight loss surgery? If so, can you offer any advice? Pros/Cons of the surgery you had. I'm considering it, but I'm still not sure. I have a few friends that have done it with great results, but only a few. Most ppl keeping telling me, "not to do it" and that's "too drastic!" I'm not sure I agree with that. Any advice, suggestions, information would be helpful. Thank you :)

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  • MizzTweezy
    MizzTweezy Posts: 250 Member
    Hi,
    I am a lap bander. I had my surgery in June last year. I haven't had any real complications from it, but I wouldn't recommend anyone for weight loss surgery. Why you may ask since I had it done.. Because it don't solve the problem really. It starts with you making the lifestyle changes. I still have to eat the good foods, be physical, and everything else everyone who hasn't had surgery must do. Otherwise it fails. The easiest foods to get down are the bad ones, chips, cookies,ice cream etc. But eating healthy foods is harder and takes longer to eat. I failed for a while, but I am back on track now, we all have slip ups, were not perfect. We are fighting an addiction. Something we will have to deal with for life. Support is so important. Even if it is online. Knowledge is power, knowing what foods are good for you bad for you, will help so much. That is one good thing from the program that helped me. The dietitian just showing me and telling me what to eat and to stay away from. But if I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't of had the surgery. But I can't say anything about the rest of the surgery's out there. I know the gastric bypass may help people with sugar issues because of dumping syndrome and getting ill when consuming sugar, but I don't know if that is the case for everyone who has had it. In the end... it's all about you and your willingness and determination :)
  • SafioraLinnea
    SafioraLinnea Posts: 628 Member
    My aunt had lap band surgery nearly 10 years ago and while she was successful (and lost 152 pounds to get down to her current 150ish) she agrees with MizzTweezy -- if she had the chance to go back and do it over again, she would *never* have had the surgery. She continues to have a very difficult time with dumping syndrome and struggles with ensuring her intake is adequate for providing the micro-nutrients she needs without taking vitamins.
  • Sapporo
    Sapporo Posts: 693 Member
    My sister had some kind of weight loss surgery many years ago. She has since suffered hernias, some weird blood condition, and was lethargic for months which her doctor also blamed on the surgery. One of my friends just had a hernia fixed yesterday, which she got from having surgery within the last year. I know of quite a few other people who have had it done and only one has had no complications!
    Scared me right off the idea, but then again all my numbers are healthy (resting heart rate, blood pressure, etc), so I have the time to figure this out without surgery. If faced with immediate health problems I probably would consider it though.
  • airangel59
    airangel59 Posts: 1,887 Member
    2 of my cousins had the banding. They were always heavy and yes it's worked for them but there are some foods that they can't eat.
    I looked into it, went to an orientation and a meeting about what one can eat and what could cause issues.

    It's not a cure all and you can gain it all back, no matter which procedure you go thru, if one continues to maintain the lifestyle that got one fat to begin with.

    I prefer to do it the natural way, counting calories (or WW points as I had done in the past) as I don't want to avoid certain foods for the rest of my life, or run into complications that I know exist (I work in a hospital and see problems with bands eroding thru the stomach wall, bands slipping, roux en y surgery causing strictures and other problems one doesn't get by losing weight naturally.

    I know there are many many folks here that had bariatric surgery and they have no food restrictions or any complications. With my luck (Murphy's) I would.
  • dkpk1965
    dkpk1965 Posts: 17
    my wife had the bypass surgery 8 yrs ago. you must learn to eat all over again. i'm on my ipod touch right now. leave me a msg and tomorrow i can go into more details when i'm on the pc. she is doing well and i will answer your questions from a spouse's perspective.
  • Hi :)

