Afraid of losing...

YcatsFursworth
YcatsFursworth Posts: 273 Member
in Motivation and Support
anyone else afraid they will lose what little they do have on top like I am? >< I was only a size C at my 250 and I'm a large B now at 214. I'm gonna be a size A at 150 I just know it and it bothers the heck out of me!

My husband is sportive of my worries saying he doesn't care if I'm small on top he just wants me to be healthy (oh and PS if you get a boob job you get a divorce too! XD ) but it still bugs me....

never knew I was so vain untill I started thinking about it....

anyone else in the same boat as me? I really think it's the problem for some of my self sabotage!

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  • cmacphee3
    cmacphee3 Posts: 278 Member
    I'm not quite as worried as you are, as I know at 150 I am a B cup, but I am a bit out of proportion, and I know at my goal weight I will definitely be an A cup.
  • YcatsFursworth
    YcatsFursworth Posts: 273 Member
    bump?
  • lauren3101
    lauren3101 Posts: 1,853 Member
    I don't think that's vain.

    It does bother me too, but I quickly decided at the end of the day there's no point in worrying about it, you can't stop it. You have to make the choice of either being bigger breasted or slim and healthy.

    I would just be grateful that you clearly have a loving and supportive hubby and tackle that problem (if there is one) when you get to it.
  • itsmyvwbeetle
    itsmyvwbeetle Posts: 272 Member
    I am in the same boat. I am a c right now. I will most likely be a saggy B cup when I reach goal. Sucks but I would rather be healthy then have big boobs.
  • leilaphoenix
    leilaphoenix Posts: 839 Member
    When the rest of you is smaller, even if you do end up at an A, it'll seem like an A*.
  • AuddAlise
    AuddAlise Posts: 723 Member
    I'd be less worried about cup size and more worried about a husband that told me "If you get a boob job I'll divorce you". NO ONE tells me what I can or cannot do with me body.
  • Pedal_Pusher
    Pedal_Pusher Posts: 1,166 Member
    Just get a boob job.................. DD's rule :-)
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    I'd be less worried about cup size and more worried about a husband that told me "If you get a boob job I'll divorce you". NO ONE tells me what I can or cannot do with me body.

    Yup, this. But, most people would rather be healthy than busty I think!
  • alpine1994
    alpine1994 Posts: 1,915 Member
    I feel ya! Before losing 20lbs I was a C (but kinda starting to spill out of my bras...another indication that it's time to lose weight) and now I barely fill up my new B bras. I swear half of my weight lost was from my boobs! It's just the way our bodies are. Embrace what you have, and buy some pushups! :) I NEVER even considered pushups until now, but they work wonders and no boob job/divorce needed! :)
  • ObtainingBalance
    ObtainingBalance Posts: 1,446 Member
    i am 150 lbs right now and I'm a C...

    I know I'll be barely a B at my goal weight. If I go under 120-125 lbs I'll probably get into A's. (I've done it before)

    Don't worry. You're husband loves you no matter your size !

    Kind of confused why he said he would divorce if you got a boob job, though
  • JenniBaby85
    JenniBaby85 Posts: 855 Member
    I always stay between a c and d no matter what weight I am. C at my healthiest!
  • YcatsFursworth
    YcatsFursworth Posts: 273 Member
    would like to point out that when my husband said he would divorce me it was in joke. :P he followed it up saying he would really rather I didn't but if I was dead said it was my body not his but he didn't see how one would improve my looks. hehe I have a great hubby!

    yeah I've come to the point I would rather be small busted then heavy but it's taken me a long time to get here..... really hurt when I asked a friend what he saw most unattractive in a woman and he said small cup size. told him I was small and he said "no you're not I'm talking like a size B or something tiny like that" ..... er.. size B here and gonna be a size A...... he quickly back tracked but it made me stop and think.... but I guess I have my man already who would rather me be healthy then HUGE on top so why do I need to impress other guys right?
  • snarf432
    snarf432 Posts: 91 Member
    When the rest of you is smaller, even if you do end up at an A, it'll seem like an A*.
    This^^^
  • YcatsFursworth
    YcatsFursworth Posts: 273 Member
    When the rest of you is smaller, even if you do end up at an A, it'll seem like an A*.
    This^^^

    it's the only thing that's keeping me sane and not freaking out over it! XD
  • vytamindi
    vytamindi Posts: 845 Member
    I didn't really have boobs until I started really gaining, so I knew they would be going away once I started losing.

    I have 30ish pounds left to go and mine are already shriveled husks of their former selves.
  • Koldnomore
    Koldnomore Posts: 1,613 Member
    I'd be less worried about cup size and more worried about a husband that told me "If you get a boob job I'll divorce you". NO ONE tells me what I can or cannot do with me body.

    My boyfriend is dead set against any kind of surgical body enhancements. Personally I would take is as a 'good' thing that your husband loves you and will love you as you are rather than wanting you to go through the pain and discomfort associated with unnecessary surgery.
  • LoraF83
    LoraF83 Posts: 15,694 Member
    I'd be less worried about cup size and more worried about a husband that told me "If you get a boob job I'll divorce you". NO ONE tells me what I can or cannot do with me body.

    My boyfriend is dead set against any kind of surgical body enhancements. Personally I would take is as a 'good' thing that your husband loves you and will love you as you are rather than wanting you to go through the pain and discomfort associated with unnecessary surgery.

    My husband would seriously question my state of mind and outlook on life if I were to start to want surgical procedures. I'm sure there is more context than just "if you get a boob job I'll divorce you."

    AND....yes, it's your body but you are married. That's your partner. They don't get to discuss your body and lifestyle choices with you?
  • fairykelly13
    fairykelly13 Posts: 79 Member
    I went from DD's to B's. I miss my girls, but I would have looked pretty silly with those huge hoots now.... I do wish they had stayed a BIT bigger though....
  • Moosycakes
    Moosycakes Posts: 258 Member
    Well you know your husband doesn't mind, so the only people who will make you feel self concious about it are the people around you, and yourself!

    Maybe for yourself, you could view your smaller cup size as a sign of how far you've come, and how lean you've become. Your chest size will still be proportionate!

    If you think you're still going to be self concious while out and about, there's always padded bras :D

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