do you think it scares men

calisunrise
calisunrise Posts: 307
in Motivation and Support
when you tell them that you work out? i used to see a few, but when i told them that i loved working out and wanted to get fit and healthy, they said i look fine the way i do and stopped talking to me. it wasn't even obsessive talking, i only mentioned it and they seemed a bit turned off. has it happened to you too?

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  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    It's probably not that they are turned off, they are just not in the same lifestyle as you and have no desire to change.
  • buckeye86
    buckeye86 Posts: 128 Member
    I had kind of the opposite problem more than halfway through my weight loss. A couple dates talked about the activities they liked to do (hiking, etc.), and I told them I did, too. They apparently didn't believe me. I've lost about 30 more lbs since and have enjoyed those activities. I guess they were wrong.
  • WillLift4Tats
    WillLift4Tats Posts: 1,699 Member
    If it scares them, they aren't worth it. My husband says he loves the way I look too, but also finds it attractive that I work out and take care of myself. You don't want the type of guy who doesn't love that you work out.
  • gseburn
    gseburn Posts: 456 Member
    Not that I'm "in the market", but no, it would not scare me. I'd try and land a "work-out" date and see which one of us collapses first. :laugh:
  • Philllbis
    Philllbis Posts: 801 Member
    It won't care most of us. If anything it would be another thing we'd have in common.

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