    I had the gastric sleeve at the end of April. I've lost 45lbs. I wouldnt recommend the surgery for anyone, only because its a decision that only you can make. I did everything I could before for years, because I thought surgery was too drastic a step. I was on WW and low calorie, no carb, ect and everything I did I failed at. I journaled like crazy, I knew every calorie I put in my mouth, but still, I would eat 1/2 gallon of ice cream and then write it down. Finally at the end of last yr since my insurance covered it, I decided to go for it. I had no complications at all, and I have heard that the sleeve is a much better surgery for a lot of people because theres not as much malnutrition issues and the RNY and a lot less complications as there are with the lap band. My recovery was fairly fast, I went grocery shopping at WalMart 4 days after, but I was sore. Whoever said that it doesnt get rid of the issues though is right. I struggle still with making the better choices in my small stomach. They dont operate on your brain unfortunately:) I have to say though, it does force me to eat less and gives me incentive to get to the gym. Since I'm lighter, its easier for me to work out, where before, I couldnt make it for a long walk. My weight loss is slowing down now, but I'm consistently losing each week, and thats the most important thing, that I know its coming off. I should be at my 1st goal of losing 65lbs by Nov if not sooner. I know that there are people that have had surgery that have lost more than I have, but you really cant compare yourself with anyone else. Anyway, I feel that, for me, it was the right decision, but your best bet is to find a surgeon and go to a seminar to see what its all about. Theres a lot of misinformation and i know a person that knew a person blah blah out there, so your better to do your own research and talk to real Drs. Good luck!
  • VogtAndrea
    VogtAndrea Posts: 236
    Has anyone here had the bariatric vertical sleeve type of surgery done?
    I've got very mixed feelings about it and this is the type of surgery my bariatric specialist wants for me.
  • tlsegar
    tlsegar Posts: 185 Member
    I had the Lap Band one year ago yesterday. I have absolutely no regrets and I think that's due to a combination of several things. This was a decision that was several years in the making. I have struggled with my weight my entire life, so I started looking into WLS in my early 20s (I'm 31 now). Ultimately I decided on Lap Band because it was reversible should I develop complications. And for what may be a turn off for some people, was a positive for me and that is that the results of the Lap Band tend to come at a slower pace. I didn't have the need or the desire to lose 100 lbs in 6 months. Yes, I had (and still do) a significant amount of weight to lose, but I wanted it to be at a steady pace. I understood the importance of really learning and adopting healthy lifestyle habits. I wanted to have the Lap Band as a tool and not a crutch. In fact, my ultimate goal is to have the band removed 5 years out because I have reached and maintained my goal weight and no longer need the band. The amount of food I'm able to eat is less, but I still have the responsibility to make smart choices. I'm still learning. I still have to stay motivated to keep physically active. As I type this, I am having an internal battle about whether I will get up in the morning to make a 9 am yoga class and hit the treadmill. The surgery doesn't change that or make those decisions easier. But I am happy where I am today. I've lost 72 lbs since my surgery and 87 overall. This is the most weight I've ever lost. And the most motivated I've ever been to keep going.

    The decision to have WLS should involve a lot of soul searching. It's not a permanent solution - regardless of what surgery you choose. Everyone who is considering WLS needs to take inventory of why they want it, what their expectations are, how much work they are willing to put in, and long term goals. I think being realistic about all of that is the key to success. Good luck to you in whatever you decide. Feel free to friend me. :)
  • sknopster
    sknopster Posts: 11 Member
    I had made my mind up to have the Roux-N-Y surgery after studying various WL surgeries. On June 23rd 2012 I attended the first meeting (an intake) and the next day attended a group meeting. Instantly I began eating and living as though I had already had the surgery. I did not cheat and have been using this site ever since. My first weigh in was 324 and as of today 7-28-2012 I weighed in at 294...26 lbs is 33 days!! My goal as determined by the doctor and nutritionist was established at min of 70 lbs. max 100 lbs and was deemed to be reasonable for me, a male 6'2", 48 yrs old with cholesterol under control due to medicine and normal blood pressure. I am rethinking my decision to have any type of surgery at all. Without the benefit of a smaller stomach pouch, I felt real hunger, but maintained my intake at 2,000 calories or less every day. The last week, hunger has not been an issue and the truth is I am actually eating more food than I used to. I only used to eat 2 times per day, but the meals were satisfying. Due to a disease, I take pain medication which tends to slow your metabolic rate. I have cut my meds by 75% and instead use an electronic TENS unit for pain issues. According to the Body GEM, my at rest metabolic rate is 2,798 calories per day. Since the intake process is going to take another 2 to 3 months, I will wait to see if I can continue this lifestyle and my weight loss. As long as it is steady (I don't expect to lose 3/4 lbs / day for much longer), I think I'll end up accepting the life style change and avoid the surgery. Besides, I LOVE TO DRINK WATER... it's easy to drink 2 16 oz glasses in rapid succession and I enjoy it. I don't want to "sip" water. I love water too much!! (odd that's my worst fear).

    Good luck to all, I will post in about a month if this thread is still available. 225 here I come!
  • avrilamor
    avrilamor Posts: 30
    Thank you all for your advice, stories, opinions and support. I definitely appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment. I'm 30 years old..facing health problems a 30 year old shouldn't face. I have hypertension and I take medication for it. I'm concerned about becoming diabetic. I want to become a Mommy, but I doubt I could get pregnant much less have a healthy pregnancy @ my current weight. All of these things equal to a WLS...or do they? I'm going to speak with my doctor, do the appropriate research and make my decision. In the meantime, I'll still be counting calories and exercising. Thanks again and feel free to add me! I'm a cool gal ;)
  • Hi there! I had the vertical sleeve surgery and I've lost 177 lbs so far. I have to lose another 100 lbs. I've combined healthy eating and exercise to continue on the path. The surgery I had was by far the best thing I have ever done for myself. It took me 10 years and gaining another 100 lbs before I made the decision though. I had to pay cash as the insurance would not cover it. Knowing what I do now, I would have paid triple!!! It has changed my life along with making changes with diet and exercise.

    Exercise has been the biggest change in my life and the people I know who have had long term success with WLS are those who made fitness a part of their lives. Last year this time I weighed 417 pounds and could barely walk across the room. Today I go to Crossfit! and love it !!! Good luck with everything!
  • MyOwnSunshine
    MyOwnSunshine Posts: 1,312 Member
    There is a VSG (Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy, Sleeve) Group here. Search for VSG and join the group. The group is not the most active, but the members of the group form a very supportive friend group and have an active news feed.
  • leighanngates
    leighanngates Posts: 20 Member
    I had RNY in 2002, lost 150 pounds from then until 2004, then gained back 110 over the last 6 years. I've been on here for 20 days and doing pretty good. The thing I am noticing is that the more I eat better, the less it is taking to "fill" me up, and I am sometimes having trouble eating all my calories. As long as I am making healthy choices, do I HAVE to eat 1200? Is there some kind of setting we can change for having had the surgery? Advice and support welcomed.
  • Karie68
    Karie68 Posts: 1 Member
    I am on day 15 of my liquid diet...have lost 16 lbs so far. I am having RNY gastric bypass in one week. I have been in the bariatric program for 2 years and feel I am more than ready for all the challenges that having this surgery will bring.
  • caroldavison332
    caroldavison332 Posts: 864 Member
    If this only works because you have to discipline yourself to only eat 1/2 of an apple, just discipline yourself and forget danger surgery.
  • Ni_La82
    Ni_La82 Posts: 16 Member
    Hello, I have questions on how lap band works. Does lap band inhibit the body's ability to absorb calories? I read through some lap band literature and it mentioned that patients must eat a "well chewed" 1200 calorie per day diet. I'm just curious if it helps if you're already on a 1200 calorie diet?

    It's my understanding that gastric bypass can inhibit the absorption of calories which is why nutrition deficiency is a risk with that one. I guess I just don't understand how lap band constricting the stomach works. Does lapband just make you feel full or is there more to it?
  • hockey7fan
    hockey7fan Posts: 281 Member
    I had a lap band in 2012. The band is placed around a small "pouch" at the top of the stomach about the size of a golf ball. Food goes into the pouch and it takes a very long time to move into the rest of the stomach which makes you feel full faster and longer. It does not inhibit the body's ability to absorb calories but you will feel full on much less food. I don't miss having the port in my body and having needles put in my stomach to get the fills.

    I had the lap band removed a few months ago and had a vertical sleeve done instead. After two years with the band we couldn't get it adjusted properly and I was throwing up pretty much everything I ate or drank. So I opted for a revision.

    With the sleeve I eat about 800 calories a day of lean proteins and veggies and some fruit. For example, I had a scrambled egg for breakfast with 1 oz of cheese, 1 oz of ham, and 1 TBSP of onion, bell pepper and tomato. Lunch was 1 cup of butter lettuce, 1/2 a tomato, 1 oz of shredded carrot and 1/4 cup cucumber slices with 1 oz cheese and 3 oz chicken breast. I'm never hungry. I eat 3 meals a day and in between I drink fluids.

    My surgery went well and I have had no complications or issues. This week I was able to get off all my prescription meds including my blood pressure medication that I have been on for the last 34 years. In 3 months I've lost 38 lbs and started doing water aerobics 3 days a week. I am very happy with the surgery and I'm only sorry I didn't do this a long time ago.
  • afatpersonwholikesfood
    afatpersonwholikesfood Posts: 577 Member
    edited August 2015
    I have NOT had WLS, but I figured I would give my opinion since it's something I have pondered and looked into. I think it is drastic and scary, but I also think it's a tool. I think people who are in the appropriate weight class and willing to do the work can certainly use all the help they can get. I know that gastric bypass is the most successful. To me, it's also the scariest. You should know that WLS is much more successful in the long run than losing weight without it, but that it still has a failure rate of 80% - meaning 80% of those who have the surgery regain most of the weight.
  • AlexisUPenn
    AlexisUPenn Posts: 76 Member
    I have NOT had WLS, but I figured I would give my opinion since it's something I have pondered and looked into. I think it is drastic and scary, but I also think it's a tool. I think people who are in the appropriate weight class and willing to do the work can certainly use all the help they can get. I know that gastric bypass is the most successful. To me, it's also the scariest. You should know that WLS is much more successful in the long run than losing weight without it, but that it still has a failure rate of 80% - meaning 80% of those who have the surgery regain most of the weight.

