New Here

I am new here. I am a Father/Husband. I have a wonderful wife and two great daughters, 3 years old and a 1 year old. I want to make sure that I am around to see them graduate, get married, etc. I am 40 years old, turn 41 in November and I am obese, overweight, or however you want to label it. I am tired of not being the husband I should be and the father that my kids need. I don't want to be a side line father. I want to play with my kids. I want to be fit. I could use any friends that can help me stay motivated. I will try my best to motivate people, either by support or by my accomplishments. Any help would be greatly appreciated.