Question for the guys!

yes, please answer this lol I'm curious!

Thigh gap. I mean no gap, no way.


j/k I don't even really get that.

I'd say smell, and I'll go with overall curvyness. as in proportions being pleasing.

1. Her face.
2. Big stomach because I do not find that attractive.
3. Her face and eyes. Just like it when girls smile. It's my biggest turn on!
4. I don't really care as long as she's not bigger than me.
BTW I'm 19 if it matters.

People always worry about physical attractiveness and then personality traits. If you do not find someone physically attractive than you will not try to get with them. Personality can make someone more appealing but looks do count. Learned a lot in psychology class. People in successful relationships are equally attractive, have similar interests, similar intellect, etc.

What do you notice first about a girl?
What physically is a NO GO! (Big stomach or legs or teeth or ect) and WHY
what physically do you see and love about a girl (boobs butt eyes flat stomach ect)
What body type is most attractive to you (thin athletic thick chubby average) and when I say thick I don't mean the OBEASE girls who call the selfs thick I mean Kim kardashian thick

1st notice - how she treats people/animals, 2nd notice - eyes, 3rd notice - butt or boobs depending what's closest
No go - smelly (because I don't like smelly people)
What I love - Big boobs, small boobs, small *kitten*, developed *kitten*, flat stomach, etc - I love it all
Most attractive - Athletic - I loveeeee abs on a girl

Edit: When I go out, I watch how people treat their waiters, cashiers, strangers, animals on the street, etc. If I see a super hot girl, but she is a bi*ch to the cashier or wearing fur, I'd never approach her.

People always worry about physical attractiveness and then personality traits. If you do not find someone physically attractive than you will not try to get with them. Personality can make someone more appealing but looks do count. Learned a lot in psychology class. People in successful relationships are equally attractive, have similar interests, similar intellect, etc.

You'd be surprised.

I didn't find my husband attractive physically at all, but we became friends. It wasn't until I got to know him that the attraction to HIM grew.

In the parallel view, my husband found me pretty but he thought I was annoying and childish. After 2 years of friendship, he watched me grow as a person and started to pursue me.

Maybe it's just us.

Not just you. I completely agree. I recall several guys that kind of flew under my radar and only after getting to know them better did I find them attractive. The reverse can be true as well: think someone's hot at first but find out they're a *kitten* and the attraction is gone.