You just never know who you may influence

Aesop101
Aesop101 Posts: 758 Member
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
Many years ago I worked at a large wholesale bakery for about 13 years. Sad to say it closed. Not really a surprise when I think about it. It was poorly ran and poorly staffed. Fast forward to this year and I found a new job after being unemployed for 3 years and it's in another Wholesale Bakery. Much to my surprise 5 or 6 people I worked with at the closed bakery were employed where I now work. We spent some time catching up on things and I mentioned I hit the gym 3 to 5 times per week.

Then one day after a company meeting we had a mock fire drill. We have to meet at a designated area to the south of the building. It's a bit of a walk. I had the honor to walk out with a pretty girl so I slowed down a bit for fair maiden. One of the guys I had previously worked with was also in the mock drill. Later in the lunch room he pulled me aside. He said, "Ron, I couldn't keep up with you when we were walking back from the drill. Can you tell me about the gym?" I didn't have the heart to tell him I slowed down for the young lady.

I told him about the gym and offered to get him some free passes for a week. Which I did. When I brought in the passes his buddy also wanted one and then another woman who works in the office also asked for one. Fortunately I had 3 passes.

I'm on another site where I have told my tail of woe about being unemployed for 3 years. During that period I had some pretty nice accomplishments including losing weight and passing the CPA exam. Many times I have posted on that site about my struggles with getting a job. Then earlier this year I finally found a great job. As it turns out one of the guys on the board has been struggling as well. What really surprised me was that he said I've been an inspiration and while he had pretty much dropped out of the job market he is back in and is being considered for a job with a great company. I'm pulling for him.

Sometimes you feel like you are in isolation and what you do doesn't really matter. Oh but it does. As a Golf Pro once told me, "Move the ball forward!"

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  • I agree, you never know exactly how you may have been a positive influence to someone. Just as we tend to remember those individuals who belittle us throughout life, we remember those who inspire. The old saying, if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything, is more true then most people realize. So say something nice to someone, and not only will you feel better about yourself, but you may just be inspirational to that person as well.
  • Penelope2Plyr
    Penelope2Plyr Posts: 166 Member
    Terrific and ty for sharing and reminding us all once again, we all make a difference in someone's life.
  • bakz4
    bakz4 Posts: 64 Member
    You're absolutely right...you never know who is looking at you or to you for inspiration. I'm a firm believer of that!! Since my weight loss journey and new mindset changed back in April, many people have joined with me on their own journeys. Not only does that help me to keep my head held high as they watch me, but I also know that if I slip, I may cause them to slip too. Congratualtions to you! And may you always being an influence to someone!
  • jerbear1962
    jerbear1962 Posts: 1,157 Member
    When I started my first job I had a manager that at the time didn't seem that much different than others but he was. He knew how to pull the best out of people and how to work with their strengths and bring out their weaknesses to make them better. He could dissect a persons abilities and show them a better way to do their job. Now I try to take everything I learned from him and use it at my jobs. I take the time to watch employees and see what their strengths are and to help with their weaknesses. So even though I started that job over 30 years ago he's still influencing my thoughts and processes.
  • clover5
    clover5 Posts: 1,640 Member
    Thanks for the reminder. Just a half hour ago I was thinking to myself "So, I'm at maintenance. Am I going to have to log here forever or be doomed to gain it all back?" Well "doomed" is probably a bit dramatic on my part, but the point on this thread is: It's not all about me. I have my pals to check with who are all at various stages in the process. So, for now, I'll just keep on keeping on.

    Have a great Sautrday all.
  • anemoneprose
    anemoneprose Posts: 1,805 Member
    Terrific and ty for sharing and reminding us all once again, we all make a difference in someone's life.

    This :)
  • fiberartist219
    fiberartist219 Posts: 1,865 Member
    I got serious about losing weight after I saw my husband lose 50lbs.
  • 12skipafew99100
    12skipafew99100 Posts: 1,669 Member
    Great story, thanks
  • Aesop101
    Aesop101 Posts: 758 Member
    I got serious about losing weight after I saw my husband lose 50lbs.

    Isn't a loved one the greatest influence of them all.
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