    I'm not sure where you're getting your stats at about failure rate but that's not accurate. About 80% of weight loss patients will lose and maintain 50% excess weight loss. It's only about a 10-20% failure rate. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3470459/
  • AlexisUPenn
    AlexisUPenn Posts: 76 Member
    I had the sleeve done 6/23/15 and have lost 33lbs since surgery. The decision to undergo surgery is highly personal. In the past I was very against surgery... I was great at losing weight. Did it so many times but I'd always come to a breaking point and gain it back. Over the last year I actually struggled to lose weight. That's when I decided to do more research about the surgery. Yes it's a tool, you need to also put in the effort. But for me it has worked wonders. I have absolutely no hunger whatsoever. I have no desire for crap food. Something about the surgery really changed my hormones and metabolism. They are starting to research this more. My only regret was not getting it done sooner. Do your research and do what's best for you.
  • ki4eld
    ki4eld Posts: 1,213 Member
    edited August 2015
    I had RNY in January. I've lost well and continue to lose. I had 4 doctors from 4 different disciplines all saying the same thing... get it or die soon. If only one or even two doctors had suggested it, I wouldn't have done it. I used the scientific evidence presented and nothing else. I went through 3 years of diet with my GP, then 3 years of diet and exercise therapy with specialists before deciding to do it. After that, it was another 9 months of learning how to eat and practicing it while preparing for WLS.

    My cautions are always this...


    1. WLS isn't a quick fix. If you eat poorly now, you'll eat poorly later. Spend your time learning how to eat properly and then do it and see what results you get. MFP is useful for that. Use it now, use it after WLS, use it for your lifetime. You need to use the tools available. MFP is one of them. You'll need the discipline after surgery even more than you need it now or you'll gain back the weight. Might as well start now weighing, logging, and holding yourself accountable for everything that goes into your mouth. It'll be tougher after surgery.

    2. It is NOT for people who "just need to lose weight." It's a medical intervention for medical issues. If your issue is poor diet, you need a dietitian. If it's poor discipline, you need to learn some. WLS won't fix any of those problems. You should see a psychologist/psychiatrist that specializes in bariatric mental health. They can help you work through problems now and avoid problems later. You can also learn some mental tricks to get you over the rough patches.

    3. And there will be rough patches, maybe forever. WLS is painful, expensive, and permanent. The side effects and complications are real and maybe lifelong. If you have bad habits after surgery, you could die. If you don't know how food, macros, and micros affect you, you could die. See #1. You should do your research and not just listen to the doctors. Doctors know medical, but you should spend a lot of time talking to people who have to live with it every day. It ain't easy.

    4. Don't just jump into it. I said, "Do your research," and that was no idle advice. If you don't know why VGS would be indicated or RNY indicated, you need to learn. It's a whole different world after WLS or it should be. If it's not, see #1 and #2. Don't rush. If you can't rattle off what you're eating, how it affects you, and what you should get out of that food *right now* then you aren't ready for WLS. Do your research, so you know what to expect.

    5. You'll get a lot of flack and bullshyte lip service from people like the one above that said, "If it's all about portion, you can do that without WLS." See #1 and #2. If your doctors and medical evidence say those don't apply, then seriously consider it. Co-morbidities are an important factor. If you don't know what those are or their long-term effects on your health in comparison to WLS effects, back to research you go. Once you know the facts cold, stand by them and by your decision. I like the phrase "feck off" for the lip service folks, but you'll need to find -and then regularly employ- the phrase that works for you.



    In the end, WLS is a medical tool that'll help, but you're still responsible for making it work. You are responsible. Not your co-workers when they bring food into the office. Not stores when they offer free samples. Not your family when you have to eat one way at the table and everyone else is eating otherwise. Not holidays because... holidays. Not your friends when you socialize. You. So, it's up to you to deal with those issues now, before surgery is a consideration. Otherwise, WLS will end up being just another diet failure.
  • garber6th
    garber6th Posts: 1,890 Member
    I had gastric sleeve surgery almost two years ago and have lost over 200 lbs. My health is now better than ever, as is my quality of life. It is definitely just a tool, but if integrated into your lifestyle with other changes it is extremely effective. I suggest you join a couple of bariatric surgery specific weight loss groups here on MFP -

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/637-gastric-bypass-vsg-lapband

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/1052-vsgers

    The people in these groups have actual experience and not just opinions, and they will be honest and helpful with you. If you have any questions feel free to PM me.

