Weight loss buddy/long distance BFF needed? lol

I have a few best friends I have known for years, but I can't seem to make them kick their tooshes into gear and the one I know I could lives to far to really push her to it. So who wants to be my MFP BFF? lol. I need someone to message on and off, I'm on almost every day except if my kids are sick for a bit so I take breaks then since theyre tiny (2 and 7 months). I really focus a lot more if I have someone to share my journey with instead of feeling alone in it most of the time. I'm married, 22 years old. Im 5'4" 165lbs my goal is 127lbs. I want to tone a little and lose weight a lot. I am not oober strict and I do eat junk when I feel like as long as I know it won't make me gain weight or even maintain for that matter. I believe calories are unique to each person, so if you are strict about the DON'T EAT 1200 calories! Stuff you won't like me much at all. lol. I eat more, but I have a theory that we need to go to a dr to get our BMR checked to know for sure if 1200 is to low, plus not everyone wants to tone up. I am a vegetarian and I like long walks on the beach. jk on the last part, although I'm sure they're fun I've never been to the beach except once for 15 minutes. So if anyone wants to talk add me or comment here please and thanks. I'm very open minded, trustworthy, and honest so if I make friends (even e-friends or workout buddies) I expect the same thing. My name is Jolene. :] OH & I just ordered a body media and Im sure it is awesome but it wont be here till tomorrow: excited!