Commuting Pet Peeves

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So I commute from Jersey to NY. It's not the best commute especially since the Tappan Zee Bridge construction but anyways.. I live on the left lane. I do speed and I dont really think twice because I have never gotten a ticket, do get away with things in my nursing uniform, and I have a high ranking detective and state trooper in my back pocket. All I'm asking is if you are scared to even go the speed limit... move to the right lane... and im pretty sure theres somehting against going 40 mph on a 65 mph highway =)... Also why is it that in the tristate area drivers always want to beat each other...never let anyone pass and make things even harder.. whenever i go to other states I find it " wierd " that this driver is waving me to turn ahead of him lol... in jersey its like no, you're not turning ahead of me cause i want to get where i'm going a full 10 seconds before you...

p.s. to the man who rammed my car when i was 9 months preggo.. you were weaving through traffic, not my fault my lane ended and i had to move into the lane that you had decided to weave into because the car in the left lane was too slow for you... you jsut slightly scratched my car im glad your mirror flew off... and if i werent about to give birth i would have followed your *kitten* and given you hell... not to mentiuon that was a hit and run.....

ok i feel better... what are your road rage trigger???
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  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    I'm not a speed demon but I do get frustrated when people arent doing the speed limit. Also, I cant stand when people slam on their brakes when they see a cop 500 feet on the right side (clearly speed clocking). HE ALREADY GOT YOU MILES AGO!
  • hlandry6
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    People not using blinkers. When did they become an option? :mad:
  • basslinewild
    basslinewild Posts: 294 Member
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    I can't stand when people get in the left lane and are only doing 40 in a 55. Then when they have a chance to get in the right lane, they still stay in the left. Ughh!
  • sovannac
    sovannac Posts: 445 Member
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    I can't stand when people decide to create their own lanes.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
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    1/4 inch of snow and everyone driving like it's a foot.
  • Lextmg86
    Lextmg86 Posts: 102 Member
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    When i pass someone who is going to slow and they catch up and pass me to be cool and it turns into a game.
  • MissC787
    MissC787 Posts: 175 Member
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    Oh gosh! I absolutely hate the people that are in such a rush that they try to squeeze into a space between two cars that is two sizes to small for their vehicle. Or the people that want to drive up the shoulder to cut the line of traffic because they don't want to wait for the light like everyone else.
    I hate the people that are going to fast, and pull up on your bumper and start flashing their lights, and honking at you. You can't go any faster, or move over because your comming up on traffic that is litterally at a stand still, and your lane ends, but because you have to slow down, and get over infront of them they are throwing a hissy. Yeah.... Thats happened to me.
  • LadyIvysMom
    LadyIvysMom Posts: 391 Member
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    Traffic. Just in general. It takes me 2 hours to get to work every day (no lie) because I drive from the NH border to Boston on Rt 93 during morning rush hour. OMG people. DRIVE YOUR CARS. But they just sit there.

    If it’s not bright and sunny it’s even worse. Like if it’s mildly drizzling, traffic will slow to a halt and people will be getting in accidents left and right. If it’s actually raining or god forbid, snowing forget it. If people don’t slow down to 2 mph, there will obviously be mass carnage all over the highway. It’s amazing that anyone survives really. You’re better off not leaving the house because your drive will take 6 hours.

    My other pet peeve while driving is unfortunate car décor. A few stickers or whatever are fine, but… Your truck doesn’t have/need human male genitalia. IT IS NOT ALIVE. Never mind the fact that most people refer to cars in the female term “she” but even if they referred to cars as “he”, it’s just as dumb BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT LIVING THINGS. Every time I see some guy with these stupid things hanging off the back of his truck, I seriously feel like not living on this planet anymore.

    Also, If your candidate from 1993 lost, it’s time to take the sticker off the car. Even if they won, they’re probably not still in office anymore. Move on.
  • chunkiedunker
    chunkiedunker Posts: 144 Member
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    i drive 45 mins to an hour one way to work. Its mostly country driving. my route basically is drive 6 miles in this direction and turn right. drive 6 miles in this direction and turn left. drive 6 miles in this direction and turn left. you get the drift. Well when you are in the country the speed limit is a little less enforced. but some people tend to go below the speed limit.

    also people who drive down the middle of the country road and dont bother to get over.

    or people who speed up when you try to pass them. when you have the ability to pass (no cars coming and enough road to do it) they are driving faster than you. but when cars are coming its back to 45mph.

