Rant! cold weather running clothes shopping.

OMG I just had an eye opening experience at a sporting goods store...

I went shopping with the intention of finding a sports bra and running pants. If you have ever been obese or morbidly obese you get use to finding clothes on your own because sales clerks can be evil. Often without even asking how they can help they will either say "we don't carry your size", or give you the look that says the same thing and then do their level best to avoid you and ignore you, or if you're lucky they hover just far enough away to watch you like a shoplifter until you actually have a question or need them when they suddenly become busy and have to go to another department.

In the past few weeks I have noticed this no longer applies to me. I'm still overweight but apparently I'm carrying it very well. Clerks have become crazy helpful, they even pull clothes in my size or smaller that they think might be what I'm looking for. They say hi. They make eye contact. It gives me hope that they are not all evil. But today it crossed a line.

I had a great clerk helping me with the bra and pants but I decide to wander the sales and look at tops, just as I finish selecting a top an older male sales clerk comes up and asks how I'm doing. I say fine and expect him to walk off. He instead decides to tell me a story about the overweight people who run through his neighborhood in their compression pants and tops and about how they need to put more clothes on because he can't get that image out of his mind. I'm sure his whole story only took a minute or two but my mind was in shock and racing with all sorts of things I couldn't get my mouth to say. When he was done and I was able to close my mouth and blink I said; I think that regardless of age and size they should be applauded for getting out there and exercising. He again criticizes their clothing choice, I say to keep in mind that the larger you are the more jiggly bits you want to hold in place so you can be comfortable. He makes some other comment I have mostly blocked out and I follow up with a they are probably less concerned with what you think about their outfit then just being comfortable and getting it done. What I wanted to do was scream at him and point out the merchandise in the store and ask exactly what the hell else they were suppose to wear. Try to be a plus size and find modest, comfortable workout clothing. If you have never been that big and you've had those thoughts about obese people and workout clothes seriously take a look at the racks in your local store and then get over yourself, no one has ever gone blind from looking at a fat person in spandex.

Am I flattered that even with 30 pounds to go just to be a normal BMI a thin, athletic, 40's plus, male, mistook me for someone thin enough to think I might get a kick out of making fun fat people? uuuuh sure, but my inner fat girl is pissed that I didn't give him a what for or talk to his manager. My inner fat girl is pissed that non fat people somehow think this is okay. I had really hoped I had seen the last this ugly bit of difference in the way fat people are treated, unfortunately now I'm just seeing it from the other side.