  • I'm not sure where you're getting your stats at about failure rate but that's not accurate. About 80% of weight loss patients will lose and maintain 50% excess weight loss. It's only about a 10-20% failure rate. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3470459/

    I did some Googling, and I am also now seeing a 20% failure rate (defined as losing at least 50% of excess weight from what it looks like). I saw some information on people 8 years out, and it mentioned the average loss being 65% of excess weight. Well, damn. I don't know how I had my numbers so backwards, but if it's that successful, and if obesity is supposedly costing so much money in healthcare, why the hell aren't insurance companies covering WLS?

  • ki4eld
    ki4eld Posts: 1,213 Member
    <snip>if it's that successful, and if obesity is supposedly costing so much money in healthcare, why the hell aren't insurance companies covering WLS?

    Many do. Mine did providing I met the criteria and agreed to jump through a lot of hoops. Now that obesity is considered a chronic medical condition, I suspect more doctors will become more versed and more insurance companies will cover it.
  • AlexisUPenn
    AlexisUPenn Posts: 76 Member
    It's ok just thought I'd clarify. Still WLS requires a lot of effort, healthy choices and planning.

    More and more insurance companies are but hopefully in the next few years most will.
  • afatpersonwholikesfood
    afatpersonwholikesfood Posts: 577 Member
    edited August 2015
    I don't have a link, but I think what happened is that there is information on 80% of WLS patients regaining some weight over time, and that figure was used grossly out of context in an essay I read. It never clarified how much weight. Obviously, as another poster pointed out, it's not enough weight to keep the surgery from being a success for most of the people who have been followed in the studies. That info was news to me for sure. It's been bugging me, and I had to figure out where that very high "failure" rate came from.
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    edited August 2015
    There are groups here dedicated to the various surgeries.

    Look for good resources online (things like PubMed, MedLinePlus, Mayo Clinic...).
    The links for MedLine & Mayo Clinic go to their info on stomach surgery.

    And think hard about if you're willing to put up with the severe restrictions stomach surgery will put
    on you for the rest of your life. Also, the health problems which can result.

    ETA: When I first met my weight doc (endocrinologist specializing in weight issues), he offered to
    set me up for surgery. I'd done my research and knew it wasn't a healthy choice.
    When I hit 50 lb down, he told me I'd lost as much as they'd expect from someone with stomach
    surgery... only I'm still whole, can eat whatever I choose, and have lost more weight.
    He also told me that they've done LOTS of reversals of the lap band.
  • GaleHawkins
    GaleHawkins Posts: 8,159 Member
    Thanks for everyone sharing because this is an interesting subject. I only had 75 pounds to lose so I never read about it before. I have lost 50 pounds eating a typical post bariatric diet which is working well for about a year now. Well the post bariatric type diet worked after I finally broke my carb addiction and cut my carbs to the read some doctors recommend who do the surgery.

    Getting the weight off that is killing us is important. The how we get it off is optional.
  • Cymricdragon
    Cymricdragon Posts: 13 Member
    I had gastric bypass in late September 2000. Within 18 months I lost 200 lbs (not including the 185 lb of ex-husband). I did gain some back, about 50 lbs, which I am working on get rid of. It is more successful post-op - eat less, more more actually works for me now.

    Pre-op weight was 400 lbs. I simply was not able to lose the weight. Doctor put me on an exchange type diet at about 1000 calories less than my BMR should have been and I gained! Deciding to have surgery is not easy and depends on your own situation. I was looking at being dead within 5 years without it. For me there was no other choice.

    It has not been "easy". Yes, weight comes off easy but you are forced to learn a new way of eating. Some foods I cannot have. Rich, sugary foods are obviously out. But hot dogs are iffy, I tend to eat them at home if I want one. I have a serious problem with steak as well. And no al dente pasta ever!! You also have to chew your food real well or it will come back up (if you're lucky - if not, you're miserable for hours). And gaining it back is easy as well - just start grazing. That is how I did it and once I stop the grazing and watch what I'm eating, I lose. Go figure.

    But for all these issues, and if I were in the same circumstances as I was, I would do it again in a heartbeat. It was awful not being able to lose unless I ate less than 1000 calories a day. So again, look at your circumstances and do your research (both on type of surgery AND your surgeon) before making your decision.
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