bloody men!!!!!

sugerfree2
sugerfree2 Posts: 69
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I really wish i was single alot of the time !!!!!!!!! sorry no-one tot alk to & just had a row 1 of many with the oh !!!!!!!!!!

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  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    You know you can be single if you really want to be...why make two people miserable?
  • Nessiechickie
    Nessiechickie Posts: 1,392 Member
    I don't really understand your post, but since your venting I'm going to vent as well.
    Spending another day no appetite, upset stomach no desire to be awake all because my guy wanted to pick a fight on drinking with his mom at her house and not coming home. First he said if you are going to drink with my mom then do it not at his house... so that is what I did. then it is don't drink or party at all with my mom.... well that is not going to happen and at least you know where I am and she wont let me do anything bad. But anyways some days i wish i was single again.... but then i look down at my ring and try to get the thought out of my head.
  • samra2012
    samra2012 Posts: 715
    is this some kind of disease?? :huh:

    a lot of people wants to be single again... me too
  • Maryirene16
    Maryirene16 Posts: 18
    Things like these make me happy I am single. Only once in awhile
    do I hate it. Quiet peaceful and everything is done my way.
  • JessigirlJb
    JessigirlJb Posts: 656
    is this some kind of disease?? :huh:

    a lot of people wants to be single again... me too
    I wish i didnt want to be single. I have an amazingly great husband but i don't know maybe its I have been with him since i was 16 and got married at 18 that just makes me curious..
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    Married my husband when I was twenty-four...going on twenty-five years together. Marriage is hard work, and I cannot imagine doing it with someone you wouldn't follow into the gates of hell...seriously.
  • samra2012
    samra2012 Posts: 715
    is this some kind of disease?? :huh:

    a lot of people wants to be single again... me too
    I wish i didnt want to be single. I have an amazingly great husband but i don't know maybe its I have been with him since i was 16 and got married at 18 that just makes me curious..

    i got married 15 years ago... and for me its simple... if u dont work on the relation its going to break in some momment... im just tired...15 years of crap... "married x the kids" at this point... sucks
  • nurseandie1978
    nurseandie1978 Posts: 1
    Want to be loved and Appreciated, maybe one day
  • RealWomenLovePitbulls
    RealWomenLovePitbulls Posts: 729 Member
    sad :( but there are men out there who treat you good and who you will WANT to spend your time with. everyone has arguements, that's normal, but if ur unhappy more days than u are happy, it's just not worth it.
  • ksumme
    ksumme Posts: 283
    I've been married for 16 years, and we've been together almost 19 years. We have definitely had tough times, mostly due to financial struggles early on. We have also had times on not agreeing on parenting.
    With his depression at its worst about 6 years ago, I had to make a decision to stay or go. I am SOOOO very happy I chose to not give up - on him or us. He is the nicest guy. So caring and honest to a fault at times.

    Our relationship is built first on friendship and respect. That has carried us through a lot.

    If you don't respect your mate, or feel they don't respect you - I don't think that is fixable.
    If you don't like them right now, but respect them, that is fixable.

    Focus on the good points, and what you love about that person. Don't 'forget' all the bad, but if it is REALLY bad, work on it. If it is annoying but not really bad, find a way to accept it.

    Just my opinion.

    Good luck to all!!! I hope everyone can be as happy as we are.
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Being single is overrated in many ways.
  • Cinnamon0603
    Cinnamon0603 Posts: 149 Member
    Being single is overrated in many ways.

    Agreed!
  • CassiusKnox
    CassiusKnox Posts: 305 Member
    Be careful. The grass often looks greener.... but it ain't necessarily so.

    Couples need to be careful they aren't taking each other for granted.

    I saw a good bumper sticker once... it said..

    "If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.... water your lawn"
  • CassiusKnox
    CassiusKnox Posts: 305 Member
    I've been married for 16 years, and we've been together almost 19 years. We have definitely had tough times, mostly due to financial struggles early on. We have also had times on not agreeing on parenting.
    With his depression at its worst about 6 years ago, I had to make a decision to stay or go. I am SOOOO very happy I chose to not give up - on him or us. He is the nicest guy. So caring and honest to a fault at times.

    Our relationship is built first on friendship and respect. That has carried us through a lot.

    If you don't respect your mate, or feel they don't respect you - I don't think that is fixable.
    If you don't like them right now, but respect them, that is fixable.

    Focus on the good points, and what you love about that person. Don't 'forget' all the bad, but if it is REALLY bad, work on it. If it is annoying but not really bad, find a way to accept it.

    Just my opinion.

    Good luck to all!!! I hope everyone can be as happy as we are.

    You sound lovely. He's a lucky man.
  • Voncreepy2
    Voncreepy2 Posts: 1,450 Member
    Married my husband when I was twenty-four...going on twenty-five years together. Marriage is hard work, and I cannot imagine doing it with someone you wouldn't follow into the gates of hell...seriously.

    I completely agree with you!!!! It takes COMMITMENT......sometimes you give, sometimes he gives....sometimes you hang on because no one gives.....but I am so happy that I have a husband to share the best and worst with.....I cannot imagine my life without him.
    <3
  • skimbrough28
    skimbrough28 Posts: 21 Member
    People who are married want to be single and people who are single want to be attached or married. I'm divorced, and take it from me.....dating, and people out here are all different ....the grass really isn't greener on this side...appreciate what you have....cause this out here is nothing to look forward to.
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    Yeah, I hate being single. It makes me feel unwanted and worthless, which is why breakups are really hard for me even if the guy was an *kitten*. Luckily, I have a good man now, even if his work sometimes gets in the way of us spending time together. :)
  • ksumme
    ksumme Posts: 283

    You sound lovely. He's a lucky man.


    Thank you!! And, yes he is!! Well, we both are lucky!!! (haha)
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    Think of all those poor, single rhinos at Busch Gardens... Be happy you have a mate... Or you'll end up pooping in front of tourists on the rhino ralley attraction!
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    Think of all those poor, single rhinos at Busch Gardens... Be happy you have a mate... Or you'll end up pooping in front of tourists on the rhino ralley attraction!

    Love you babe! lolllzzz
  • mamasmaltz3
    mamasmaltz3 Posts: 1,111 Member
    I have been married for almost fifteen years and when divorce is not an option for you, you make it work. That word is not in our vocabulary. And trust me, we have had our share of problems. Problems that would have made most people quit. But, thank the Lord we have stuck it out and we are both happier than we ever thought possible.
  • GhostPack
    GhostPack Posts: 197 Member


    "If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.... water your lawn"
    AWESOME
  • amanda_ataraxia
    amanda_ataraxia Posts: 400 Member
    It is OK to vent about these things, but I am going to have to agree.

    I have been married for 5 years and we have had our ups and downs already, but I am so glad we have stuck it out and stayed together.
    Just be thankful for the little things. Believe me, you will miss them if ever given the chance.
    My husband is currently serving one year in Korea and it is heart breaking.
  • Juls_
    Juls_ Posts: 3 Member
    Agreed, I have been in crappy relationships, and great relationships. Respect and friendship go a long way. Creating strong communication is important and I believe it is essential for being partners in each others life. And isn't that the goal? To have a loving, caring, long term partner (aka marriage)?

    I have a wonderful man, and could not imagine my life without him. . . even when he is in the wrong.
  • Juls_
    Juls_ Posts: 3 Member
    I've been married for 16 years, and we've been together almost 19 years. We have definitely had tough times, mostly due to financial struggles early on. We have also had times on not agreeing on parenting.
    With his depression at its worst about 6 years ago, I had to make a decision to stay or go. I am SOOOO very happy I chose to not give up - on him or us. He is the nicest guy. So caring and honest to a fault at times.

    Our relationship is built first on friendship and respect. That has carried us through a lot.

    If you don't respect your mate, or feel they don't respect you - I don't think that is fixable.
    If you don't like them right now, but respect them, that is fixable.

    Focus on the good points, and what you love about that person. Don't 'forget' all the bad, but if it is REALLY bad, work on it. If it is annoying but not really bad, find a way to accept it.

    Just my opinion.

    Good luck to all!!! I hope everyone can be as happy as we are.
  • sugerfree2
    sugerfree2 Posts: 69
    thanks for replies, as soon as i sent it i thought woops not the rite place but i had to vent so sorry if i offended anyone along the way just if i see i post uninteresting i just dont read it so thought ppl would do the same .... been married 15 yrs this year & have been through loads & loads of tough times just often hard to justify between '' is it just the stress of finances , nothing in common '' or is it really not working... how long do you wait ?? until its to late :(
  • samra2012
    samra2012 Posts: 715
    thanks for replies, as soon as i sent it i thought woops not the rite place but i had to vent so sorry if i offended anyone along the way just if i see i post uninteresting i just dont read it so thought ppl would do the same .... been married 15 yrs this year & have been through loads & loads of tough times just often hard to justify between '' is it just the stress of finances , nothing in common '' or is it really not working... how long do you wait ?? until its to late :(

    hard question... i really dont know... :huh:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I'm not surprised by the comments in here.


    For many, what we are doing by being a part of this site (getting into better shape) is helping us to build more self confidence. So if we think WE are doing better we might also think we can DO better.

    I'm as guilty as anyone.



    Reality is, if the grass is greener somewhere else, you need to water your own.
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
    Being single is overrated in many ways.

    Agreed!
    2nd !

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