Binge Eating

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  • woolfe87
    woolfe87 Posts: 7 Member
    I need help with this as well. It seems that loneliness is often subdued by those yummy late night snacks. I always feel awful afterwards. It is never worth it.
    I feel your (stomach) pains!
  • I can't see your diary, but I would also suggest eating larger meals earlier in the day. I had recently read the book Breaking Free from Emotional Eating by Geneen Roth. Fabulous book in both context and writing style. Highly recommended.
  • Robin_Bin
    Robin_Bin Posts: 1,046 Member
    Since you've identified it as emotional eating, food will not satisfy it. Remind yourself of that. Long-term you need to deal with the underlying emotional issues and figure out other ways to handle emotions. Shorter term try
    * any habit breaking technique - most of the best ones replace a bad habit with the formation of a good one; for instance, every time you want to binge, do 5 minutes of exercise
    * meditation
    * yoga
    * reading
    * any other distraction that uses both hands and preferably one you enjoy
    * brush and floss your teeth
    * put on some music and dance
    * drink at least 4 ounces of something
    * write an entry in a gratitude journal
    And make sure it's really emotional eating. A binge is never healthy.
    But if you really just mean minor grazing that puts you over your daily goal calories, check to see that it's not based on a real physical craving. For instance, I used to have a problem when I was low on protein or magnesium. Eating tons of other stuff wouldn't stop it, but just a small amount of what I needed would. Another common cause of cravings is dehydration. If it's a craving rather than binge eating, see http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/Robin_Bin/view/cravings-282817 for more ideas.
  • Hi!

    I have problems with binge eating/purging and I know it is difficult to control. Telling someone to just binge healthy foods is a bunch of bull. I find the easiest thing to do when I feel like binge eating is to go on a walk, drink a LOT of water, and do something to distract myself whether is be tumblr, reading, playing facebook games, playing with my cat, painting my nails, etc.

    Journaling is also a GREAT way to distract yourself.
  • blanchette_j
    blanchette_j Posts: 17 Member
    BEFORE you put it in your mouth, put it in your food diary! I have always been a late-night binge eater, but since starting on MFP, I enter things before I eat them so I can see what I am really putting into my body. It's like my brain shut off all judgement and let my tastebuds and stomach take control. Out of curiosity, I entered a typical nighttime snack for the 'old me' into my food diary, and I was shocked and disgusted to see that it totaled more than the DAILY calories I am eating now.

    It's not always easy to control the urge to pig out at night, but if you can force yourself to look at the calories of what you are putting into your body before it happens, you may lose your appetite!

    Friend me if you need any support, I know what it's like :)
  • imtriagain
    imtriagain Posts: 104 Member
    Bump. And for PP who asked what bump means it's a way of following the post.
  • Alli4Chocolate
    Alli4Chocolate Posts: 139 Member
    Hi,

    I have binge problems too. I was told about Overeaters Anonymous http://www.oa.org/.

    Look for a group in your area. I am going to start going to one in my area next week.

    An aquintance of mine who is an Psychologist (she deals quite a bit with clients that have eating disorders) suggested this to me.
  • buzzcockgirl
    buzzcockgirl Posts: 260 Member
    I had to ask at some point what BUMP meant as well. I figured it was 'bumping it forward' somewhere to save it-- but couldnt figure where it would go. So basically- by replying (with "bump" or "hsj&fh5kjdfjd" or whatever) you are now in the thread and can easily find it for later on your page under 'my recent forum posts'

    BTW-- I also had to ask what a NSV was! haha! (non scale victory)
  • Robin_Bin
    Robin_Bin Posts: 1,046 Member
    BUMP = Bring Up My Post - In other words, move it up in the "recent" list. Also used (incorrectly some would say) by many posters on MFP to add a posting thread to the person's "My Topics" list to make it easier for the person to find again later.

    For other MFP terms, see http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/Robin_Bin/view/mfp-terms-introductory-274185
  • davidsgirl145
    davidsgirl145 Posts: 162 Member
    i believe most of my weight issues are due to late night binging. It's a Huge struggle to stop it . For me, I had to look at it like a bad habit. So I had to replace one habit with another. I would take something to help me sleep (like benedryl) and read a book. Reading puts me to sleep much faster. TV seems to keep me awake to long then I can't resist the urge to eat. I don't have to keep taking stuff to help me sleep...it was just to kick the bad habit, now i'm use to it. So, decide what time it is that you have the desire to eat. for me it was after 11 pm. So by 10:30 I would take the benedryl and start reading then I'd konk out. I hope you find what works for you :)
  • pullipgirl
    pullipgirl Posts: 767 Member
    I just tell myself that I can wait and have it tomorrow and go read a book or take a bath or do some yoga.
  • I've been a binge eater since I was about 5 years old, so I know all about it. Yes, it's emotional, but it's also physical. While I am certainly still working on it, some things I find that really help with staving off a binge--in order of most effective to somewhat effective--are:

