Not new but very shy

FoodPwnr
FoodPwnr Posts: 153 Member
I have been using mfp for a while. I have just recently started to make a few friends and post. I am very shy and feel very fat and ugly. Thank you so much to the friends who accepted my requests, they keep me going and are very supportive. I would love to meet some more friends. I have my diary open so any advice would be great, as the scale sees to have stalled.

Thanks and just wanted to say love this site it's so helpful

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  • mmreed
    mmreed Posts: 436 Member
    Hello! Welcome to MFP!

    Add me as a friend and take part in my daily fitness discussions, tips, and commentary on MyFitnessPal!

    MFP is a really great resource to keep you focused and connect you with a wealth of fitness resources and like minded folks.


    1. Log your foods every day - don't skip days, or parts of your day. log everything!
    2. Analyze each day - see where it went good and where it went bad - too much fat? maybe too many carbs? over the calorie limit? Identify and plan how to correct it for tomorrow.
    3. Reach out to the community with questions or advice needs.
    4. Build a network of friends here!
    5. Above all, do not believe everything you read here. There is a lot of great advice, but also some misleading and hype type advice. Part of getting fit is educating yourself in aspects of health and fitness. Make sure any questionable advice is looked at with a scientific eye and look for facts, evidence, and most importantly real world proof.
    6. You are more than a number. Sometimes the scale may not say what you hoped - thats fine. weight loss is not a straight line declination. Its a bumpy line that drops over time. Don't let single day numbers get your focus away from term based results.
    7. Vary your exercises. Your body forms memories and can slow down how it burns fat and builds muscles. Keep it confused! Hit it hard with cardio styles. Build lean muscle to burn even more fat.
    8. and above all - take your photo now! You will want to look back and have a starting BEFORE picture to proudly display along with your series of PRESENT or CURRENT photos during your transformation and continued lifestyle of fitness.

    I welcome you, and anyone else out there to add me as a friend. I have made fitness and health my passion and love the idea of folks joining me in my new lifestyle of being fit, healthy, and most importantly - HAPPY!.

    I'm here to support and motivate!!! I find my own success comes easier when I help and fuel other folks success.

    and remember - most folks care more about the quality of fuel they put in their lawn mowers than the fuel they put in their bodies. Don't be one of those people. Whole foods. Natural foods. Intelligent choices.



    Fit for life,
    Mark M. Reed
    aka Marc Mayhem - Fitness Blogger, and Motivator!


    Add me as a friend and take part in my daily fitness discussions, tips, and commentary on MyFitnessPal!
    ,,,,,
  • Im sorry to hear about how you feel . I can sympathize. If you ever need someone to talk with please feel free to add me .
  • FoodPwnr
    FoodPwnr Posts: 153 Member
    Thank you to all my new friends
  • ems1583
    ems1583 Posts: 150 Member
    Feel free to add me! :)
  • uwdawg07
    uwdawg07 Posts: 372 Member
    I'm sorry you're feeling so down on yourself. Look at the amazing progress you've made! Feel free to add me. :)
  • mgobluetx12
    mgobluetx12 Posts: 1,326 Member
    I would love to be your friend and help you stay motivated.
  • feel free to add me!
    anybody is welcome too!
    good luck and ill be there for you
    when you need it!