I think I'm losing it

Unfortunately, only you know what is going to motivate you. It is different for everyone. For some it may be a picture of themselves, for others it could be an upcoming vacation or reunion. One thing that gets me going is to sign up for some activity, like a 5k (or maybe a run/walk charity event). Once I have made the commitment, it keeps me going even when I want to sit and eat a bag of chips instead.

I've been in your shoes--knowing that I needed to do something, but not feeling the motivation to do ANYTHING. All I know is that for me, one day all of the planets aligned, and it was finally easier--not easy, but easier--to get started. I highly recommend exercise. The endorphins will improve your mood, and it may be just what you need to kick start your motivation. Best wishes to you!

Not sure what to do. I'm really struggling and looking for any help and motivation I can find. Not logging my food because I haven't cared what I'm eating. I have officially gained back all but 3 pounds of the 10 I had lost when motivated and logging. I know it's as simple as logging and being more active but the motivation isn't there. I haven't cared about much of anything for about 2 months now. What do I do? I hate the way I look and how my clothes fit.

Forget the diet!

I know this sounds stupid but if you have a hang up about it then it won't work. Are there other influences in your life at the moment that need to be dealt with? Could you be depressed? Get a check up from your GP so that you know you are in good shape (always advisable when starting weight loss anyway).

Each day, just keep a food diary. Be honest - but don't feel guilty about anything. You could do this by logging on mfp. Set you mfp goal at maintain so that you don't get put off by going over all the time. But I really would start without mfp so you don't start calorie counting - just logging. See if there are any patterns developing - do you comfort eat etc.?

Dieting won't work in the log term anyway - it's lifestyle changes, not just a short term solution. Once you've check your behaviour patterns and are ready, then try to make some changes - bored / upset instead of heading for the fridge, go for a walk, or even shout into a pillow (that's not putting extra cals into you). What ever makes you feel better instead of food.

Simple changes will help, but don't beat yourself up you will have good and bad days.

Once you are ready start logging onto mfp again, set a realistic daily cal goal, something you can maintain. Then see it as a lifestyle choice, not a diet. One day at a time - you can do it!!!

Start loving yourself cause you are worth it.

I go through this every month. I'll have a couple good weeks of eating healthily and exercising, and then I'll just want to sleep and eat fattening foods. I have been diagnosed as bipolar, but I think even people without a mental health "problem" go through tides of positivity and negativity. The seasons, the moons, the sunlight, and life . . . affects our moods and motivation.

For me, it's about creating my own motivation. Getting out in the sunlight helps a LOT, and planning an outdoor activity is even better. Take your lunch outside and eat it slowly, enjoying all the nutritious properties. Or go for a short bike ride, not focusing on calories burned, but on the lovely outdoors! Or if you're more outgoing than I am, plan an outdoor party or hike with a bunch of friends.

Exercise always heightens my motivation, but I have to BE motivated to do it in the first place, so it's like the chicken and the egg. If you can trick yourself into exercising-- like the hike with friends, or just swimming for fun or something, you might be more motivated to "REALLY" exercise.

As far as the eating goes, it's the same kind of thing. If you're feeling lazy and tired and hungry, sometimes you just have to force yourself to make something healthy anyway, and by the time you've eaten it you're glad you did and you're full. This isn't always the case, of course. There have been many times when I ate a tiny but nutritious lunch and then decided I still wanted to eat crap/junkfood/fast food and DID. But usually eating a healthy meal gives me so much more energy that I immediately remember why I'm doing this. Eating fast good always makes me so tired and sluggish.

Other than those things, do focus on your mental health and your emotional wellbeing. These things are directly connected to your physical health. I find that yoga marries the two perfectly for me, and even just meditating can make me slow down and make better choices. If yoga's not your thing, though, maybe you can find something that is. It doesn't even to be exercise. Maybe painting or reading a favorite book from your childhood will help you get in touch with your inner self, the "true" self, according to yoga, that knows what is best for you and will provide you with motivation. Good luck!

Try to get into a habit with exercise. If you are depressed, the boost will make you feel better and happier.
It takes about 66 days to form a habit. Allow yourself to eat what you like, but make sure you log it. You will see exactly what you're eating that way. Exercise for 20 minutes every day. Do a dvd, a movement based computer game, or just walk for 20 minutes. You will form the habit and soon your food will fall into the groove as you won't want to "undo" the good your exercise is doing!

When you are ready you will get it done. If you want to motivate yourself, start reading the success strories. Write down a list of reasons you want to get healthy. Set some reasonable achievable goals. Blog about the humdrums, get the negative feelings out in writing. Walk of anxiety, get a pedometer and hallange yourself. Think about what your body needs in terms of nutrients and look for the good stuff when feeding it. Attach yourself to a positive person and try and get what they got.
When you are ready you will get it done.

So forget about what has been gained back; that's done and over with.

YOU LOST THREE POUNDS AND KEPT IT OFF!!!

That's an accomplishment and your new starting point.

In addition to logging food, exercise will help burn calories AND hopefully make you feel better and more motivated.

Find activities that you enjoy, that are fun. Bicycling, roller skating, hiking hula hooping.

Maybe join a local club, group or meetup that engages in these activities.

Hi - I have seriously lacked motivation over most things for the past few years. Despite my younger brother dying young just 4 yrs ago unbelievably motivation still did not kick in - even though I have two kids and his were under 5 at the time. Our mother also died young when we were young. I put my weight on in my mid twenties and it has just gone on gradually over the years - I have never lost more than say 4 or 5 pounds. I say I will diet and by mid morning I have given in. This was always the pattern.

However I found mfp last Monday and couldn't believe that because I was able to log on my phone during the day how I suddenly seemed able to make the right choices without it being too difficult. This first weekend has not been disastrous but I have succumbed a little. But I have still logged my food (and lack of exercise!) as I think this will be the difference between me, finally, making a go of it and not giving in.

I would love to be one of those people that all of a sudden a photo or event just clicks within their brain but I am not there yet.

SO - I am going to make sure I log everything and log in here everyday, as I think that might just make the difference.

How about I promise to not loose heart and log everyday and you do too with me?

Assuming your just in a funk and not depressed... Here's some tips I use. (I am not an expert just friendly)

Take a deep breath or a few and decide your going to be fit, do this as many time as it takes everyday. Repeat

Start telling yourself your beautiful and you will get more beautiful. By the way, you are beautiful

Try to place your exercises in the morning as part of your routine. (Imagine how gross your mouth would feel if you didn't brush, Now imagine exercise cleans your body from the inside and it will be gross if you don't do it... Picture plaque build up on your insides if you skip)

Start looking at healthy foods and exercise as a special privilege. Appreciate the fact you have the freedom to do them.

Re-Start with an easy to attain goal. like 15 min of exercise right after you wake up, then gradually add to the amount of exercise you do based on how you feel. (i.e. add 5 min of the same, add light weights, add a new exercise, etc...)

Compare or compete with your friends in your own way, If one of your friends works out everyday try to keep up with them using your own choice of exercise.

Leave your diary open to public. It makes you accountable and you're more likely to receive better help from the community.

Last but not least... Know that you have it in you to succeed. You just have to seize it for yourself.

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