Can you lose weight without weighing yourself?

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  • katz22
    katz22 Posts: 116 Member
    You can lose weight without checking the scale often, just keep logging, see how clothes fit or you could even take a photograph each month to check progress visually
  • ReinasWrath
    ReinasWrath Posts: 1,173 Member
    I actually only weigh in like once a month :) Make sure to take measurements and pictures as well though because sometimes your body can change without really affecting the scale. The scale will fluctuate a lot through the day and even throughout the week over reasons you can't control.
  • JLD81
    JLD81 Posts: 133 Member
    The simple answer is yes. The scale is intended to only be a tool to track progress. Coming from a girl with a history of eating disorders I can tell u the scale can be ur friend and enemy. My suggestion as to where u r now, yes stop weighing yourself so often. The mindset u r falling into is where ed's sneak in and tks over. I only weigh about once a week. Weighing before meals cheats our bodies. Weighing after going to the bathroom cheats our goals. This number isn't what matters. I know a girl who is a size six but weighs 185. I know another girl who is only 140 and wears a 10. Does that weight number mean much? No. Fitter people weigh more due to muscle mass. Think of it this way. Would u rather trash the scale (so to speak) and be fit or obsess over the scale, else muscle mass and be "skinny fat" as Pauline Nordin calls it. That number alone is no indication of your fitness level or your size. Take alone my size 6 friend would be considered obese. She spends 2 hrs a day at the gym. I don't think so. Just keep on track if u don't weigh as often and u will b fine.
  • chrtyA
    chrtyA Posts: 39
    I used to weigh myself everyday and I would get upset when I was working so so hard and the scale was not moving. When I was trying to lose weight after my firstborn and was getting in good shape but the scale wouldn't move like I wanted it to, I decided to stop weighing myself and concentrate on being healthy and pushing myself as hard as I could and 6-8 months later I weighed myself and I was less than my original goal weight. Now that I am just getting started pushing myself and trying to lose weight after my second pregnancy twins I weigh myself 1-2 times a week. I have learned not to even think about weighing myself on or around "that time of the month" as it is always up water weight 5-6 pounds. It can be depressing when you think you should have lost and you haven't even if you are working hard. It takes time and I reccomend not weighing yourself everyday maybe everyother week or every week maybe even once a month but not everyday.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I think I need to cut down on my scale usage. I noticed that I weigh myself before and after each meal now, as well as every time I finish using the bathroom :/

    Do you guys think it's possible to lose weight without using a scale very often? I was thinking of only weighing myself every 1-2 weeks now.

    Thanks in advance!
    <3 Lulu

    yup!

    Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but if you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale; water retention, digestion, hormones, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

    Losing weight requires tremendous patience. You will not lose it when you want it or where you want it. The body does its thing. Some apparent plateaus can last a month or so. You cannot make it happen faster. You must focus on two things; calories and exercise. Nothing else matters. Scales and metrics don't matter. The day in and day out grind of exercise and calories are all that matters. It is not very exciting until things fall into place. You get your victories and you ride one victory to the next.

    The scale is a trend tool. The scale is good but put it away and only check once a week and only use it as a trend tool. It will fluctuate, it does not matter. Take front side and back progress pictures at least once a month. You will see differences that the metrics won't tell you and it's that little bit of NSV that will keep you going until the next victory.

    The goal is to get away from the scale when you reach maintained. I have not used the scale all this year. It was hard for me to get away from it even when I was first in the maintenance phase of this journey. I have such freedom now letting go of the scale and simply going by how I look in the mirror and how my clothes fit. I know when I've been eating extra at social events and vacations and can see and feel it a little when I get back. It takes a long time to lose that little bit because once you get lean you can't eat at a deep deficit anymore, so I've learned that if I just ignore the scale I already know what to do, focus on exercise and calories and things fall into place.
  • AyaKara
    AyaKara Posts: 220
    I focus on inches lost, not weight! I've gained like two pounds since I've started but I do look stronger so I'm slowly learning to not rely on the scale. :)
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
    I, also am recovered from an ED and I used to do the same thing. It's easy to fall back into those habits, unfortunately. I find that weighing myself once a day, in the morning, before I eat and after I pee works for me. That way I can monitor my weight without going nuts about it. I also record my weight once a week in a log book and also measure myself at least every few weeks. Other than that, I stay away from it. This is coming from someone who has 4 scales, scattered throughout the house, so it's an accomplishment for me to only weigh once a day!
  • shabnaum
    shabnaum Posts: 8 Member
    I don't think you should allow the scale to define your weight loss goals. Sometimes, you may gain a pound or two or lose a pound or two --when you increase muscle mass or water weight, your weight will go up, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're gaining fat on your body. I think it's best to "weigh" yourself based on a measuring tape and tracking your body through pictures, rather than the scale. When you see your inches going down, that will motivate you to keep going forward and meet your fitness goals.
  • shabnaum
    shabnaum Posts: 8 Member
    I completely agree! My weight has been fluctuating since I have started weight training with heavier weights but the inches keep going down.
  • kuntry_navy
    kuntry_navy Posts: 677 Member
    you don't have to weigh yourself everytime you eat. you could have a meal or two that wind up adding on a ton of extra water weight. only to lose that weight by the next day. the one positive thing about standing on that scale every day. it might keep you from grabbing that 'one more won't hurt'
  • aksae
    aksae Posts: 2
    I think most people can notice weight loss without the use of scales but it is whatever you as an individual wants and feels is best for you and your body. I have always avoided the use of scales because often they don't tell me anything useful! Plus people may weigh a heavier amount due to muscle mass or simply because they are taller. If you want to use them, take the advice of others, perhaps only do it every month or something, when you feel you've achieved something. It sounds like you want to see your results and fast, but if you want to lose weight successfully you may have to be more patient. Good luck whatever you do.
  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
    I'm just starting on trying to lose some but I typically only weight myself once every couple of weeks. You could just measure yourself.
  • kenazfehu
    kenazfehu Posts: 1,188 Member
    So far so good. This time around I want to focus on the choices I make on a day-to-day basis, not on what the scales show. I was weighing about once every couple of weeks, now am trying for once per month. The scales used to completely throw me off course. If I had gained, I consoled myself with a favorite food (and way too much of it). If I had lost, I celebrated with a favorite food treat.

    Now my focus is one meal at a time, one exercise session at a time. If I do well in those areas, I trust that weight loss will follow.
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
    I focus on inches lost, not weight! I've gained like two pounds since I've started but I do look stronger so I'm slowly learning to not rely on the scale. :)

    Same here! One of my motivators for losing weight was that I was unable to sit in a movie theater seat (the same seating that I have been sitting in since the theater opened when I was a teenager) without "spilling over" into the seats next to me. And the metal bar under the arm rest was digging into my outer thighs. So yeah, inches is WAY more important than body weight.
  • Personally, I had to cut down on how often I weigh drastically because I'm one of those people who will get discouraged if the numbers go up, even when I know it's water retention. I find that when I weigh all the time I feel discouraged from strength training and building lean muscle because sometimes that makes the scale go up.

    Right now I am measuring my success in how well I stay within my calorie & nutrient goals, how much I stick to my workouts, how much more energetic I feel every day, and how much improvement I see in my strength & stamina. I intend to weigh once a month, or once every two weeks at the very most.

    I have done this before and it worked out pretty well.
  • nexangelus
    nexangelus Posts: 2,080 Member
    p.s. Lulu...you can message me anytime, I just read your profile, weighing, the scale, the numbers, the calories...they all lead to swirling spirals...please...please step off the scale and regain your sanity...I am a recovering anorexic/bulimic...3 years clear of triggers, spirals and obsessiveness...it has been a long journey, I am 38 now and it began when I was 16...

    As I said before, I only weigh in once a month...it works for me.
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    You cannot lose weight without weighing your food but you can lose weight without weighing yourself.

    Your clothes and your friends (and even ex-friends) will tell you when you have lost weight.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I thought it was stepping on the scale that caused the fat cells to shrink.
  • Ejourneys
    Ejourneys Posts: 1,603 Member
    One diet I was on years ago had an excellent strategy for weighing: Weigh yourself once a day (same time of day would be ideal) and then take your weekly average. The average shows a much smoother downward trend in weight than relying on either the daily weights or weekly weights:

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    In case my spreadsheet image didn't insert correctly, you can find it at
    https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8316/8058380998_ed08a62411_z.jpg

    I've been a yo-yo, so I'm working my way back down again. That brings me to another point: I am focusing on behavior that I can sustain, with respect to both what I eat and how I treat the scale. I weigh myself once a day and view the scale as a tool, nothing more. I also gauge my weight loss by how my clothes fit and how I look in the mirror.

    Here's a great article showing the difference between focusing on weight and focusing on one's muscle mass:
    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/
  • Angiesolomon
    Angiesolomon Posts: 144 Member
    I also find the scales can be triggering! Its a good I to keep track of your progress though to know you're doing the right thing. Maybe weigh yourself every two weeks? Also never weigh yourself after a treat / cheat day!!!
  • JLD81
    JLD81 Posts: 133 Member
    lol! I think a lot do
    I thought it was stepping on the scale that caused the fat cells to shrink.
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    not when those beggars see the scales coming - they breathe in an make themselves as large as possible - probably trying to scare off the scales (like "they" say you should do with mountain lions in Yosemite)
  • RLehotsky
    RLehotsky Posts: 27 Member
    There was I time in my life where I was very depressed about my weight and my doctor said to not look at the scale but to look at the way my clothes fit. Which made sense I had weighed at that time 140 and I wore a size 6 and my height is 5'4" so to be that size at that weight was unusual but I felt great and I was happy. But then life happened and it all changed and here I am trying to get there again.
  • JLD81
    JLD81 Posts: 133 Member
    I also would like to point my own personal story out as an example. I suffered from ED's from 15 years old until my late 20s. I am now 31 years old and in the best recovery state I have ever been in. My ED's started healthy enough as wanting to lose weight and then became an addiction that took control. I restricted everything and hid them well. I got to a point where I was fairly healthy only to fall back later. I gained a lot of weight last year (40ish lbs) and went from a size 6-8 to about a size 14 in jeans. I gained as a result of constant birth control treatments and suppressing my periods and was later to be found to be b12 deficient- and not having the constant cysts they thought I had (so all that was really for nothing). It would have been easy to be angry but I didn't want to be angry. Instead I was finally diagnosed with ADHD and put on meds. My ADHD dr is aware of my ED history and threatened to take away my meds if she sees any slight indication that I am falling back into my old habits. As a result I viewed this as my opportunity to take control the healthy way.

    According to the scale I have only lost about 15 lbs since I started losing. However, I have gone down to a size 10 jeans and can get into my size 8s- though not quite comfortably but very close. I could frustrated that the scale says im not losing, or look at the big picture. I was gone in training for 2 weeks without a scale and working out at a hotel. I didnt weigh those whole two weeks. When I got back I had only lost a half lb according to the scale. However, when I measured with a tape measure- I had lost an inch off my hips and an inch off my waist. Which would you rather look at? Size changes or the number on the scale. I couldnt even get the 8 jeans up my butt before i left. Now I can zip and button them. I think I made a lot more progress than the scale woulod indicate. Don't let the scale rule you :)
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    You could join the "Monday Weigh-in Group" - it is below the first line on "The Community" - even I manage that!

    I shall be here a while (and have no risk of becoming seriously underweight!) so you can always send me a messge if you need encouragement. I am too old for you to want on your friends' list.

    Best wishes - you won't need to rely on mere luck
  • given the amount of food I've eaten these past 3 days...i'm starting to feel like i should just give up on losing weight altogether

    Thank you all for your answers to my question! It seems that it's split half and half between measuring and weighing...I think I'll give measuring/how I feel a go since weighing doesn't seem to be doing me any good
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    given the amount of food I've eaten these past 3 days...i'm starting to feel like i should just give up on losing weight altogether

    Truthfully, as close to your goal as you are, you should.

    I'm not saying give up on achieving goals, but change your focus to fitness goals instead of scale goals. Losing two pounds isn't going to make a huge difference, and the changes you want to see might even occur while gaining instead of losing.

    For instance, one of my goals was to deadlift my body weight. I achieved that on Friday. Long term, I want to bench press my body weight. I'm about 75% of the way there. I want to be able to run a sub 7 minute mile. My fastest so far is 7:16. Since I stopped caring about the scale and started focusing on fitness, I did gain a little weight... and look - AND FEEL - way better for it.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/799682-lifting-gaining-weight-losing-curves-getting-bulky
  • Keep on going! I started off losing the first 5-10 pounds easily, then hit a plateau for almost three weeks. Discouraged as I was, I kept eating within my calorie limits, exercising 3x a week, holding out for the scales to tip in my favor again. It wasn't easy. This is the first time I am trying to lose weight the proper healthy way. It's so stressful haha. Sure enough, I started to lose weight again this week. But anyway, I agree that you should try to work on some fitness goals. It'll serve to help you on down the line ^^
  • hughtwalker
    hughtwalker Posts: 2,213 Member
    This question about is weight loss possible without weighing seems a bit like the one about trees falling - or men speaking - in the forest.
  • Of course it is. Also keep in mind that the scale only tells you the total bodyweight but it doesn't tell the whole story where the weight loss came from.

    In my case, I rely more on measurements, clothes and more importantly how stronger & more energetic I feel. I would rather see the scale moving up but losing dress sizes than seeing the scale going down but inches & pudginess stays the same.