busy mom>>new to exercise>>>want to start again

Hi All:

I used to fit, played all kinds of sports, danced...well that was over 15 years ago...now I am a 37 year old mom of two young boys, working full time, busy busy in all aspect of life which I am sure we are...so ...what kind of exercise do you do and when? and how do you start again? I don't have $ or time for gym. When I wake up its still dark, when I put the kids to bed its already dark, by 9:00pm I am so pooped I could just fall asleep myslef (and usually do)...ideas appreciated

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  • IronDame
    IronDame Posts: 275
    No time huh? Tell that to the girl who woke up at 4am to get in a workout.
  • PennStateChick
    PennStateChick Posts: 327 Member
    Have you tried any home fitness dvds? I, personally, love the beachbody programs. I am currently doing Insanity and Turbo Fire. However, if you haven't exercised for a while, I would suggest Turbo Jam (if you are looking for something fun from beachbody). Also, I admit that their stuff is pretty expensive, but in comparison to the gym, it certainly makes up for it.

    Quite a while ago, I had some success with Jillian Michaels 30 day shred, which is much cheaper, but I got bored. There are lots of other good ones out there.

    The only other suggestion I have is to actually schedule working out on your calendar. If you wait to do it when you "have time," you will never find time! Also, I don't know how old your kids are, but I have a 4 yr old that loves to jump around and dance and show me up when im doing Insanity and Turbo Fire.
  • PennStateChick
    PennStateChick Posts: 327 Member
    Oh, and something else to consider is checking out the other threads on this board. After closing your question, I noticed there are a lot of different challenges going on. There is also someone saying, "I am starting XXXXXX program on Monday, who is with me?" You get the program and then you have a group to be accountable to.
  • diana109
    diana109 Posts: 113 Member
    I use DVD's from home with a 4 and 3 year old. Wake up at 4:30am to get it done otherwise I will make excuses and procrastinate. I lost 95lbs using Turbo Fire and loved it! Look for a video that works for you, some of the videos are about 30 minutes.
  • RoxySherwood89
    RoxySherwood89 Posts: 70 Member
    agreed you need to make the time to exercise ... if you really want to you will find the time .. home dvd's are great for exercising around times that suit you. Personally im better in a gym but its what ever works for you :)
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I play Wii boxing and Michael Jackson "the Experience" for home time workouts
  • VastBreak
    VastBreak Posts: 322 Member
    I am in a similar position. I have to literally put exercise into my schedule. When I just started re-exercising again I only booked in 10 minutes at a time! I picked 10 exercises and did those for 1 minute each. Such as lunges, crunches, Squats, pushups, planks, if I couldn't complete the entire minute I would come back to that exercise at the end and finish the 20 seconds or whatever.

    Make the commitment and then make it work :)
  • jamie_maddox
    jamie_maddox Posts: 57 Member
    I am also a mom to 2 kiddos and I also work outside of the home full-time. I drag my butt up at 4:20 every morning to get my workout in. The first few times are rough, but then you get used to it. You can do it!!
  • Walk at lunch time. Walking is great exercise. Although it may not burn as many calories as a fitness DVD type workout, at least you are doing exercise. Even if you can only fit in 20 minutes a day, during your lunch, it's still a start! Once you get started, exercise will become more of a priority in your daily schedule. Maybe even get the kids involved. Do a daily dance party where they can jump and dance and sing along with you! Don't underestimate fitting in 10 minutes here and there all through the day.
  • i love the walking videos, the go from 1 mile to 5, you can do whatever mile fits your time for that day. and they are cheap, walmart has them for $10
  • juleszephyr
    juleszephyr Posts: 442 Member
    Hi,
    I am in the same position as you, single Mum of two young boys and working. I get up at 6am and do Jillian Michaels DVD, also bought a cheap treadmill from ebay which I use when the kids are settled infront of TV after homework time...
    It's not easy but every little helps and all that cleaning, cooking ironing etc adds extra cals to eat back...
    Jules xx
  • saratf
    saratf Posts: 49 Member
    Look into High Intensity Interval Training workout videos on Youtube, You can get a great workout in 20-30 minutes. I also do a dumbbell strength workout three days a week. It takes about 30 minute0, and I do it while watching TV with my husband after the baby is in bed.
  • Ewa101975
    Ewa101975 Posts: 39 Member
    oh my gosh now that is dedication...:)
  • Ewa101975
    Ewa101975 Posts: 39 Member
    Thank you all so very much. Very good ideas....I thought getting up at 5:30am was early..;) Wow...I really have to dedicate 20 minutes a day early in the morning to do a dvd or something. I will also try walking 10 min at lunch..I only get 30 minutes and often don't take an acutal break just eat at my desk so I can pick up my kids asap as my daycare is not very flexible. All good valid points. Thanks again so much!
  • Two words: Shake Weight.
  • xilka
    xilka Posts: 308 Member
    Right there with you!
    37, mom, busy, no money for gym...

    Free 20-min workouts on YouTube.
    Look for Hasfit workouts.
    There are some really great beginner videos.
    Do it a couple of times. Learn the moves. Make your own circuit training routine.
  • cecyvaquero
    cecyvaquero Posts: 154 Member
    I hear you. I am a busy mom of 4 kids and I feel the same way. I used to work out in the morning but that was when I had only 2 kids. Now when I wake up its dark and I don't want to get out of bed. So what has been working for me is I start getting the kids in bed by 7:30 so that they are actually in bed by latest 8:30pm. However, one of my daughters doesn't go to sleep she just watches me work out and when I do push ups she gets on my back and makes it difficult for me to continue but I continue. So I give her a little time to giggle and play with her then she falls asleep. I continue. I continue until I am done which is sometimes until 10:30pm. I sleep like a baby.

    That's how I do it. Try it.

    Oopps forgot to add I don't go to the gym and I just buy DVD's and do them from home. You can always rewind and forward any time you want.
  • H_Factor
    H_Factor Posts: 1,722 Member
    first off, good health begins in the kitchen. Take the time to prepare a healthy menu and healthy meals and your health will improve (including the weight loss you are looking for).

    as far as exercise, there are a lot of do-it-at home options. There are bodyweight routines that you can put together. You can go to bodyrock.tv and try those amazing 12 minute high intensity workouts. Notably, a lot of the current bodyrock routines use weights...but a lot of the routines that are archived do not.
  • robin820
    robin820 Posts: 150 Member
    I get up at 5 am before everyone else. I currently use Insanity, the only thing required is a DVD player and your own body weight. It is awesome and produces results if you follow it. My husband and I have both lost over 25 pounds each in the last 3 months doing this. It is awesome and challenging but worth every drop of sweat and dollar for the system. Good luck, I always say if you want something "BAD ENOUGH" you will make time!
  • liltpot78
    liltpot78 Posts: 21 Member
    I really feel your pain! My baby is a year now, and I am just trying to get back into working out! Because my time is soooo limited, I try to workout throughout the day. For example taking stairs at work, parking far away, doing crunches in the morning before the baby wakes, or walking at mall at lunch. Although this is the way I started, I just had to break down and make time for myself!! Don't feel guilty to take the time yourself.
  • Leigh_b
    Leigh_b Posts: 576 Member
    I am also I busy, working full time, mom to two young kids 3 and 5. (girls for me). Most moms my age (I'm 42) have older kids that are more self sufficient so it's sometimes hard to find understanding and/or empathy when I talk about how BUSY I am and how hard it is to get my workouts in and take care of myself while trying to keep my house and family in order and still spend quality time with my family.

    Being older (and short, I'm 5'3") also doesn't help the weight loss as we all know our metabolisms naturally slow down...

    I've been at this a year and a half. The first 8 months were the hardest in terms of figuring out my routine and sticking to it. I'd be really good for a few weeks and then something would happen either at work or with the family and I'd get thrown totally out of whack and it would all go to hell. Once I'd fall off the wagon it would take me weeks to rally myself to get back on. At the end of the holiday season last year I had finally decided I was done with the on again off again pattern and COMMITTED myself to being here and doing it right EVERY DAY. This week I am at 320 day logged.

    As for working out. Realistically, the only way I can do it is to get up extra early and get the workout in before I have to get my kids up and ready to go. This means my alarm goes off at 5:00 am everyday (sometimes earlier depending on my schedule). I do a lot of workout videos. I like Jillian Michaels videos because they are quick (20-30 minutes) and challenging enough that I feel like I got a good workout. I also started running. There is no better way to get a good calorie burn for the time investment. I started from scratch - I had never been a runner before - in July of last year. I took it slow and alternated between walking and running cutting down on the walking and upping the running time each week. Eventually got to where I could run 10 minutes straight, then 20 and then 30. Signed up for my first 5K in August of last year and have not looked back. I've run 3 1/2 marathons and several 5K and 10K races.

    Honestly, it's the races that keep me motivated. If I did not have a date/distance looming there are mornings I just wouldn't do it. I have a treadmill in my basement for rainy days but I sincerely HATE it and will run outside whenever I can. It was 20 degrees F on Wednesday and I got myself out there. I'll even run in the rain if it isn't pouring. Also, it is dark at 5:00 am but I go out anyway. I have a head-light and I strap it on and head out the door.

    It can be done... but it's not easy and I know that. Feel free to send me a friend request... I'd love to help support you and cheer you through the process... and you can do the same for me. Even though I've been doing it for a year... it's still not easy.

    :flowerforyou:
  • msrootitooti
    msrootitooti Posts: 253 Member
    I am also a working mom of 2 small kids.. I actually work out after they go to bed Tuesday-Thursday and then weekends so it makes it about 8;30. I try to go to the gym at least two of those nights, if not a video or stationary bike we have at home. The youngest at 15 months still has some mornings of getting up at 4;30 so early morning doesn't work just yet.
  • Also a working mom with 2 little kids. I get up early and run 2-3 weekday mornings while everyone else is still asleep (including husband). I also go to the gym 2-3 days after work but before getting kids. On weekends I either run or do a workout video at home while the little one is napping (older child either joins me or watches shows on the iPad). Before I started running, I was doing workout dvds at night after the kids went to sleep. I am definitely not a morning person, but now that it gets light earlier it is easier for me to get up and run. It always seems impossible until you really try to schedule in what works for you and for your family. I am happy to say that I work out 5-6 days a week and don't feel that my time with my family has been compromised, which is extremely important to me.
  • Ewa101975
    Ewa101975 Posts: 39 Member
    you guys have no idea how motivating this is....I will set up my alarm clock at 5:00am 3 times a week and just do it....

    I think I have to invest in a dvd...probalby not ready for insanity but maybe jillian michaels..



    Thank you all so much.

    P.S does walking in a grocery store for 30 minutes count ;) I just came back from grocery shopping and I am exhausted.
  • lts42uk
    lts42uk Posts: 162 Member
    I'm a single mum of 2 girls and work full time. I get up at 6am Mon - Fri to do either a Jillian Micheals or Jackie Warner DVD, then I cycle to work. It is hard at first to get up but you really do get used to it! It's never a problem for me now - I just go to bed a bit earlier!
  • bpotts44
    bpotts44 Posts: 1,066 Member
    The advice on beachbody workout plans is sound, cathe.com is another option in that vane. However, another approach would be buying some cheap weights and following the beginning workouts on nerdfitness.com or scoobysworkshop.com. I would also recommend doing 20-30 minutes of cardio per day, this can be a brisk walk initially and then on the weekends you need to really focus your efforts. I have four kids, my wife homeschools them all, and we both find time to get 5-10 hrs of exercise in per week and sleep 6-8 hrs per night, but you need to get really disciplined on your time management.

    Remember 80-90% of weight loss is diet so if you can't get alot of time to workout, then you REALLY have to be disciplined on food while you are losing.
  • shellux
    shellux Posts: 164 Member
    Jillian Michaels 30 day shred is on you tube. Really good quality and only 27 mins.