    -Exercise video (you won't feel like actually doing it until about halfway through, but by the end, you won't be hungry, either)
    -Hot herbal tea: peppermint and chamomile work the best for me, though there are also fruity flavors, if that's your thing
    -Shower
    -Write in a private journal: helps surface what's really bothering you (and may result in tears from time to time, which is OK)

    One thing that's really helped me lately is simply exploring those icky feelings that arise when I don't binge and have the urge. They totally suck, but at the same time learning how to coexist with them while practicing delaying the act of overeating helps you gain control over it because it makes it easier to say "no" next time.

    YOU CAN DO IT!
  • Thanks to the many posts and helpful tips. You guys are awesome. Please feel free to add me as a friend, I would love to have you on my weight loss journey.
  • fitsin10
    fitsin10 Posts: 141
    bumping, to read later AGAIN :)
  • ohnoetry
    ohnoetry Posts: 129
    Oh man, I hear you. I've lost 33 pounds (ten before starting MFP and have gone from there) and I felt/feel like I'm at a roadblock and it has to do with FOOD. I got my act together with exercise (I've now become in love with having a personal trainer, having a workout schedule, etc.), but food is so delicious! And then there's binging.

    I think it has less to do with food intake and more of the emotions, at least this is my case. I bought this book, "The Binge Eating and Compulsive Overeating Workbook" and it's been a real eye-opener. I don't agree with everything in the book, but there are things that have made the light bulb go off for me. For instance, the author discusses habits like hoarding calories or training your body to only be hungry when you want to binge, which, GUILTY. I have never been a breakfast person and saw myself hoarding calories until dinner, which meant eating alone.

    In short, binge eating is a big problem that has less to do with willpower and weight loss and more to do with what the causes are. Some things that have helped me curb my binging has been meal planning, scheduling hang outs with friends, going for a run, etc. But in the end, I know I still have a long way to go.

    Good luck and know you're not alone! It's a lot of soul searching that goes into stopping binge eating.
  • Ever since I started my lifestyle change there isn't any bad food around, so whenever I binge eat It's at least not as bad.
  • cornucopiaoflove
    cornucopiaoflove Posts: 45 Member
    For me binging isn't about how much I'm eating throughout the day...it's about trying to escape my emotions (even boredom). I could eat three meals, and still binge on something in the evening. Even if the calories don't pile up past 1,000, I still feel out of control. So, I'm working on counting calories and exploring why I'm uncomfortable and turn to food when I'm happy/upset/bored.
  • xiamjackie
    xiamjackie Posts: 611 Member
    I am so glad this forum was started. I am currently struggling with binging and trying very hard to overcome it. I have found a few things that work for me sometimes, not all of the time, but it takes baby steps.

    The things that work for me the most are what other people have said
    -Journaling (blogging)
    -Going for a walk and NOT taking a wallet or money
    - Talking to a friend who knows my situation
    -Getting out of the house to do anything just so I don't gravitate toward the kitchen
    -Not keeping junk in the house.

    Good luck to everyone out there who are trying to overcome this awful situation. ANY more suggestions on ways to help are appreciated :)
  • Alisha_countrymama
    Alisha_countrymama Posts: 821 Member
    I used to binge eat. I would eat till I got sick. I follow the Atkins "diet"/way of life now. And I love how I'm in control of my eating. It really helped me be in the drivers seat of my food issues. So if you want buy the book. It talks about emotional eating.
  • Three things that have really helped me lately are to 1) push through the bad feelings that arise (the longing for food, I guess you could call it) when you don't give in, and just give yourself permission to feel bad, whatever that means for you for as long as it takes. The next morning you'll wake up refreshed and not guilty or sick to your stomach or disappointed that you did it again, and the next time you have urges it's easier to say no; 2) If you notice that you have a problem with a certain food, don't bring it in the house. For me, that's chocolate, cookies, ice cream, Terra chips, and any kind of trail mix that has chocolate in it. Simply not buying that stuff and bringing it into my home helps my resolve; and 3) When you're super-anything--stressed, angry, sad, whatever--take time out to admit that you're feeling that emotion(s) and create other non-food-soothing activities to help calm you down, such as a yoga video, or a hot shower with your favorite soap or candle smell/essential oil in the air, turning on soft music and laying down on the couch or bed for a few minutes until you're calmer. Good stuff!