Discourged and feel like giving up :(

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  • YoYo1951
    YoYo1951 Posts: 370
    It sounds like you are also suffering from depression. Chronic pain can do that to you, and frankly, it sometimes feels hopeless. Trying stationary biking, it is wonderful for bad arthritic knees. Not the one where your legs are out in front of you, that puts too much pressure on your knees. Don't give up on your path to a better healthier lifestyle. You can do this, you just took the first step by letting us know how you are feeling...Hang in there, most all of us have thought about giving up also.. You can do this!!
  • Bellren
    Bellren Posts: 14
    You can lose weight without specific exercise, if necessary. I know, because this is my situation also, due to injury. The objective is to achieve a healthy defecit between your total daily energy expenditure versus the calories you consume, and even for those with a sedentary lifestyle this can be achieved, and can still result in significant weight loss. Good luck.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Please keep moving foward. Don't give up on yourself. Give yourself a little time and some love. You only have two choices to continue moving foward or give up.
  • lynz4589
    lynz4589 Posts: 389 Member
    I have knee trouble Im waiting on mri scan next week and on a waiting list for an operation, I still go to the gym 5 days a week just change up the routine. Machines I find work best and what I was advised by doc is treadmill, bike and crosstrainer - Ive designed an hours worth of routine that provides a great burn without putting any stress on my knee, my friend also suffers with siatica and uses the same routine as me. Its not easy and does take longer to shed the lbs but you will get there eventually. Ive been told by doctors not to run and I stupidly tried to last week, I lasted 1 mins 44 seconds before my knee popped out so lesson learnt.
  • DON'T GIVE UP!

    You are so close. You will find a way to work with your body and get to the place you want to be. xxx
  • nursewhitman
    nursewhitman Posts: 24 Member
    "When you feel like giving up, remember why you started."
  • try swimming, its low impact and you can burn a lot of calories just by treading water.
  • amy1612
    amy1612 Posts: 1,356 Member
    Im gonna go ahead and be the mean poster and say complain much?

    Being healthy is a marathon not a sprint, you just going to give up and decide at 22 to spend the rest of your life being unhealthy and unfit? Pull yourself together, stop feeling sorry for yourself and comparing yourself to others. The point of making changes is to be the best YOU that you can be. You need to start being your own biggest cheerleader and push yourself. Do what YOU can, do YOUR best, and you'll see the results you want :)
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I've only got about 20 lb. left to lose, but I feel like giving up. Due to sciatica and knee issues, I can't push myself very hard (the one time that I really need to!). Sometimes, even grocery shopping leaves me limping around.

    I feel like no matter how I eat or how much I push myself to workout, it'll never be enough. People at this weight loss stage are running or working out like mad. I can barely do 20 jumping jacks without hurting myself. So, what's the point in trying anymore?

    you tell us what the point in trying is...?

    dont you want to be healthier and live a longer and fuller life?!
  • Ralphrabbit
    Ralphrabbit Posts: 351 Member
    Many people manage this without exercise at al. Some of my friends & I live in wheelchairs or are physically unable to exercise & are doing this on diet alone. If you want to succeed you can. Try swimming as it is non-weight bearing
  • BethGaw
    BethGaw Posts: 54 Member
    Don't give up. Just don't. It's hard when you have health issues that make working out difficult but just gently persevere. Do what you can and be kind to yourself. The feeling when you get there does so much for your mental and physical health. You can do it. Just sitting still for a while leaves me limping around though I'm only 52. We've all just got to keep at it.
  • suziecue66
    suziecue66 Posts: 1,312 Member
    I've only got about 20 lb. left to lose, but I feel like giving up. Due to sciatica and knee issues, I can't push myself very hard (the one time that I really need to!). Sometimes, even grocery shopping leaves me limping around.

    I feel like no matter how I eat or how much I push myself to workout, it'll never be enough. People at this weight loss stage are running or working out like mad. I can barely do 20 jumping jacks without hurting myself. So, what's the point in trying anymore?

    How did you get the issues with sciatica and knees? How long have you been a vegan? You can't give up at only 22 years of age.
  • You will always regret giving up...keep going slow and steady. You can do it =)
  • Elleinnz
    Elleinnz Posts: 1,661 Member
    You know I read this and was soooo tempted to get snarky - but I will try not to be.

    I am going into hospital for a total knee replacement on Friday - since the beginning of the year I have been in agony most days, but that has not stopped me from working out 5 to 6 days a week - and most days get 500 calorie plus burns.....not one day have I said "I feel like giving up....."

    When you have injuries you have one of two options - you can play the victim and go "poor me", or you can choose to find ways to work around your injury - Personally I chose the second option - my health and fitness is too important to me to not do that!!
    At 52 I just realised that my body is going to pack up and challenge me in ways that is not always ideal - but that is not going to stop me from being the best I can be.

    I do massive upper body weight workouts - and have increased hugely in my strength
    I do "kick boxing" once a week - we need to go light on the kicking bit, I have to be quite "flat footed", but I pack a massive punch with my fists and elbows.
    I swim and do aqua aerobics, most days I spend 30 minutes on a stationary bike, and I can also row on the rowing machine at the gym...
    I also get a huge cardio workout from battle ropes, sledgehammer throws and kettle bell swings...

    So - if you want this bad enough you can do it - good luck and I hope you find something that works for you :-)
  • Never give up! I will be going to boot camp at 14 years of age and with my weight and not give up even when last year i fractured my foot but kept running and working out with every one else. Not once did I say I quit or Im done. So do not give up! its just 20 lbs. Just eat a little less. or go to internet sites that have weight loss tips. Or even try just upper body work outs. And if you work out every day If you stop for 1 day and take a break it wont kill you. infact it makes you morre motivated to keep going the next day. So good luck. and Do not quit
  • Meraid
    Meraid Posts: 148 Member
    I gave up almost a year ago and can't help but think... if I hadn't given up back then, would I be happy now? YES. Now I'm under a time limit. And when I feel like today just isn't my day, I stick to monitoring my food. You don't have to work out to lose weight! Focus on your diet for now, until more of the weight is off, and try what everyone else is saying and try yoga or swimming. Try things that won't strain your knee. I'm also young, and I hurt my knee bad more than a year ago. It hurts when I strain it. So I try my best to work around it until it improves.
    Good luck and don't give up now!
  • Clarevmb
    Clarevmb Posts: 211 Member
    never give up!
    weight loss is mostly calorie control, noticed on one of the forums some one quoted it as 80% calorie control, 20% exercise.

    Feel for you as you're being forced to stop you're normal exercise routine through health issues but do wonder how you would be if you gave up exercise and put weight back on again? As others mention swimming is great and basic yoga worth a try..
    Or a fitness DVD as these days they're often broken up into short sections and initially follow the beginners just to try to keep yourself moving as much as you can manage at the moment.


    Good luck
  • speediejane
    speediejane Posts: 496 Member
    do not give up- water workouts and cycling low impact workouts are needed-onwards and upwards:smile:
  • mummy_gerdes
    mummy_gerdes Posts: 336 Member
    have you tried rebouncding (trampoline) i have bad knees also and am the same as you cant push as hard sometimes but i found that a rebounder or my nephews trampoline is a great workout and my knees are not as bad after wards. it is a hell of a work out aswell!! keep going 20 pounds is a great finsh sight to have!

    xxx