YOUR F* FAT!!!

Moofey2
Moofey2 Posts: 327 Member
in Motivation and Support
or to stupid, you're boobs are to big/small, to saggy, you're hips are to big, stomach to pudgy, not a small enough size, weight is to high, hair is to thin, you're to old, fat, to skinny, to loud, to many scars, to many zits, arms are to flabby, legs to fat, thighs touch to much, to many wrinkles, hair never does anything right, not smart enough, not good enough...

These are some of the things that went through my head and some others that went through my friends heads.

This is coming from a girl who has had an eating disorder and adhd, Believe me. Adhd makes an eating disorder 10x worse.

STOP GOING BY WHAT THE WORLD TELLS YOU WHAT BEAUTIFUL IS.

Beauty is a mother/father caring their children, its when you stand up for a friend who is hurting or give your shoes to a homeless person. Beauty is the will to keep going when the whole world and everything in it is calling you ugly and telling you you are not good enough. Beauty is when you laugh so hard you cry, and you don't have a care in the world. Beauty is that one tear that falls when someone says you are to ugly. It is that flop on the bed from working out so hard and that extra push you give yourself to keep going when a work out gets so hard you might collapse. Beauty is that person holding your had telling you it is going to be okay and it is the will to break that habit you struggle from so much. Beauty is the end result after a long hard road of heartache and difficulties. Beauty is when you wake up in the morning looking like the joker and all you can do is laugh at yourself and your friends for looking the same way. It is the ability to realize that you are in fact beautiful. Beauty is NOT defined by your looks...

Now there is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy and improve the way you look but just remember, this world defines beauty as "the perfect looks" I will say this, I know some pretty "perfectly beautiful" people who are the ugliest things I have ever met because of the way they treat others..

It is not about looks any more with me.

YOU ARE PERFECT TO ME.

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  • Crazycatladytracey
    Crazycatladytracey Posts: 46 Member
    that is so true.
  • Moofey2
    Moofey2 Posts: 327 Member
    that is so true.

    YES!
  • Moofey2
    Moofey2 Posts: 327 Member
    And yes people. I am aware my grammar sucks but just take a compliment and don't try to correct it. I wrote this in a hurry and did not have time to proof read.
  • MellyGibson
    MellyGibson Posts: 297 Member
    Summary:

    "Love Thyself"
  • Moofey2
    Moofey2 Posts: 327 Member
    Summary:

    "Love Thyself"

    ^^^^^^^^^^ This
  • MellyGibson
    MellyGibson Posts: 297 Member
    I love the pic, btw!
  • SanteMulberry
    SanteMulberry Posts: 3,202 Member
    or to stupid, you're boobs are to big/small, to saggy, you're hips are to big, stomach to pudgy, not a small enough size, weight is to high, hair is to thin, you're to old, fat, to skinny, to loud, to many scars, to many zits, arms are to flabby, legs to fat, thighs touch to much, to many wrinkles, hair never does anything right, not smart enough, not good enough...

    These are some of the things that went through my head and some others that went through my friends heads.

    This is coming from a girl who has had an eating disorder and adhd, Believe me. Adhd makes an eating disorder 10x worse.

    STOP GOING BY WHAT THE WORLD TELLS YOU WHAT BEAUTIFUL IS.

    Beauty is a mother/father caring their children, its when you stand up for a friend who is hurting or give your shoes to a homeless person. Beauty is the will to keep going when the whole world and everything in it is calling you ugly and telling you you are not good enough. Beauty is when you laugh so hard you cry, and you don't have a care in the world. Beauty is that one tear that falls when someone says you are to ugly. It is that flop on the bed from working out so hard and that extra push you give yourself to keep going when a work out gets so hard you might collapse. Beauty is that person holding your had telling you it is going to be okay and it is the will to break that habit you struggle from so much. Beauty is the end result after a long hard road of heartache and difficulties. Beauty is when you wake up in the morning looking like the joker and all you can do is laugh at yourself and your friends for looking the same way. It is the ability to realize that you are in fact beautiful. Beauty is NOT defined by your looks...

    Now there is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy and improve the way you look but just remember, this world defines beauty as "the perfect looks" I will say this, I know some pretty "perfectly beautiful" people who are the ugliest things I have ever met because of the way they treat others..

    It is not about looks any more with me.

    YOU ARE PERFECT TO ME.

    There is so much about our current culture that is hateful and rejecting. Loving others with selfless love (the kind exhibited by Jesus) is the answer to all our current woes. A song that always brings tears to my eyes at this time of the year is, "My Grownup Christmas Wish". Some of the words are worth retaining all through the year: "...here's my lifelong wish...not for myself, but for a world in need.... No more lives torn apart, that wars would never start, that time would heal all hearts....every one would have a friend, that right would always win...that love would never end...this is my grownup Christmas wish."

    True peace is only possible in the midst of that kind of love.
  • Moofey2
    Moofey2 Posts: 327 Member
    Haha thank you very much! She is pretty much my role model, well for her confidence anyway!
  • SanteMulberry
    SanteMulberry Posts: 3,202 Member
    By the way, thanks for posting this and reminding us that being kind is the highest value. :flowerforyou:
  • Britt2Fitjrny
    Britt2Fitjrny Posts: 558 Member
    I love this so much. Thank you! :)

    I think you just gave me a new pair of eyes. :heart:

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