What weight did guys start hitting on you?

BlackBarbieBABY
BlackBarbieBABY Posts: 19
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What is your
1. Height,
2. Starting weight
3. Weight men started noticing you?
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  • amuchison
    amuchison Posts: 274 Member
    5'7.5
    268
    Men have always hit on me even when I was 268 but even more so I started noticing looks when I got down to 177;) I'm married so it was a little ego boost haha!!
  • IamSheaMc
    IamSheaMc Posts: 1,273 Member
    5'3
    Enter college 125lbs
    After college 149lbs currently 145lbs
    Men never stopped noticing me
  • ajanmillie
    ajanmillie Posts: 241 Member
    5'1"
    starting weight 280
    I started getting attention at 140 lbs.
  • CrazyWhiskers
    CrazyWhiskers Posts: 63 Member
    1. Height = 5'6
    2. Starting weight = 193
    3. Weight men started noticing you = 160?

    I'm strange though. I wish it would stop, lol!
  • stockholmhasago
    stockholmhasago Posts: 67
    5'4
    Starting Weight = 190
    Men have always hit on me /shrug But I've been in a committed relationship for two years so it doesn't matter if they do or not.
  • Willbenchforcupcakes
    Willbenchforcupcakes Posts: 4,955 Member
    1-5'7.5"
    2-starting weight 214, highest non-pregnancy 240s
    3- men have never stopped hitting on me, but it is quite funny to watch men stop in their tracks and come talk to me and pretend to browse through watches and rings just to spend time at work. I'm happily married so it's nothing but an ego boost.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    6' 3"
    344
    Thankfully, they don't hit on me and I would probably hit on them if they did... LOL> (sorry, could not resist)
  • bradthemedic
    bradthemedic Posts: 623 Member
    Guys hit on me regardless of weight which is frustrating as I am not gay. :)
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    5'5"
    Start-165
    Now-153

    Personality has a lot to do with it..... If You are spunky, optimistic and love to have fun, what's holding them back??
  • harlanJEN
    harlanJEN Posts: 1,089 Member
    They never stopped

    it's not about size, weight, pants size or eye color. It's about whole package. Confidence. Personality.
  • lundii
    lundii Posts: 151 Member
    1. Hight: 5'9''
    2. Starting weight: 216
    3. Men started noticing me at 170. I remember the very first time... and my thought was... YES!
    :tongue:
  • Kejlina
    Kejlina Posts: 31 Member
    Guys hit on me at every size.

    But it's invariably creepy guys.
  • Determined518
    Determined518 Posts: 138 Member
    So this might sound wierd... but I was always around 5'6, 140.... always got hit on.

    However, I have gained some weight due to growing up, being pergnant... exc. I'm about 180. I have noticed that I get on the same... just more by black guys now. lol. Guess they like them a little chunky. :)
  • kotersmom
    kotersmom Posts: 96 Member
    They never stopped

    it's not about size, weight, pants size or eye color. It's about whole package. Confidence. Personality.

    I totally agree...personality is key. Seems like a confident woman is always attractive to men regardless of size.
  • xSakura
    xSakura Posts: 288 Member
    Height - 4ft 11
    Start weight - 196lbs

    I recieved so much attention off guys when I was around 150lbs. At the time I never understood why, I thought I was huge back then, obviously not! It used to annoy me sometimes, didn't like the constant attention, but it was a great confidence booster and hey, it made me smile :laugh:
  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    Why does getting hit on by a man have to be narrowed down to a size? There are plenty of people who are overweight but get approached regularly. And then there are people who are at an ideal weight and don't get approached.

    It disappoints me that a "Success Story" has to be that you're finally seen as attractive to the opposite sex, and not that you're attractive to yourself.
  • Kotuliak
    Kotuliak Posts: 259 Member
    Why does getting hit on by a man have to be narrowed down to a size?
    I think a big part of it is that it's not being "narrowed down," it's simply a fact of life.
    It disappoints me that a "Success Story" has to be that you're finally seen as attractive to the opposite sex, and not that you're attractive to yourself.
    Once again, I disagree. We tend to view ourselves as "beautiful," not matter what. Being viewed as beautiful by others is simply a lot more meaningful than our own misconceptions.
  • Kotuliak
    Kotuliak Posts: 259 Member
    it's not about size, weight, pants size or eye color. It's about whole package. Confidence. Personality.
    I totally agree...personality is key. Seems like a confident woman is always attractive to men regardless of size.
    I don't think it has anything to do with confidence. There's plenty of confident women, big and small, who are unattractive to men. It really is the whole package. I.e., more than just confidence.
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    Height: 5'4"
    Starting weight: 60kg (132lbs)
    Weight they started noticing me: They did no matter what I weigh/ed, mostly when I gained (not intentionally)! Weird haha. I guess cause at 60kg I looked a lot less apparently.
  • heatherloveslifting
    heatherloveslifting Posts: 1,428 Member
    All the time- I must just look approachable? Intensity and persistence definitely increased when I hit a healthy BMI though.
  • petite_boleyn
    petite_boleyn Posts: 144
    Height: 5'1
    Starting weight: 153
    Current weight: 110

    Men have always noticed me, that was never the issue. But I gotta admit, now that I'm much smaller I do get more attention.
  • seamonkey789
    seamonkey789 Posts: 233
    They never stopped no matter what I weighed. Which is why i prefer going out with my big scary dog
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    I've been bigger and smaller. Either I don't get "hit on" or I don't notice if I do.
  • es2189
    es2189 Posts: 142 Member
    I've been bigger and smaller. Either I don't get "hit on" or I don't notice if I do.

    Same.
  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
    In terms of aesthetics, it's about body fat percentage for me and having a strong, athletic body; body weight is meaningless to me.
  • quietasariot
    quietasariot Posts: 198 Member
    1. 5'6"
    2. 230 pounds
    3. Honestly men have always hit on me here and there, but it didn't become so frequent until I hit about 155 or so and coincidentally started lifting around that time. Definitely a HUGE ego boost. :)
  • mc1217
    mc1217 Posts: 108 Member
    5'4, ~185 lbs (125 lbs. now)

    ...i'll let you know when it starts!
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    5'2"
    146 SW
    125 CW
    Never stopped getting hit on.
  • hypocritelecter
    hypocritelecter Posts: 61 Member
    5'9"
    My heighest was 208, and I had attention then.
    Currently 169, and I'm getting more attention than when I was 145.
  • 240x30
    240x30 Posts: 37 Member
    it's not about size, weight, pants size or eye color. It's about whole package. Confidence. Personality.

    I almost never get hit on. I guess I'm a bore... I dunno. Hoping the weight loss will help.

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