New Start?

rintje
rintje Posts: 2
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Hi everyone.

I have just been "thrown away" like an old pair of shoes by my husband of 2 years because I am too curvy.
I have always been this curvy since he told me 4 years ago for the first time that he loved me.

I don't have to understand, but I want to make sure this won't happen to me again. That's why I am here.

I could do with lots of weight loss buddies so please feel free to add me.

Good luck to everyone on their own journey.

:flowerforyou:

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  • HealthyGinny
    HealthyGinny Posts: 821 Member
    Hi everyone.

    I have just been "thrown away" like an old pair of shoes by my husband of 2 years because I am too curvy.
    I have always been this curvy since he told me 4 years ago for the first time that he loved me.

    I don't have to understand, but I want to make sure this won't happen to me again. That's why I am here.

    I could do with lots of weight loss buddies so please feel free to add me.

    Good luck to everyone on their own journey.

    :flowerforyou:

    Firstly, I'm sorry to hear that. That guy sounds like an a**.

    Secondly, do not only do that because of him - weightloss needs to be sth you do for yourself :)

    I wish you all the luck! Feel free to add me if you want to.

    Ginny, 24. xx
  • pepeleo
    pepeleo Posts: 49 Member
    Don't feel that you have been 'thrown away' but more that you have been set free from someone who is shallow.:smile:
  • HypersonicFitNess
    HypersonicFitNess Posts: 1,219 Member
    I'm so sorry for the break up and please don't feel you were thrown away. He doesn't know what he left behind and he may one day regret it.

    Move forward and know that you are a special, beautiful person created by God and you have a special purpose in life. When you are least expecting it, your REAL prince will come and love you, for you....the way you are. My husband married me when I was fat, he didn't know after 20 years of marriage I'd suddenly really get serious and lose tons of weight and he'd have a hot sexy babe. :wink: (so he thinks). My point is....you will find someone that loves you for YOU, not for what they want you to be and that includes what ever your outward appearance may be. Short, tall, curvy, skinny.....


    Friend request sent!
  • Lola1588
    Lola1588 Posts: 2
    New start for me too but I agree with vining, do it for you and what you get out of it. You will have more fulfillment once you reach your goal :)
  • rintje
    rintje Posts: 2
    Thank you all for the kind comments and all the friend requests you sent x
  • trchristy
    trchristy Posts: 155 Member
    your much better with out someone who treats you that way... But as everyone has said do it for you not anyone else... You will get much farther if its for you. .:) good luck to you and this is a good place to start great group of people on here.
  • nonstopper
    nonstopper Posts: 1,108 Member
    Well lets get it on and WORK!

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