Scared to UP my calories

I just did the exact same thing today. It scares me too. I don't want to gain. I'm now up to 1,410 (from 1,200 previously). I didn't lose anything for over two weeks and I've only lost 1lb over the past month. So I knew something had to change and I can't go any lower than 1,200. I know it seems counter-intuitive, but I really hope this will help me lose more weight.

Katharita: Just doing the math here, but 300 additional calories per day can NOT be the reason why you gained 4lbs in 2 weeks. Maybe it was water? Because 1lb is 3,500 extra calories. So that's just not possible. It definitely was NOT fat that you gained.

Pamperedpengu: I hope it's okay if I send you a friend request. We're going through the same thing here. Maybe we can help each other stay on track and don't quit before we really tested this out. I don't want to hurt my body be eating too few calories...

How long have you been eating 1200 calories? Sometimes even though your body won't allow you to lose weight at that number, you have to suffer a weight gain during the initial calorie increase. Then you will lose that weight, plus more. It's worth a try. 1200 and 1400 are not working and you know less won't work so there isn't really a question here.

Well how do you feel? Listen to your body. Do you get sick? Are you fatigued? Do you have strong workouts? Are you building muscle? YOU DECIDE your calories. No one here. YOU. You own your body.

Only you can decide calories, base it on how you feel and what the scale trend is doing, not what anyone here tells you to do. You can always gradually notch your calories up or down by 100 and see how you do. It takes some experimentation to find what works for YOU. What worked for the next person may not work for you just because it did for them. For the most part, if you have fat reserves eating more to lose weight is just plain silly, think about it.

If you have a lot of body fat reserves you would be surprised at how little you can eat (unless you have emotional eating issues or disorders). The leaner you get the less your body has to draw from and then you have to taper up your calories. There is no such thing as starvation mode for women over 12% body fat or men over 6% body fat. I am a living breathing example of that. I went from obese to now under 12% BF and I've maintained for one year and built muscle the whole time. You don't BUILD muscle in starvation mode, so I proved everyone wrong.

Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale though: water retention, digestion, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

My diary is open. I've been at or under 1200 calories and in maintenance. I'm small so I don't need much. The most I ever eat is 1500-1600 calories and that is only on special occasions or splurge days.

Do I look like I'm in starvation mode?

As others have said....give it time and don't worry about a couple pounds in the short term. I hit my goal weight and went from 1500 net to 2000 net. In the two weeks since I've switched it up I'm only up 1.5 lbs and that includes a weekend where I let things go and drank 16 beers over two days. If I really stuck to the 2000 calories, I'd probably be only up a 1/2 lb at most.

For the vast majority of people, the calorie math works if they are really honest with themselves about portion sizes and how many calories that they are burning. Oh.......and start lifting weights. It makes the biggest difference in the long term. People get impatient and want to lose the weight right away but fail to realize that they most likely gained a pound a month for 10 years to get where they are so it is unreasonable to expect to lose it in six months.

I can relate. A lot of days I struggle to even reach 1200 cals. I just wasn't hungry/was already feeling full. But, I am overweight. So something is very wrong here. I read Banks' post yesterday about 'Starvation Mode' and it made a lot of sense to me, especially since I'm seeing a lot of what he described in myself. So I'm working to up my calories. I'm going to check the scale once a week for weigh in but I'm not going to stress about the number. The body isn't going to straighten itself out in a few days. It took time to muck up it's proper functioning and it's going to take time to straighten it out.

Hang in there!!

I can lose on 1200 calories a day...but i become some psycho crazy beast and then i just quit out of misery. I am eating around 1800 and losing slowly and im happy and i actually have to get creative sometimes to use all my calories. It just seems so much easier when i ease myself down instead of a sharp drop in calories. I have it set to lose 1 lb a week but i notice that i may not be losing much but i have added in strength and lots of walking and my measurements have dropped so i get satisfaction even though the scale isn't showing big numbers.

Katharita: Just doing the math here, but 300 additional calories per day can NOT be the reason why you gained 4lbs in 2 weeks. Maybe it was water? Because 1lb is 3,500 extra calories. So that's just not possible. It definitely was NOT fat that you gained.

No, of course it wasn't.

I guess the point of my post was to tell the OP my experience. It did help me a lot when I increased my calories and saw the scale to initially go up to read other peoples' posts here and know that a gain for a week or two after increasing calories is to be expected and to keep at it for at least a month to see if it's going to work for you. I think that some people might see that gain after 1 day or 1 week and not give it enough time to let the body adjust.

I eat super healthy, but never work out. The amount of calories I ate was 3000-4000 a day!!
Yeah, gained weight quick. But it was all healthy food.
I don't wanna gain more!! So I just went with what MFP suggested.
1200 a day. Yet, reading what everyone says here, it's scaring me to gain even more.
Why?!