I'm a big girl and I'm hungry...

CariBgood
CariBgood Posts: 88 Member
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
This week is the week in my continuous journey to become healthier that almost inevitably happens. The week where I look at the scale and the depression sets in... It doesn't matter that I feel great. It doesn't matter that I'm moving better. All that matters is that the freaking number hasn't changed. Logically I know this week comes every cycle I start this journey. Let me tell you I have started this journey several times. This week though I am determined that I am going to hang on.

It's been difficult. My trainer has been pushing me a little harder so I'm a little more sore. I'm FREAKING hungry. You could look at my food log and wonder why, but for me 6'2" I am starving. I have had a headache every day this week. My shoulder hurts and I'm pretty sure it's my subconcious jeopardizing my body right now. Yes jeopardizing all the progress that I have made. The laziness is screaming at me. "why have you forsaken me?". Tempting me with" it's ok you can have a bad week, it happens..." But in my heart I hear "are you really going to betray yourself?" That's what this battle has come down too. AM I GOING TO BETRAY ME? Am I going to betray this journey that I have begun so many times....

It's not so much what one particular food or missing a day at the gym will do at this point it's pushing through the self destructive rant that happens in my head. Today, even though I had the breakfast sandwich from Sonic and I didn't pack my lunch... I am going to hold on. I WILL meet with my trainer tonight, he WILL torture me and I WILL avoid the scale for another month. At the end of that... maybe it will move down again.
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  • Lozze
    Lozze Posts: 1,917 Member
    Throw the scale out if it depresses you so much. Seriously. Have your trainer weigh you with your eyes closed so you don't know.

    Also how many calories do you eat?
  • What does your dairy look like?

    Do you eat a lot of fast food?
  • steph1278
    steph1278 Posts: 483 Member
    How many calories are you eating? If you are workout out a lot, you might not be eating enough. I am 5'11 and 224 pounds. I eat around 2100 calories per day and lose between 1-2 pounds per week.
  • alibeec75
    alibeec75 Posts: 25 Member
    You've got quite the battle going on! And I think you know that you need to stick with it, it will be sooo worth it in the long run. In month from now you will be so happy you did.

    I also agree - maybe you shouldn't look at the scale for a few weeks. Take your measurements now....do your thing (traininer, tracking diet, drink loads of fluids...etc) and give yourself a few weeks to see your progress. I bet your measurements will impress you!

    Stay strong! You can do it! and you're worth it!
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    Trust the system. Trust your trainer. It takes some time, but if you are consistent, you will start seeing results. It is never as fast as we want it to be though. You can do it!!
  • NikkiSmo
    NikkiSmo Posts: 180 Member
    I haven't weighted myself in over a month! Try not to, let your clothes tell you! Keep working don't give in, think how AWESOME you will feel when this passes and you can say you didn't give in and you CAN do it!!!!!
  • Kjphotography90
    Kjphotography90 Posts: 77 Member
    No one knows what the scale says when you walk past. Stop caring so much what the scale says!! I know that is easier said than done but honestly it's about health. If you are healthy, who cares what the scale says?
  • daisiemae123
    daisiemae123 Posts: 277 Member
    Hang on, you can do it! Don't weigh yourself for a while and just listen to how you feel. If you are hungry give yourself permission to have something a little extra, just make sure it is a good choice. I don't kick myself if I am over my calories but it was because I was starving and had some veggies or vegetable soup. I don't generally drink soda, but sometimes just the sweet from a diet orange soda or Sprite Zero is enough to curb the "hunger".
  • Lyerin
    Lyerin Posts: 818 Member
    You need to just stick to it! You are doing well. Just focus on something positive to get you through the rough patches. For me, even though my scale isn't changing much this week, I am focusing on being happy that I'm working out and that last night I packed my workout bag without even thinking about it because "of course" I'm going to the gym today. That is huge for me!

    Find one thing to talk positively to yourself about today. Find something else tomorrow. Keep going.
  • Lina4Lina
    Lina4Lina Posts: 712 Member
    I understand, it gets better. Definitely avoid the scale after eating out due to the sodium content.
  • Hi Cari. YOU can do this. I just finished going through a whole set of test trying to establish a ground of where I am starting at. What I found out is that I have a fatty liver. We (I) am hoping to reverse that but if I can't there is a high possibility of cancer in the future. I don't want that for myself or the additional burden it will be on my family. So I am on board for both me and my family. So try to put yourself first and then think about your family. Anyone over weight could have a fatty liver.

    I love tall women. I am only 5'9". When I was growing up I was always the tallest girl until I got to High School. One of my daughter's is 5'11".

    What I found that helps me is drinking lots of water. Your headache could be from dehydration. So the key is to get plenty of water. To know the amount you need just divide you weight by 2. The answer you get is the number of ounces of water you should be drinking each day. Good luck.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    Without seeing your diary, I can't give you any advice.
  • hauer01
    hauer01 Posts: 516 Member
    You are doing great! Don't be discouraged. We have all had weeks where the scale shows us nothing. But our bodies and funny things. When we start changing how we eat, move and interact, the body does what ever it needs to protect itself. Once it figures out, hey this is our new life, it starts to release all that excess it was holding on to to be "safe and protected". Before you know it, with hard work and dedication, the weight will just fall off. This happens a lot to everyone of us. Everytime we make a dramatic change in our workouts or food program. Give yourself and your body and chance to get accustomed to the "new" you.

    Keep up the good work. We are proud of you!
  • hmm33502
    hmm33502 Posts: 201 Member
    Lean protein (fish!), greek yogurt, and lots of water! It's how I keep myself from being hungry!
  • nxd10
    nxd10 Posts: 4,570 Member
    Throw the scale out if it depresses you so much. Seriously. Have your trainer weigh you with your eyes closed so you don't know.

    Also how many calories do you eat?

    Listen to her. It's just a number. Your health is important. Keep going.
  • MTBrob
    MTBrob Posts: 513 Member
    I mean this with the most due respect...... but SUCK IT UP..... You wanna be fit... Stop making excuses as to why your body hurts and how you feel its your body telling you stop....

    Tell your body with your heart that you want this more than anything you have ever wanted and move forward with the courage to do something you never thought was possible.....



    Now that being said..... I can't see your diary so I can't comment on your food in take.. but as a person who used to be bigger my self, I found it helps me if I maintain a a 5 meal a day food plan .. Where every 2 -3 hours I am eating something.. Nothing huge.. Just small snacks here and there in the form up protein bars, or fruit/veggies...

    It is a adjustment and your body will be telling you it wants hamburgers but you are gonna feed it your own fat in stead..... eat more often and eat healthy to stay in your goals and the hunger pangs will begin to subside and keep pushing it with your trainer.. with out progress there can never be change...
  • CariBgood
    CariBgood Posts: 88 Member
    I'm eating about 2100 calories... I try desperately to get it down to 1900 but it's difficult. I eat either a fritata in the morning or oatmeal with fresh fruit. I usually have a yogurt mid morning. Lunch has been a leafy green salad with cucumber and tomatoes, pepperoni and a little parmesan cheese with a couple of table spoons of dressing. I have given up pasta for the most part and am substituting cauliflower or zucchini for it in my dinners. Lots of broccoli. Then I usually have sugar free pudiing for desert at night. I have been trying to stay away from fried foods. NO FRENCH FRIES I have learned they have absolutely no nutrtional value whatsoever...
  • Lina4Lina
    Lina4Lina Posts: 712 Member
    Honestly, based on your lunch, I can see why you are hungry. At my highest weight, I basically gave up cheese because it is high in fat/calories with little nutritional value. Pepperoni? Lot of fat and calories with lots of sodium and little nutritional value.

    I know you have made changes but it sounds like you still need some tweaking. For me, fiber is very important to being satiated which is why my salads are usually full of beans and a variety of veggies. Depending on your dressing, there might be better choices out there. Salsa is personally one of my favorite dressings and I can make a 'taco salad' being lots of veggies, black beans, salsa and maybe even some avocado.

    Right now, I'm eating an average of 300 calories every 3 hours for a net of 1500 calories/day. Some of my meals fall slightly below 300, some go above but they are pretty equal caloriewise. It helps keep me satiated and I drink green tea if I get hungry between the 3 hour periods. If you want your calories to be 1900, you might try something similar with 350-380, 5 times per day.
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    I'm not an expert, but it looks like you could use more protein and that may make you feel more satisfied. Grilled chicken. Fish.
  • Anna800
    Anna800 Posts: 639 Member
    I can't do just salad for lunch unless it's a spinach salad. Because 2 cups of spinach will fill me up. When you change your eating, you will be hungry at first, then your body adjusts. You just need to change your mindset about it. You're eating to fuel your body, not because you're bored.
  • Onaughmae
    Onaughmae Posts: 873 Member
    I'm not an expert, but it looks like you could use more protein and that may make you feel more satisfied. Grilled chicken. Fish.

    ^^^^^this! Protein will fill you up and keep you fuller longer. Lean meat, chicken, fish, etc added to your salad will make a big difference. Dont give up! Sometimes my scale doesnt move for a couple of weeks...then it drops a couple of pounds and then stalls again. Try weighing only once a week. Also take your measurements. There have been times when I actually gained a pound or two but lost inches.
  • Bonny619
    Bonny619 Posts: 311 Member
    None of that sounds like it would add up to 2100!
    I'm eating about 2100 calories... I try desperately to get it down to 1900 but it's difficult. I eat either a fritata in the morning or oatmeal with fresh fruit. I usually have a yogurt mid morning. Lunch has been a leafy green salad with cucumber and tomatoes, pepperoni and a little parmesan cheese with a couple of table spoons of dressing. I have given up pasta for the most part and am substituting cauliflower or zucchini for it in my dinners. Lots of broccoli. Then I usually have sugar free pudiing for desert at night. I have been trying to stay away from fried foods. NO FRENCH FRIES I have learned they have absolutely no nutrtional value whatsoever...
  • jetabear10
    jetabear10 Posts: 375 Member
    Without being able to see you diary its hard to tell.

    AND throw your scale out...go by measurements instead. The scale won't move sometimes but the inches will be lower....

    Chin up girl...you can do this.
  • Mellie289
    Mellie289 Posts: 1,191 Member
    I'm not an expert, but it looks like you could use more protein and that may make you feel more satisfied. Grilled chicken. Fish.
    Definitely! Protein is what keeps me from feeling hungry and like I'm on a "diet". I eat healthy now, but it's just a lifestyle change, not starving myself.

    I've also cut out cheese and avoid things like peperoni (that someone else suggested) because they are high in fat and very calorie dense. I can much more food if pick lower fat choices.

    It helped me to set my macros at 40% carb, 30% protein, 30% fat - you should give that a try and really try to stick to it for getting your protein in.
  • Lyerin
    Lyerin Posts: 818 Member
    Ditto on the recommendation of getting rid of the pepperoni and adding some chicken or fish. I have a salad almost every day for lunch and it is very satisfying. I have lettuce, cucumber, tomato, reduced fat feta cheese, grilled chicken or tuna. I use a light balsamic viniagrette dressing, and it is very yummy.
  • amethyst25
    amethyst25 Posts: 2 Member
    Hi Cari,
    I'm fairly new to My Fitness Pal though I've had it for a long time. I am struggling like you. I know all the rules and what I'm supposed to be doing. I feel off the wagon and gained 40 lbs back. I'm now trying to get back UP on that wagon and feeling defeated. But I won't give up. I am working with my trainer (God love her) and have started back tracking my food.

    Like others have stated it doesn't sound like you are getting enough protein, which will help you feel full longer. I would be lost with out my protein drinks.

    Have you talked with a Nutritionist?

    Start your morning with all Protein (whey Isolate) no carbs, as my nutrition coach as told me protein fuels the body where as most carbs will spike your blood sugar up and then my mid morning you will crash and be looking for something to pick you back up.

    You also didn't state if you are taking any Vitamins or supplements. Due some special circumstances I need to make sure I take those everyday. (as everyone should) Multivitamin, D3, B12, Fish Oil, and a pro biotic, calcium.

    Make sure you are drinking lots of water. I count my protein drinks in my water intake. When I get hungry I have to stop and think, am I hungry or do I just really want something to eat. If it's real hunger I will adjust what I do apposed to just wanting something. Reaching for good things and not the easy things like fast food, or junk food is the key.

    I do know how you feel when you get on the scale and don't see the numbers go down. You could ask my trainer how I reacted at my last weigh in. I had a mini melt down in the locker room after working out. I'm not going to give up, and neither should you. This isn't an easy process but there are people out there who will root for you to succeed.

    Keep your chin up I know you can do it if you put your mind to it.

    Kim
  • Mellie289
    Mellie289 Posts: 1,191 Member
    Start your morning with all Protein (whey Isolate) no carbs, as my nutrition coach as told me protein fuels the body where as most carbs will spike your blood sugar up and then my mid morning you will crash and be looking for something to pick you back up.
    Depends on the carbs. I stick with carbs that have a low glycemic index in the morning. My typical breakfast is eggs and fruit. Cereal and potatoes are a great way to spike your blood sugar first thing in the morning, so I avoid them, except for maybe steel cut oats when I'm in the mood because it has a lower GI rating than regular old fashioned oats or instant oatmeal.
  • Lightbulb1088
    Lightbulb1088 Posts: 189 Member
    eat high levels of portein and you can eat almost all the fresh veggies and fruit you want without going over your calerie count.
    Try it some time. it is really hard to do. :)
  • Lightbulb1088
    Lightbulb1088 Posts: 189 Member
    Bolt house dressing are only about 40 cal per serving and they taste real good.
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
    Throw the scale out if it depresses you so much. Seriously. Have your trainer weigh you with your eyes closed so you don't know.

    Also how many calories do you eat?


    THIS^^^

    measure with a cloth tape measure once a month! sooo much more motivating then the scale!
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