My life depends on it

i am no expert but except for the pizza it sounds like you are doing things right. Have you checked with your doctor to be sure it is not a hormone issue or anything else? Also, I would try cutting sugar and sodium. So much food has sodium. I make all my stuff from natural vs. processed foods. The first week I lost 5 lbs. Plus it might be an advantage to high blood pressure if that is a problem.

good luck and keep working it!

Make sure your calories in vs. out is on track. Track every calorie and drink lots of water to flush out sodium if you are retaining water. Also, if you work out that much ,make sure you eat some or all of your calories back...you don't want your body to go into starvation mode. Take each day one at a time and think of this as a process. If you mess up (which you inevitably will) just keep going and think of it as just a bump in the road. DON"T EVER GIVE UP....at least when it comes to your health.

To cut down on water retention you will need to cut your sodium intake. It's hard but it will help. Keep drinking your water to make sure you get your 64 oz in a day.

I also have a lot to lose, and that seems TOO FEW calories!!! I let MFP calculate my calories, and don't put the exercise in my profile, but log exercise as you go. (does that make sense) that way if you "miss" exercising, it's ok, but you're not double logging it either. I usually carry the Quaker chewy granola bars in my purse, they're usually around 100 cals, and have little chocolate chips in them (which are yummy!). I think your body may be going into starvation mode, if you've cut your calories that severely. Mine are much higher than the 1200, and if you can see my ticker, I've lost weight. it will make you recalculate as you drop weight, and it takes time, but sounds like you already know that. it can be a little scary to eat those calories, if you haven't been doing that, but give your body a few weeks to adjust, and you should start seeing some success on the scale.. try weighing in once per week, and maybe doing your measurements once a month or so, whatever you're comfy with.

It's difficult to know where you are going if you don't know where you have been. How about tracking Everything you eat and do for...let's say a week. Don't worry about loosing weight...this exercise if for information, Only! Once you have that info in hand, see your doc to be sure there aren't underlying issues such as thyroid or hypertension ...or...well you get the idea. Then begin by taking baby steps and be loving towards yourself while doing so. It's hard to climb the mountain while looking up, maybe by watching your beautiful feet take one step at a time, you will see results. I offer this approach because I too have had such a hard time loosing the weight. I eat well, exercise and don't do "junk" foods. When I found this site, I thought "well, here is another usless tool but will give it a try...Boy was I wrong!! I love this site because it's so easy to stay true. For me I thought I couldn't possible cut any more calories. Well, I tracked for about 4 days exactly what I was eating and drinking...love that glass of wine...Much to my shock, I found I was packing in ~2500-3000 daily! What a wakeup call for me!!!! So, I started tracking everything and found it takes only a few minutes ( Love that!) and in only a few weeks have lost a couple of pounds. Better then gaining them, for sure. I have also decided that I CAN loose 1 pound...not the 70+ that feels so discouraging. So, for now I am focused on loosing 1 pound...and am encouraging myself that if I can do 1, I can most likely do it 70 times...how ever long it takes. I'm betting that you can do it as well!!! Good luck dear one.

I spend most of my day in the car. Good snacks follow:

South Beach Living High Protein Cereal Bar 140 cal
banana 105 cal
apple 80 cal
baby carrots
salad with dressing
I don't mind cold soup and will pack 1 cup (most cans of soup come 2 cups to a can) with 5 crackers for about 200 cal
pre-peeled orange or grapefruit
homemade snack mix of nuts with dried raisins or cranberries
celery with peanut butter
Tuna fish in foil pack
any vege - cucumber, green pepper, cherry tomato, etc

You can get small lunch bag with freezer ice pack and take anything with you...

I have experienced not being able to log certain food because they are not in the data base and it may be something that I've gotten from a resturant or something.
I do set goals. I set 5 pounds for this week and it didn't happen. I think its the stress> I have noticed that I don't drink enough water because I'm not thirsty but when I do drink it's water. except for my green tea in the morning to warm me up. I figured it was healthier than hot coco.

A great many restaurants have nutrition info online now. Research before you go. As a general rule, if I can't get a calorie count for a given restaurant, I don't go to that restaurant. I also stop and ask myself before eating anything "How would I log this?" If I don't know the answer, that food doesn't get eaten.

As a rule, the more you have to lose, the faster you'll lose at the beginning, but five pounds a week is a very ambitious goal--ambitious to the point of being too difficult to attain, and therefore causing you to give up. 1-2 pounds a week is a more realistic goal. I pick days about 10 weeks apart...for example, Valentine's day and my wedding anniversary, April 20. I then set a goal of 11 pounds for that ten week period. I only weigh once a week...no exceptions. The scale can mess with your mind. I also skip weighing the week that Aunt Flo shows up.