    when i get into this little town that i HAVE to drive thru. trust me if i could by pass it i would, but it adds alot of time to my commute. there is a 4 way stop there. people must just lose their minds at these things. people never know whos turn it is to go, when to go. and then you have the people who think once they pull up they have the right away.

    eventually i make it to a highway which i drive on for about 15 mins. on this road it i patrolled quite heavily. so i set the cruize at 58ish and try to enjoy my drive in. but it never fails, always one person driving in the left lane doing 50 and one person in the right lane doing 49.8. several miles later the passing car finally gets past the car but doesn't get back i the right lane. MOVE THE CAR TO THE RIGHT.

    now all the stupid people/drivers i encounter in ohio, none of them compare to philly or new jersey. ive never seen such crap.

    we went to philly for vacation. just stopped in for a one day scenic tour of the town. (THANK GOD) both sides of the streets packed and lined with parked cars, barely room for two cars to pass each other. i come to a stop sign an stop. i start to look to the left and i hear someone honk the horn. each stop sign i get the same thing. i learned you dont stop at stop signs in philly. you just run them at a slow pace.

    new jersey wasn't as bad as philly. but the road leading to the casinos, full of drivers doing 90 changing lanes without signaling, crossing 3 lanes of traffic and back to pass a couple cars. i had this pleasurable driving experience during a monsoon. (white knuckled the whole way)
  • chunkiedunker
    chunkiedunker Posts: 144 Member
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    Oh gosh! I absolutely hate the people that are in such a rush that they try to squeeze into a space between two cars that is two sizes to small for their vehicle. Or the people that want to drive up the shoulder to cut the line of traffic because they don't want to wait for the light like everyone else.
    I hate the people that are going to fast, and pull up on your bumper and start flashing their lights, and honking at you. You can't go any faster, or move over because your comming up on traffic that is litterally at a stand still, and your lane ends, but because you have to slow down, and get over infront of them they are throwing a hissy. Yeah.... Thats happened to me.

    not saying this is you but the signs on the road for 3 miles saying right lane closed ahead, merge left. fast forward 3 miles to traffic stopped because people are not merged yet and now have to merge or run into cones. and then you have the real ahole who comes speeding up the right lane and darts into the left lane just so he can say look i passed 20 cars. they are only a total of 15 seconds behind me, but i passed them.

    and one last thing i hate is when you are driving down a road and the light infront of you turns yellow then red. you stop at the light. you wait and you wait and you wait. then wait some more. finally your light turns green and you realize not one car went the other direction. why did the light change? why is there even a light here. why did i just waste minutes of my day sitting at this light.
  • LadyIvysMom
    LadyIvysMom Posts: 391 Member
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    Since this is about commuting and not just driving, I will also add a few things about the subway (which I have to take after my 2 hour drive):

    People with no concept of personal space. If your behind doesn’t fit in a space, that space is not a seat. Just because there is 4 inches of open space between me and the person next to me does not mean you can sit there.

    I rarely sit on the T anyway. But when I do, I get up for elderly people, people with canes, parents with small kids and pregnant women. I am apparently a rarity because I routinely see groups of college kids/high school kids who sprawl out across 3 seats while pregnant women and grandmas stand up.

    People who need to spread their newspapers across two seats while they read them, thus whacking everyone around them with the paper.

    Guys who won’t close their legs and wind up taking like 3 seats because they are just lounging.

    People who allow their screeching toddlers to run around the subway car while it’s in motion (or ever) while screaming.
  • Chiquita_Banana
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    we should get paid for our commutes lol... my brother actually does... =T
  • melsmith612
    melsmith612 Posts: 727 Member
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    My pet peeve is just driving/commuting in general. I live in Rhode Island (Providence recently ranked #3 on the list of top 10 most dangerous places to drive) and it's pretty much a daily struggle not to do something completely insane while driving... popular commuting fantasies include spinning my car sideways to get the jerk behind me to stop so I can drag them out of their car and beat them, buying a much larger vehicle (with brush guards) to be more intimidating on the road and/or run people off of it, installing a bullhorn on my car so that other drivers can clearly hear what I'm yelling, painting a giant middle finger on the hood of my car, etc. etc. etc.

    One thing I have learned after years of road rage is that the first person to exit their vehicle during a yelling/beeping match wins... especially in enclosed spaces like drive-thrus. :devil:
  • lilmisfit
    lilmisfit Posts: 860 Member
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    My biggest pet peeve is related to stop signs. People where I live apparently never learned that the person that gets to the stop sign first gets to GO first! I can't tell you the number of times I've almost been hit and had to lay on my horn for some a-hole who thinks it's HIS turn to go when I got there before him. This is especially frustrating when bicyclists don't even bother to stop at the stop sign, even though legally they are required to do so. I don't slow down for them when I see them whizzing by. I just keep going, as it is MY turn to go, and if they happen to get in my path, well, they're probably going to have a painful surprise. :grumble:

    The other pet peeve I have is people who speed up and pass me on the right side of the road, allocated for parked cars, not traffic, and then when they encounter a parked car try to squeeze in in front of me. No way, mister! I will NOT let you just butt in front of me because you thought you'd be so smart and try to bypass all the other traffic. It's not MY fault you encountered a parked car. There are so many people that do this and so many folks that just allow it, and all it does is cause the line of traffic to get even longer and go even slower. If more people would abide by the rules and not let these idiots in, we'd all get where we are going quicker.

    The song "Bad Habit" by Offspring comes to mind when talking about traffic. :laugh:
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,488 Member
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    UGH! The worst - people who drive 20-30 miles under the speed limit in the middle or left lane. People who stop to merge (dumba$$ this morning who I honked at - KEEP DRIVING and merge when there is an opening - do not STOP in the middle of the freaking highway!)

    Also by my work apparently people feel that the one way road signs do not apply to them. Every week I see people driving the wrong way down one way streets and when you honk at them they just look at you like you're the crazy one. Morons.

    Also as part of my commute - if my light is green and you're a pedestrian - that big red hand means DON'T WALK IN FRONT OF MY CAR JACKA$$!

    I think I drive too much - I could go on and on about this all day.
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
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    Stupid drivers (like those that don't use their turn signals for anything).... and slow drivers... seriously, there is a gas pedal for a reason and if you are in the center lane, there is little to no reason why you should be going slower than the two outside lanes that may have people turning...

    I just wish people would get out of my way.
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
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    Oh gosh! I absolutely hate the people that are in such a rush that they try to squeeze into a space between two cars that is two sizes to small for their vehicle. Or the people that want to drive up the shoulder to cut the line of traffic because they don't want to wait for the light like everyone else.
    I hate the people that are going to fast, and pull up on your bumper and start flashing their lights, and honking at you. You can't go any faster, or move over because your comming up on traffic that is litterally at a stand still, and your lane ends, but because you have to slow down, and get over infront of them they are throwing a hissy. Yeah.... Thats happened to me.

    not saying this is you but the signs on the road for 3 miles saying right lane closed ahead, merge left. fast forward 3 miles to traffic stopped because people are not merged yet and now have to merge or run into cones. and then you have the real ahole who comes speeding up the right lane and darts into the left lane just so he can say look i passed 20 cars. they are only a total of 15 seconds behind me, but i passed them.

    and one last thing i hate is when you are driving down a road and the light infront of you turns yellow then red. you stop at the light. you wait and you wait and you wait. then wait some more. finally your light turns green and you realize not one car went the other direction. why did the light change? why is there even a light here. why did i just waste minutes of my day sitting at this light.

    I HATE when that happens... there was one time where people were trying to zoom by and then a semi truck driver got in front of one such driver, on purpose to slow him (and everyone else trying to cut) down... :laugh: I always "tailgate" the person in front of me to not let the douche nozzles in... I saw the signs, so I know "you" did too... your time isn't anymore precious than mine is... unless perhaps you have a siren and lights on your car with some indication that "you" are an emergency vehicle.
  • erinfog
    erinfog Posts: 95 Member
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    nyc is the worst. i swear the traffic from the fdr getting onto the brooklyn bridge....it's like nobody has ever had to merge into a lane before. absolutely ridiculous.
  • lilmisfit
    lilmisfit Posts: 860 Member
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    Also as part of my commute - if my light is green and you're a pedestrian - that big red hand means DON'T WALK IN FRONT OF MY CAR JACKA$$!

    Oh yes...this too! Especially if I have the green left turn arrow and they are walking where I need to turn. The big red hand clearly says "DON'T WALK" for a reason.
  • lilmisfit
    lilmisfit Posts: 860 Member
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    I HATE when that happens... there was one time where people were trying to zoom by and then a semi truck driver got in front of one such driver, on purpose to slow him (and everyone else trying to cut) down... :laugh: I always "tailgate" the person in front of me to not let the douche nozzles in... I saw the signs, so I know "you" did too... your time isn't anymore precious than mine is... unless perhaps you have a siren and lights on your car with some indication that "you" are an emergency vehicle.

    Yup. This.