Let's Respect Each others Differences

Im not trying to offend anyone here, but couldn't calling someone anorexic because of their size be just as offensive as calling someone fat because of their size? There are all kinds of shapes and sizes out there, and you can't ban pictures of someone because of their body shape, just like you can't ban pictures of food because they contribute to obesity eating disorder. Who is to say that all thinspiration pictures where of girls "suffering from an eating disorder?" I'm pretty sure the people in so called "Fatspiration" are suffering just as much or maybe there not, its not for me to say.
Why is society so hard on anorexics and not as hard on obese people? Why is calling someone overweight offensive when calling someone anorexic isn't?I just don't understand why society shoves all these things in your face then tells you it's wrong to want to be like that!Thin girls, models clothes, make up, all make girls want to be thin and pretty but when they try society points the finger and says "Oh no you must have a disease." Then society shoves fast food in your face, in the face of children, come to McDonald's and get a free toy in your happy meal, they don't tell you it comes with diabetes and heart conditions too... then once your fat society says "Oh no you must have a disease." It is seriously messed up and no one person is to blame All I can tell you is its not fair to pick out girls and label them according to their size big or small. Just remember next time your sitting with a girlfriend at lunch and she orders a salad an your ordering a hamburger and fries before you go to call her anorexic or too skinny that you too might end up on the other side of the eating disorder spectrum its called obesity. Under eating or overeating, both out of control and trying to fill a void in their life. Control, sadness, depression, childhood issues. Let's just respect each other!