is it wrong???

XxxFallenAngelxxX
XxxFallenAngelxxX Posts: 133
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Thanks everyone!!! :-D Dont know how to erase this post tho!

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  • hiker359
    hiker359 Posts: 577 Member
    At 19...not a big deal. At 40, it might be a different story, unless you join a convent.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    You're 19.
  • jamiem1102
    jamiem1102 Posts: 1,196 Member
    You're 19 - You're fine and completely normal.
  • JenniBaby85
    JenniBaby85 Posts: 855 Member
    You're 19? You've got time. :flowerforyou:
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    Is it wrong to never have had a boy friend your whole life? I never did, and my friends tease me and like really, bother me about it.. ?
    I mean you look like you could get one pretty easily if you really wanted to...
    I don't see what would be wrong in never having a boyfriend before honestly, if I were you I wouldn't be bothered by it.
  • SenshiV
    SenshiV Posts: 131 Member
    Being a man, just to clarify the origin of the point of view, I would take for granted you have been not only teased but pretended, which could be bothersome if you are uninterested.

    I would say, no it's not, t you feel perfectly fine and don't feel any emptiness in your life, you don't necessarily need to have a partner to share life with, you might have enough with your family and friends forever as long as you are happy. Don;t let anyone let you doubt that :).

    Just my opinion.
  • GeekGirl23
    GeekGirl23 Posts: 517 Member
    I didn't have a boyfriend until 19. Trust me you don't want anything serious until after 25 anyways... enjoy your singledom while you can!!!
  • Bucky83
    Bucky83 Posts: 1,194 Member
    I'm 29 and have never had a boyfriend. So a few things:

    1. No, it's not wrong. Sometimes we don't get the right opportunities to have boyfriends, it's ok to have standards (just no so high that you miss out on opportunities) and at the end of the day, wouldn't you rather be single and happy and not in a dud relationship where you hate yourself for being with him??
    2. I have a real problem with your friends teasing you that you've been single most of your life. They don't seem like the most supportive friends if you tell them it bothers you and they keep doing it. It's the other way around for me, I'm sick of being single yet my friends are always saying "You'll meet someone, don't worry about it." You need friends like these.
    3. You're stunning... you need to put yourself out there and just have fun (but still be cautious that guys don't take advantage of a nice person like you).
  • CJisinShape
    CJisinShape Posts: 1,404 Member
    Your friends might be jealous of your beauty. Take it from folks who've been there - romantic relationships complicates your life and takes your focus off doing things that will benefit you. When your friends tease you, you can come back with a snappy one liner - I like life outside of some boy's armpit.
  • paleirishmother
    paleirishmother Posts: 242
    Don't bother dating if you're that young, the guys would never be worth it. The ones that would be, are too old for you.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Be single and have fun. There is plenty of time for relationships.
  • evelynr14
    evelynr14 Posts: 172 Member
    Turning 23 and never had a "real" boyfriend. So it isn't wrong.
  • fitforlife34
    fitforlife34 Posts: 331 Member
    I didn't have my first real boyfriend or kiss till I was like 19. And I felt wierd, because all my friends had gotten way past me. I also saved my viriginity till 22, and that's rare as well. Nothing wrong, in fact, before I had my boyfriend I was able to get my degree, and accomplish a lot of things in my life. He will come, believe me, I'm in my 30's wondering why I'm single and everyone around me is married. You are a very pretty woman, men might be intimidated!!!
  • XxxFallenAngelxxX
    XxxFallenAngelxxX Posts: 133
    I'm 29 and have never had a boyfriend. So a few things:

    1. No, it's not wrong. Sometimes we don't get the right opportunities to have boyfriends, it's ok to have standards (just no so high that you miss out on opportunities) and at the end of the day, wouldn't you rather be single and happy and not in a dud relationship where you hate yourself for being with him??
    2. I have a real problem with your friends teasing you that you've been single most of your life. They don't seem like the most supportive friends if you tell them it bothers you and they keep doing it. It's the other way around for me, I'm sick of being single yet my friends are always saying "You'll meet someone, don't worry about it." You need friends like these.
    3. You're stunning... you need to put yourself out there and just have fun (but still be cautious that guys don't take advantage of a nice person like you).



    Thank you all for your answers! :-) I appreciate it, a lot! :))

    Love ur answer!
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 44, so ah, no.
  • XxxFallenAngelxxX
    XxxFallenAngelxxX Posts: 133
    I didn't have my first real boyfriend or kiss till I was like 19. And I felt wierd, because all my friends had gotten way past me. I also saved my viriginity till 22, and that's rare as well. Nothing wrong, in fact, before I had my boyfriend I was able to get my degree, and accomplish a lot of things in my life. He will come, believe me, I'm in my 30's wondering why I'm single and everyone around me is married. You are a very pretty woman, men might be intimidated!!!

    :) Im still virgin,too. So ya I guess so! Thanks everyone!
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    Wrong? No. Slightly unusual in our culture? Yes. Immature people want to pick on anything that is different. Don't let it get to you.
  • wannadance
    wannadance Posts: 59
    I'm 29 and have never had a boyfriend. So a few things:

    1. No, it's not wrong. Sometimes we don't get the right opportunities to have boyfriends, it's ok to have standards (just no so high that you miss out on opportunities) and at the end of the day, wouldn't you rather be single and happy and not in a dud relationship where you hate yourself for being with him??
    2. I have a real problem with your friends teasing you that you've been single most of your life. They don't seem like the most supportive friends if you tell them it bothers you and they keep doing it. It's the other way around for me, I'm sick of being single yet my friends are always saying "You'll meet someone, don't worry about it." You need friends like these.
    3. You're stunning... you need to put yourself out there and just have fun (but still be cautious that guys don't take advantage of a nice person like you).

    ^^ this 100% I'm 28 and have not yet had a boyfriend - I simply haven't met anyone I consider decent enough / boyfriend material (small town). Listen to the people who have replied on here - you're young and gorgeous - make the most of being young and unattached. By that I mean do the things that you like, try new things and get to know what you like and value in people. There'll be plenty of time down the track to have a boyfriend or a committed relationship (at which time you'll probably wish you had some of that freedom back haha). Truly wish you all the best :flowerforyou:
  • XxxFallenAngelxxX
    XxxFallenAngelxxX Posts: 133
    I'm 29 and have never had a boyfriend. So a few things:

    1. No, it's not wrong. Sometimes we don't get the right opportunities to have boyfriends, it's ok to have standards (just no so high that you miss out on opportunities) and at the end of the day, wouldn't you rather be single and happy and not in a dud relationship where you hate yourself for being with him??
    2. I have a real problem with your friends teasing you that you've been single most of your life. They don't seem like the most supportive friends if you tell them it bothers you and they keep doing it. It's the other way around for me, I'm sick of being single yet my friends are always saying "You'll meet someone, don't worry about it." You need friends like these.
    3. You're stunning... you need to put yourself out there and just have fun (but still be cautious that guys don't take advantage of a nice person like you).

    ^^ this 100% I'm 28 and have not yet had a boyfriend - I simply haven't met anyone I consider decent enough / boyfriend material (small town). Listen to the people who have replied on here - you're young and gorgeous - make the most of being young and unattached. By that I mean do the things that you like, try new things and get to know what you like and value in people. There'll be plenty of time down the track to have a boyfriend or a committed relationship (at which time you'll probably wish you had some of that freedom back haha). Truly wish you all the best :flowerforyou:


    Awwm thanks! :flowerforyou:

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