If MFP says 1600 calories, that's what you need. If you burn calories through exercise you need to eat at least half of those exercise calories. NEVER drop below 1200 calories-it's just not enough food.

Healthy stuff that I always have:
Wasa Crispbread
Tomatoes
Avocado (this is really good if you get full before you reach your calorie goal-they're very high cal, but very nutritious)
fat free cottage cheese
Oatmeal
Unsweetened Frozen Mixed Berries
Bananas
white beans
Black beans
Brown rice
Frozen Vegetables
Bell Peppers
Bagged Salad Mixes
skim milk
Natural Peanut Butter (like Adams brand--another great high cal food to help you meet your goals when your not hungry)
Skinny Cow Ice Creams!!!
100 calorie granola bars

A lot of that stuff can go in the car with you, with a little planning, and you should get one of those ice pack bags--it'll give you a lot more freedom in terms of what you can take with you

My food diary is public if you want to look at it...be warned, I've had kind of a bad week, so don't take it as gospel...but maybe you'll get some ideas. there's also a thread around here somewhere wherein people with public diaries posted...you should be able to find some info there.:flowerforyou:

Log everything! And weigh and measure everything you put in your mouth. What you think is 1/2 a cup might actually be 3/4 a cup. Or you may think you're eating 1 TBSP of peanut butter when you're actually eating 3. I bought a simple scale and two sets of measuring cups/spoons. Nothing goes on my plate or in my mouth that isn't weighed or measured and logged.

And eat all your calories!! Really important to fuel your body adequately.

I do mean to log on your exercise, but take it off your settings if you have it in your initial profile - when you picked your lifestyle. Because lots of people (including myself) start with saying how much exercise you'll do in a week, and then ALSO log it when you do it - and if that's the case, you're essentially counting the exercise TWICE. Once as part of your weekly activities, and if you're entering it again as exercise on the site after you do it, then you're giving yourself credit for having done the exercise twice. SO, I took it off my personal setting, and then if I do it, log it. I have been able to lose weight without incorporating the exercise piece as of yet, and I set my goal at 1-2 pounds per week. if you put it on the profile, MFP is calculating extra calories for you, assuming you've done the exercise for the week, and that's part of what you do EVERY week, and would not be considered above and beyond the normal activity.

tjones - I have Fiber one and kashi bars for when I need a snack, they are about 130 - 140 cals for a bar. Good luck and make sure you are eating enough of the stuff that is good for you.

In your settings, it's gonna ask you what your activity level is. If you sit at a desk, or in a car all day, you want to put in sedentary. MFP will then assume you burn a lower amount of calories than someone who delivers mail on foot or waits tables. Your goals are just that-goals, things for you to aim for. You should enter some goals, because then you're making a commitment to exercising X amount of minutes per day or week.

I think what the person who mentioned counting exercise twice is saying is something else altogether. Let's say that you enter yourself as sedentary. So, just for the sake of an easy number to work with, let's say MFP thinks you burn 1800 cals a day. Ok, so MFP will set you at 1300 calories per day, so that you have a built-in 500 calorie deficit, whether you exercise or not. But if you were to put your settings at Lightly Active, MFP is going to think you burn around, say, 2100 calories per day, and therefore is going to give you 1600 cals to eat. And I think what that person upthread is saying is not to enter your mail route or your shift waiting tables as exercise, because those calories have already been accounted for in your settings. So, if you were to go into your exercise log and enter "walking, moderate pace" for 8 hours, you're counting exercise twice. BUT--if you wait tables or deliver mail for eight hours and then go to the gym and burn another 300 calories on the elliptical, you need to enter that exercise, because you should be eating at least half of those calories back.

I hope I stated that clearly enough--trying to post at work with the phone ringing off the hook!

Right, Auntbliz...it's been awhile since I've been in the settings tab, but what I remember is entering a goal of 4 workouts per week, 40 minutes apiece. It then gave me a calorie goal per day of 287, I think. That goal number doesn't get entered into my calories left for the day. That number is used (by me, anyway) to determine how hard I need to work. If my HRM says I haven't hit 287 today, then I either need to go longer or go harder...I consider that goal number to be the MINIMUM I need to aim for. However, no exercise calories get added to your calories remaining until you actually enter your actual numbers into the exercise log.

As far as housework, you're right. Don't enter anything that you do every single day. But if I'm doing deep cleaning, where furniture is getting moved, stepladders are being climbed repeatedly, etc, heck yeah I put that in!!! That's a skinny cow bar right there! :laugh: