harsh, tough, honest?? Be my friend

donna_do_good
donna_do_good Posts: 161
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
Hey everyone,

I have some lovely people on my friends list, really good descent people who mean the best for me and try to make me feel better when I slip up.....but what I really want/need is a total honest harsh critic, someone who will call me lazy, someone who will tell me how it really is. I guys I need a total bugger (to avoid the swearing).

If you think you fit the bill please add me.

Thanks

D

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  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
    Friend request sent.

    You lazy ***ing ******.


    :laugh:
  • donna_do_good
    donna_do_good Posts: 161
    Friend request sent.

    You lazy ***ing ******.


    :laugh:

    Hahaha love it. Come on you mr/mrs motivators be my buddy
  • ValRAAAAY
    ValRAAAAY Posts: 270 Member
    BAHAHAH!!! I'm not TOO overly tough, but I DO have a tendency to tell it like it is...thanks for adding me!!! :-)
  • jiva57
    jiva57 Posts: 21 Member
    I lack filters. Add me. :laugh:
  • Fitorbust73
    Fitorbust73 Posts: 80 Member
    If you can do the same for me then add me :-) we can insult each other to better health!
  • Gramps251
    Gramps251 Posts: 738 Member
    Wait, where's my whip.

    Would you make your food diary public?
  • spikefoot
    spikefoot Posts: 419
    Lose a few more pounds and then I will consider it..;)
  • ValRAAAAY
    ValRAAAAY Posts: 270 Member
    Lose a few more pounds and then I will consider it..;)

    SPIKEY....

    BE NICE!!!

    (Spikey is a really AWESOME friend to have on here...just sayin'...he doesn't want to admit it, though...)
  • donna_do_good
    donna_do_good Posts: 161
    Lose a few more pounds and then I will consider it..;)

    Spikey hey, I'll lose a few more pounds if you add me as a friends you'll see :tongue:
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    I need the same thing too!
  • 3foldchord
    3foldchord Posts: 2,918 Member
    Sending a request. I am not 'mean harsh', but do add "maybe a little more protein tomorrow?" to the end of "Nice job logging your number!" , when needed.

    Anyone here, feel free to add me. And my numbers all all messed up right now, so have fun telling me to do better!
  • fernreynolds
    fernreynolds Posts: 14 Member
    Hey, me too! Please add me if you are honest and encouraging!
  • Iron_Feline
    Iron_Feline Posts: 10,750 Member
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  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    Read my home page quote...if you like it, FR me..... I love to give beatings...
  • 3foldchord
    3foldchord Posts: 2,918 Member
    Read my home page quote...if you like it, FR me..... I love to give beatings...
    I do not see a quote on your homepage.
  • jeolds
    jeolds Posts: 104 Member
    The beatings will continue until morale improves!! LOL
  • EmpressHollie
    EmpressHollie Posts: 25 Member
    Friend request sent.

    You lazy ***ing ******.


    :laugh:
  • 3foldchord
    3foldchord Posts: 2,918 Member
    The beatings will continue until morale improves!! LOL
    Ah, the quote used by my evil prince on the battlefield! Ah, I miss the Barony of the Seven Sleeping Dragons!
  • JennWeighZen
    JennWeighZen Posts: 32 Member
    Likewise... if you want a friend who slips up a lot and will thereby provide you the opportunity to gloat about your own successes and revel in my failures, then add me! :flowerforyou:

    I'm not really a failure, but I do slip up a lot. And I eat too many carbs. :cry: So in some eyes that possibly does equate to failure....
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Do you really think that being as thin as you can be will make your son proud of you, or set a proper example for him? What would you do if he came home one day and said he hated his body and wanted to get as thin as possible to impress a girl/coach/you?
  • TDGee
    TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
    Do you really think that being as thin as you can be will make your son proud of you, or set a proper example for him? What would you do if he came home one day and said he hated his body and wanted to get as thin as possible to impress a girl/coach/you?

    The above poster speaks the truth. You really don't want to teach your kids to obsess over a number on a scale. Not good for anyone. Maybe instead of wanting to "be thin" (which is an immeasurable goal; what exactly is thin? Your skeleton and genetic makeup are outside of your control. So you may not ever be able to reach the "thin" as you want it.), you try to find something else that is more tangible and measurable to aspire to. Just a suggestion.
    Yeah, most of us here want to lose weight, but the weight loss is part of becoming stronger, healthier, faster,... whatever.
    Me, I want to be stronger, and faster. All part of being healthier than I have been. It does work.

    With that being said, get off of your lazy *kitten* and do something.
  • Graelwyn75
    Graelwyn75 Posts: 4,404 Member
    Do you really think that being as thin as you can be will make your son proud of you, or set a proper example for him? What would you do if he came home one day and said he hated his body and wanted to get as thin as possible to impress a girl/coach/you?

    ^^ This.
  • donna_do_good
    donna_do_good Posts: 161
    Do you really think that being as thin as you can be will make your son proud of you, or set a proper example for him? What would you do if he came home one day and said he hated his body and wanted to get as thin as possible to impress a girl/coach/you?

    When I say to be as thin as I can be obviously within the healthy range as you can see from my goal weights. I don't discuss things like this infront of my son and lets be honest he'd rather have a fit looking healthy mum than any other type & he will be proud of me. My son is a healthy active boy and if hes older and wants to lose weight I will help him but I will not encourage my preferred body type onto him and he will be brought up to have his own mind
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    Been there done that. Unless you are motivated to change, a friend can't help you!!!

    Look yourself in the mirror and ask how bad do you want it!!!

    At the moment not very much!!!!
  • Fozzi43
    Fozzi43 Posts: 2,984 Member
    Hey everyone,

    I have some lovely people on my friends list, really good descent people who mean the best for me and try to make me feel better when I slip up.....but what I really want/need is a total honest harsh critic, someone who will call me lazy, someone who will tell me how it really is. I guys I need a total bugger (to avoid the swearing).

    If you think you fit the bill please add me.

    Thanks





    Yep....I can do brutal :wink: ...FR sent :smile:
  • donna_do_good
    donna_do_good Posts: 161
    Thanks everyone. I've changed my profile a little as I don't want people taking it the wrong way
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