Need cheering up please

I am feeling a bit sorry for myself and need to get it off my chest, if that's OK?

I have wanted to have the top of my ear pierced for years, first off after my daughter had it and I was surprised that my Mum actually liked it, after she did I thought about having it done and didn't ever get around to it. I then saw Meryl Streep had it done in Mama Mia and though about it again, but once more never got round to it. I set out on my weight loss goal a few weeks ago now and decided that when I lost a stone (14 lbs) I would 'reward' myself with something that was just for me and not a food item, so decided on having my ear done. I have talked about it for some time to my Husband, told him what I planned as my reward, asked him what he though etc, he said yes, go for it, it's your ear etc, then I told him I had reached my goal (and passed it) and that my daughter was home from University and that we were going to go together, I said to him what do you think? He said that was fine, and then joked that if I was having it done I had to tidy away the clean laundry, I went with my daughter, on the way I rang my husband and said I am on my way, are you sure you don't mind me doing this? He said no, that's fine, it's your ear. I then rang him afterwards, very happy with myself and he sounded a bit off, I thought maybe he was busy, so didn't think too much about it. I was excited and happy all day and when he came home showed him, he seemed a bit dismissive and asked how much it cost, I told him it was £15 and he said 'oh less that I thought' I then have friends round, show them my ear all excitedly and they liked it. Later on when they have gone I came on here to enter my food and notice that under my post about 'being pierced' he had put 'pffft' I asked him about it and he said that he didn't really like it, thought it was a 'lame' place to have pierced and that it was not a piercing he 'liked' as much as 'some'. I was taken aback and said 'but I asked you' and he said you asked me what I thought and I told you it was your ear, I then said to him but I asked you if you minded me getting it done, but he then got angry and said I didn't, said it was a 'lame' piercing again. and I just felt horrible, I had been so exited and then I just felt totally deflated, I tried to talk to him, but he got cross at me saying that why was I upset and I said because you waited until AFTER I had it done to tell me you don't like it, he then said it's not my favourite piercing, I think it looks dumb' I said to him that was not fair, and that I had asked him, he said that he told me it was my ear, I said I know, but why wait until AFTER to tell me you think it's lame and dumb? He just got cross and shouted at me and said why should I care what he thought if it's what I wanted and it made me happy? But what I can't make him understand is that now I know he thinks it's lame and dumb that it doesn't make me happy, he then said if I felt like that I should take it out. I then tried to ask him why he waited until it was done to say this and said that it was not fair. He got all defensive and I could see it was not going anywhere, but I could have cried, I still feel bad today, it's taken something away from me and I feel so sad about it, I know that every time I see it I will think that he thinks it's lame or dumb and that makes me feel like crying.

I just feel so down today, that I could give it all up and just eat junk and not care about my diet. I don't understand why he waited to say that stuff until after and then tells me that I shouldn't care what other people think if it makes me happy, but I DO care what HE thinks and I just don't know if I am being stupid or if he is being unfair.

I just wish I had not done it now.:brokenheart: