resorting to spying on my wife's internetting...
taylor5877
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Every since she lost 30 lbs. she's been attention whoring herself to anyone who will look and read. It's really bugging me.
Recently she's been saying she's busy at times she's normally not, and avoiding lunch and evening date plans.
I've been checking facebook and all the forums she posts, but haven't found any evidence yet, but I still have my suspicions.
any advice or other typical forum shennanigans?
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Recently she's been saying she's busy at times she's normally not, and avoiding lunch and evening date plans.
I've been checking facebook and all the forums she posts, but haven't found any evidence yet, but I still have my suspicions.
any advice or other typical forum shennanigans?
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oh, and no....0
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Are you the husband of the wife who posted here before, saying her husband is spying on her? >_<
Edit: ...never mind...0 -
just because she is out attention "whoring" herself around does not mean that she is cheating on you....GET A GRIP!!! Maybe she is looking for some pats on the back of "good jobs".....so what? You should be proud of her for her accomplishment and maybe you need to go out of your way to give her some of that extra needed attention. Try cooking her dinner or taking her out on a date....enjoy each other and stop wasting all of your time on the "WHAT IF'S" If all of your "spying" attempts didn't find anything, maybe that's what it is....NOTHING.0
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oh, and no....0
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Are you the husband of the wife who posted here before, saying her husband is spying on her? >_<
Why don't you trust her?
That's what he wants you to believe...0 -
Did you check the chinese food restaurant? I heard she likes to eat there.0
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Take her to a nice Chinese buffet and discuss it.0
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Your wife is fine, its your daughter you need to check up on!0
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does she go out without a bra?0
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Gosh guysssss, he's only KIDDING.0
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I was about to ask the same thing..lol
Seriously..Your relationship will never last if you can't COMMUNICATE! Talk to each other. Tell her what is bothering you, let her confide in you. Pick a space and time where NO ONE can judge or criticize the other. Just talk. Get it out. No interruptions, no getting defensive. Spying will lead no where. Distrust leads no where...TALK< COMMUNICATE>LOVE EACH OTHER for who you are...0 -
Take her to a nice Chinese buffet and discuss it.
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Maybe she's just trying to make you jealous? She could be feeling like your not drooling over her enough, so she's going out to show off elsewhere.0
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Did you check the chinese food restaurant? I heard she likes to eat there.
Ha
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we need pics of her, where are they at?0
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She's probably busy exercising instead of stuffing herself on these lunch or evening dates.
Look, you snooped, did not find anything, now it is time to just trust her.
It is only when you find evidence of cheating that it is worth pursuing this spying thing. Otherwise you will create what you fear.0 -
When she comes home, ask to smell her junk!0
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my EX husband had trust issues and rather then come to me and talk, he decided to key log my computer and found nothing... it got him Divorce papers, soon after.0
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Did you check the chinese food restaurant? I heard she likes to eat there.
she was there with her mom and dad the other day, and she overheard someone make some comments about her parents...0 -
:flowerforyou:When she comes home, ask to smell her junk!0 -
I almost choked on my apple!Did you check the chinese food restaurant? I heard she likes to eat there.
she was there with her mom and dad the other day, and she overheard someone make some comments about her parents...0 -
She's probably busy exercising instead of stuffing herself on these lunch or evening dates.
Look, you snooped, did not find anything, now it is time to just trust her.
It is only when you find evidence of cheating that it is worth pursuing this spying thing. Otherwise you will create what you fear.
This^ If you keep snooping you will eventually "find" something.0 -
And here we...go.0
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Too freakin' funny!!! :laugh:0
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lmao0
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I heard your kids are brats too!0
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Nevermind. Didn't realize I was stepping onto a jr. high playground.0
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I'm used to my husband spying on me through Facebook, I've had that forever, but ever since I lost 30 lbs and then joined MFP for that last pesky 10, he's been spying on me here too. I can't get him to join (he could stand to eat healthier too) but for the life of me I can't understand why would MFP be worthy of spying on? Does your hubby do that too, wives do you spy on your hubby's MFP page/friends/posts/diary?
^^^ Is that your wife?0 -
Ask the children..they've probably picked up on a few things0
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Are you the husband of the wife who posted here before, saying her husband is spying on her? >_<
Edit: ...never mind...
I was wondering this too!0
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