Stop the Neurosis

stroutman81
stroutman81 Posts: 2,474 Member
edited January 6 in Fitness and Exercise
Stop the neurosis over WHAT you're doing in the gym. What about HOW you're doing it? The greatest program in the world means **** if you're not working hard, if you're not being consistent, and if you're not concentrating on good form.

There are many ways to skin a cat when it comes to this stuff. That's regardless of your particular goal. The marketing machine would have you believe otherwise - that there's a perfect approach - but it's simply not the case.

Granted, there's something to be said for a program that's individually tailored. Even there, though, it's only going to be optimal for a specific period of time. And the creator of said program is lying if they're pitching it as the one and only way.

Our fitness culture has people so concerned with the packaging of things that we've completely forgotten about what's supposed to be 'under the hood.'

Sweet, you have the perfect arrangement and dosage of exercises in your fancy program. Yet, you're barely able to muster out 2 weeks of consistency without skipping a week's worth of trainings. And you seem to of forgotten the fact that there's an eccentric portion of every rep as you bounce the bar off your chest with rib crushing velocity.

Sweet program, brah!

People are putting enormous premiums on what amounts to hairsplitting. This results in an opportunity cost that's paid with a lack of results.

While you're worrying about the perfect arrangement for what you're calling 'your program,' the person who's simply worrying about busting *kitten* on a consistent basis, with or without an exotic program, is blazing toward their goals.

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  • Ge0rgiana
    Ge0rgiana Posts: 1,649 Member
    *CLAPS*
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    Something more than nothing.
  • 2hmom
    2hmom Posts: 241 Member
    Perfectly stated.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    Very good post. This can also be applied to many other things in life, including your diet. Over thinking something can often lead to paralysis of action.
  • Ge0rgiana
    Ge0rgiana Posts: 1,649 Member
    Very good post. This can also be applied to many other things in life, including your diet. Over thinking something can often lead to paralysis of action.

    Black and white perfectionist thinking. You have to get a handle on it and say to yourself that it doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to work for you.
  • sjohnny
    sjohnny Posts: 56,142 Member
    Very good post. This can also be applied to many other things in life, including your diet. Over thinking something can often lead to paralysis of action.

    A friend of mine referred to it as "paralysis by over-analysis"
  • sam308lbs
    sam308lbs Posts: 1,936 Member
    Everyone needs to read this Bump!
  • Gallowmere1984
    Gallowmere1984 Posts: 6,626 Member
    I couldn't agree more. My 'program' is chaotic as all hell, and really follows no rhyme, nor reason. Six days per week, I just pick up heavy *kitten* weight in whatever manner I feel like doing it that day. In four months, I've dropped 35 pounds, and gotten my deadlift up to 425 (got a 455 about halfway up before stalling this week) and squat up to 395. My bench is still crap at 215, but bench is one of those lifts that I just don't care much for so I don't do it that often. All of this while eating at a 770 per day caloric deficit.

    Picking up heavy **** on a constant basis beats out the 'perfect program' any day of the week so far as I am concerned.
  • stroutman81
    stroutman81 Posts: 2,474 Member
    Thanks guys. And yeah, I'd say paralysis by analysis is one of the primary issues with folks coming into my gym. They feel they've tried everything. And frankly, they're close to it. But that's the problem... they're inundated with choices and because of it, they lack faith and conviction with any one approach. Given the very slow and nonlinear aspects of permanent weight loss, lacking conviction can wreak havoc on one's consistency.

    And that's what brings most people through the doors of my gym. I suppose I should be thankful with all the garbage that's out there on the street. But in the end, it's very disheartening to see so many people struggling with something that's totally unnecessary.
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,032 Member
    Thanks guys. And yeah, I'd say paralysis by analysis is one of the primary issues with folks coming into my gym. They feel they've tried everything. And frankly, they're close to it. But that's the problem... they're inundated with choices and because of it, they lack faith and conviction with any one approach. Given the very slow and nonlinear aspects of permanent weight loss, lacking conviction can wreak havoc on one's consistency.

    And that's what brings most people through the doors of my gym. I suppose I should be thankful with all the garbage that's out there on the street. But in the end, it's very disheartening to see so many people struggling with something that's totally unnecessary.
    thanks
  • AnvilHead
    AnvilHead Posts: 18,343 Member
    Excellent post. Too many people waste time worrying about the finishing details when the foundation hasn't even been laid yet.
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    How did I miss this? Great post, as usual sir.
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    great post.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    Amen!
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Thank you! Great post!
  • DebbieLyn63
    DebbieLyn63 Posts: 2,654 Member
    Well said, as always.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    Great as usual
  • lukester19
    lukester19 Posts: 72 Member
    Awesome post!

    There is the old saying 'Things happen for a reason,'...But sometimes things happen to give you a Reason.``.


    Sometimes it is best to self experiment. You don`t know what will be able to work for you until you try it. That is why what works for one bodybuilder might not work for another to the same extent. Get out there and atleast put in the effort.
  • fiberartist219
    fiberartist219 Posts: 1,865 Member
    That is the story of my life!

    Honestly, my best weight loss results came at a time when I was doing 10 minutes of jump rope a day. Even though I didn't work out for a lot of time, I was doing it daily, and that was more important than weird little spurts of ambition.
  • pcotter54
    pcotter54 Posts: 707 Member
    bump
  • Yogi_Carl
    Yogi_Carl Posts: 1,906 Member
    Respect to the OP. This reflection and advice is applicable to any activity, be it kettlebell, running, yoga, whatever.

    To truly be in the moment with everything you apply yourself to is the way to maximise benefits.

    Very well put.
  • stroutman81
    stroutman81 Posts: 2,474 Member
    Thanks guys... glad you enjoyed.
  • stroutman81
    stroutman81 Posts: 2,474 Member
    bump
  • AnvilHead
    AnvilHead Posts: 18,343 Member
    Excellent post which bears repeating.
  • stroutman81
    stroutman81 Posts: 2,474 Member
    Excellent post which bears repeating.

    Thanks man... haven't been around for a while but appreciate it.
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