Reward for the kids?

rkascak
rkascak Posts: 224 Member
edited September 20 in Food and Nutrition
After dinner, my daughter gets a treat like ice cream, a popsicle, a cookie.... etc. But I dont like rewarding her with junk food. I thought rewarding her with a trip to the park, but if she doesnt earn it, Id still want her to get outside and get exercise. She is only 2 years old, so are there any ideas for "treats" that arent junk food or not food at all?

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  • tntrav44
    tntrav44 Posts: 100 Member
    How about stickers? You could have a sticker chart and when she gets so many stickers collected (maybe 10, or 7 for the week), she could get a bigger reward (a small toy, ice cream, etc.). That way, she's working towards a bigger goal, and if she does get rewarded with junk food, it's only once a week instead of every day. This would also teach her counting I guess, too haha.
  • my sis in law usually gives, grapes and cheese for their treats
    or any sorts of veggie and dip it in a dipping sauce
    ooooorrrr she gives them celery with peanut butter

    but if they eat something that the mom made that was very healthy. they get treated with the Popsicle.
    hope that helps.
  • tuesgirl1031
    tuesgirl1031 Posts: 13 Member
    at two...hugs and kisses are the best things, It also teaches them to show others love and affection.
  • mvl1014
    mvl1014 Posts: 531
    Love Tracy's idea. I'd allow healthy snacks too, so sticker plus apple slices or grapes. Then when x number of stickers are earned she can have ice cream or pizza or another treat. It will teach the importance of x healthy days allow 1 reward treat.
  • Kristen81
    Kristen81 Posts: 342 Member
    How about stickers? You could have a sticker chart and when she gets so many stickers collected (maybe 10, or 7 for the week), she could get a bigger reward (a small toy, ice cream, etc.). That way, she's working towards a bigger goal, and if she does get rewarded with junk food, it's only once a week instead of every day. This would also teach her counting I guess, too haha.
    I like this idea! Also..apples with peanut butter is a good treat so is cheese and crackers.
  • smae1980
    smae1980 Posts: 794 Member
    Stickers are a great reward I use for my daughter, although when she was littler she would eat them
  • sazziecee
    sazziecee Posts: 143
    a mini box of raisins?

    home made ice lolly made with fruit juice and water?
  • Kristen81
    Kristen81 Posts: 342 Member
    Jello is good...also instant pudding. She can maybe help with that.
  • TheMaidOfAstolat
    TheMaidOfAstolat Posts: 3,222 Member
    We use stickers at my house too.
    There are also some great work out videos geared towards kids...my daughter loves yoga (she loves Nina on Sprout doing the yoga part) so we found a great DVD at the library that's yoga for kids.
    Treats such as fruits a veggies are great- kids learn by example and by what they're given. My daughters first experiance with sugary treats was her first birthday (chocolate whole wheat cake)...she does enjoy fruit snacks and junk like every kid..but we don't buy it often. She prefers to have a yogurt or a banana for something sweet (she's now 6 and loves to eat healthy snacks).
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    We usually reward good days with stickers. Now that our son is getting a little older tv time or video game time works to.
  • My kids are 6 & 3 and for a food treat after supper my kids usually have a Yoplait Go-gurt (I freeze them). We also make our own popsicles with juice. My kids also love smoothies (for them it's like a milk shake). I also cut up strawberries and put a little whip topping on them. They also just love fruit. Recently I introduced them to ants on a log which they are addicted too haha. They also both love carrots dipped in Ranch & then the good old apple & peanut butter.

    Going to the park after supper (especially now that the weather is getting nice) is pretty much a nightly ritual for us. We either ride our bikes to the parks or just walk. It wears them out for bedtime - haha!

    My daughter also LOVES playdough so I reward her a lot with being able to play with playdough. Both my kids also like to paint so that is used in our house a lot for a reward system.

    Recently I got an exercise ball & have been doing it to a DVD that came with it. My kids are both fascinated by the exercise ball so I got 2 more and we exercise together which is actually a blast!!

    We also have a Wii so that is a huge incentive. We have family game nights & play Wii Sports & Wii Sports Resorts - we have little tournaments which is so much fun.

    Hope this helps! Good Luck to you!
  • cds2327
    cds2327 Posts: 439
    We give our son strawberries or frozen blueberries or yogurt. he loves them....
    or he gets to watch his favorite show for a half hour (either phineas and ferb or scooby doo).
    or a game with mommy and daddy
    or a bike ride.
    my son is 3
  • kimber607
    kimber607 Posts: 7,128 Member
    I have a 5/6 yr old and I do the same thing
    I reward them with a little scoop of vanilla frozen yogurt, apples w/ peanut butter, or bananas sprinkled with a tiny tiny bit of honey
    I also make my own brownies and oatmeal chocolate chip cookies with healthy ing. and add some flax seed and wheat germ..so I feel better they are eating so called 'junk'

    Good luck
  • kgrutch
    kgrutch Posts: 223
    is the "reward" for eating all of her dinner? i guess i would eliminate the whole idea of needing to eat all of her food. that is why some of us struggle with weight because we were habitually eating everything that was given to us vs using our own bodies signs of when we were full.
  • karenjoy
    karenjoy Posts: 1,840 Member
    At work (school nursing) we don't recommend ever rewarding with food of any kind, as this gives the impression that food is somehow something that you get when you are good, and nice food (like treats) become associated with feeling good and being rewarded and hence that urge to over eat when we feel down as an adult. It is OK to give healthy treats from time to time, but never as a reward. What we suggest to parents is either stickers, or a small pot into which every time she is good, or eats nicely at the table (don't reward for empty plates, you are building problems with that one) or tries something new, let he put in a marble, when the pot is full, (for a small child use a small pot, so it won't take so long, or the sticker chart has a full line etc, let her have a time/activity treat that she choose before hand. Children value time and attention way more than food. Even if it's a special story time, or a trip to the park, it doesn't have to cost money.
  • catherine1979
    catherine1979 Posts: 704 Member
    We have a reward bowl. It's full of things like mini cans of Play Doh, sheets of stickers, little books, bouncy balls, and bubbles and so on. When my son gets enough stickers on his chart, he gets to pick a treat out of the bowl.
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