women and weight lifitng

hi i have a question i joined a gym with my fiance' and yesterday we went together and he showed me how to use some of the weights machines..i must say i LOVED it..the way i felt after weight training was awesome..i felt powerful:laugh: but i was wondering if itlll make me bulk up :ohwell: im trying to lose about 30-40 pounds and tone my arms legs and tummy area. i wasnt doing any heavy heavy weight except on my legs which i did 120 pounds...i tend to have more lower body strength then upper...so can anyone help me here if so do you have any pics after u weight train ...thanks:flowerforyou:

Hi There I have been lifting for a long time, over 30 years. When I was over weight and I lifted heavy I looked "bulky" and not feminine. But still the weight lifting was good for my body. I also ran long distances thinking I could lose the weight, but it did not work even after running marathon after marathon (and still lifting). After floundering around for 15 years I finally cherry picked from all the diets I tried and found what worked for me, eating less. It was the key for me. But I am small and petite, and I did not realize how small until I finally lost the weight last year at age 50.

You don't have to worry about getting bulky. I lift super heavy and I'm not big. My lean body mass is only 104 lbs. My muscles are not big, but I am very lean so they look big in pictures, but really if you saw me in real life I'm super tiny and feminine. Girls won't get big because they don't have the hormones for it. I'm probably as big as I'll ever get and I'm really small, I lift really heavy, but I'm not focused on being a power lifter. I'm focused on doing the right weight for the particular set I'm doing, and my main goal is to look fit and healthy and feminine and strong, which I do. I've achieved it.

And if you don't want to look quite so ripped as I do all you have to do is not get so lean. There is nothing wrong with keeping more body fat than I have and having a softer toned look. I'm under 12% body fat and still quite healthy. My doctor checks my blood work regularly and everything is A-OKAY in my body. Health is always on the forefront for me. I've lived half my life already and would like to live another 50 years with a good quality of life.

If I could encourage girls to lift, and lift heavy. My recent DXA scan shows that my 51.5 year old bones are that of a super athletic 30 year old. Now if that is not scientific proof that lifting makes you younger I don't know what is. I think I can safely assume there is no osteoporosis in my future even at my older age.

Also I believe it's the lifting is the reason everyone comments on the fact that I' don't look my age. See for yourself:



But remember, the lifting did not make me bulky. The letting myself get below 12% body fat gave me the ripped look. All you have to do is not get so lean if you want a softer look.

This might help show you how petite I really am: