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perezke91
perezke91 Posts: 50 Member
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ahhhhhhhh HELP?! How do you change your life/friends if your roommate/close friend is still wrapped up in it/them and continuously talks about them, even when you ask her to stop?

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  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
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    ahhhhhhhh HELP?! How do you change your life/friends if your roommate/close friend is still wrapped up in it/them and continuously talks about them, even when you ask her to stop?

    Just break up and move out and quit your job.
  • magj0y
    magj0y Posts: 1,911 Member
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    ahhhhhhhh HELP?! How do you change your life/friends if your roommate/close friend is still wrapped up in it/them and continuously talks about them, even when you ask her to stop?

    Sounds like you need to remove her from her life as well. Sad... hopefully later she'll change for the better
  • perezke91
    perezke91 Posts: 50 Member
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    It's hard! We've been friends for 8 years :((
  • _granola
    _granola Posts: 326
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    Get a new life/friends/roommate/close friend and move out/leave them and then grow up/stop being immature/eat cake/be happy/ move on.
  • magj0y
    magj0y Posts: 1,911 Member
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    It's hard! We've been friends for 8 years :((

    Sure, and moving forward in life with that person sucks. But you can either move forward or stay stagnant. A true friend wouldn't drag you down, and true friends wouldn't continue yammering on after you've asked them to stop. You're young.. you'll make new friends, just be selective!

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