Under eating

Right, i have been filling out my food diary in the morning so i know what i can and cant eat throughout the day and dont go over my allowances and to encourage me to plan my meals.

but i am struggling to eat enough calories. i keep getting the note at the bottom saying my body will go into starvation mode (which of course is counter productive). i have my 5 fruit and veg a day, some dairy, some protien, fat and carbs. I struggle with big portion sizes as i have a hiatus hernia...

has any one got any reccomendations for increasing calories without going over other things... i am not a big meat eater and am trying to decrease the levels of fat and carbs in my diet.. i just love veggies... kind of stuck...

HELP!!!!
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  • AbsoluteNG
    AbsoluteNG Posts: 1,079 Member
    Starvation mode = myth
  • Katie22222
    Katie22222 Posts: 31 Member
    You want to lose weight, so why would you increase your calories if you're not even hungry? Starvation mode is a myth.
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    Without being able to see your diary to see what exactly you're eating it's hard to give anything more than general advice.

    A glass of milk, a piece of toast with peanut butter, half an avocado, glass of fruit juice, piece of cheese.... how many calories do you need to make up, and what other macros are you low on?
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    Fat free Greek yogurt would add 120 or so calories with about 22 g of protein and 9 g of carbs, depending on what brand you choose.
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Add olive oil and coconut oil to your meals, nuts and seeds have lots of calories.. full fat dairy. It adds up fast.
  • i cant stand full fat milk. this may sound silly to some, but i swear i can taste the fat in it, it is too creamy and it makes me wanna be sick. i live in a shared house and nuts are banned as one of my house mates will pretty much drop dead if she comes into contact with them so we er on the side of caution.

    think i will get back on the natural/greek yogs at those proportions. sounds just like what i need.

    even if starvation mode is a myth i am still coming in at well under what is healthy at around 950 cals when i eat what i am comfortable eating. and thats before i do any exercise...

    Thanks for the advice guys. and happy new year
  • trixiemou
    trixiemou Posts: 554 Member
    I understand your concern about sometimes not being able to carry on eating just for the sake of it. When this happens to me I usually have some almonds, walnuts or brazil nuts. It is easy to munch on a few of these even if you are not very hungry. You could try some Peanut butter on crackers. I rarely buy any low fat items as I know I can use the calories. Cheese, another easy nibble item. Breakfast type cereal bars, protein bars are often quite small but it is usually worth checking out the nutritional values as they can vary loads.

    Christmas festivities have opened up my diary to lots of 'indulgences' which I would not have there otherwise, but my diary is open if it helps to peak.
    Hope this helps a little.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    Do you eat veggie burgers? Those would be good options, too.

    ETA: Happy New Year!
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,224 Member
    Starvation mode = myth
    Not a myth, just understood. Basically if someone is overweight and on a diet, starvation mode isn't going to happen, but an adjustment downward to their basal metabolic rate will, there's your confusion.:smile:
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,224 Member
    i cant stand full fat milk. this may sound silly to some, but i swear i can taste the fat in it, it is too creamy and it makes me wanna be sick. i live in a shared house and nuts are banned as one of my house mates will pretty much drop dead if she comes into contact with them so we er on the side of caution.

    think i will get back on the natural/greek yogs at those proportions. sounds just like what i need.

    even if starvation mode is a myth i am still coming in at well under what is healthy at around 950 cals when i eat what i am comfortable eating. and thats before i do any exercise...

    Thanks for the advice guys. and happy new year
    Then your yo yo dieting style will continue, you have to eat and not liking something doesn't qualify as sound logic. Try other full fat options if you don't like milk.....cheese for example, full fat yogurt, use more olive oil on salads that kind of thing.
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Mayonaise? lots of calories! You can buy really good quality ones that are all natural.
  • i cant stand full fat milk. this may sound silly to some, but i swear i can taste the fat in it, it is too creamy and it makes me wanna be sick. i live in a shared house and nuts are banned as one of my house mates will pretty much drop dead if she comes into contact with them so we er on the side of caution.

    think i will get back on the natural/greek yogs at those proportions. sounds just like what i need.

    even if starvation mode is a myth i am still coming in at well under what is healthy at around 950 cals when i eat what i am comfortable eating. and thats before i do any exercise...

    Thanks for the advice guys. and happy new year
    Then your yo yo dieting style will continue, you have to eat and not liking something doesn't qualify as sound logic. Try other full fat options if you don't like milk.....cheese for example, full fat yogurt, use more olive oil on salads that kind of thing.

    1) i do not yo-yo diet. it is simply that the past few years have been particularly difficult meaning that looking after my health and fitness havent been paramount and the weight has crept up.

    2) i do have milk on food i simply much prefer the non fat/skimmed option because i prefer the taste, unfortunately it lacks the fat and thus the calories. I love full fat cheese but i cant afford to eat it every day. i am on a ridiculously tiny income and one block of cheese would take up almost 1/3 of my weekly food budget!

    so to clarify:

    I cant have nuts
    I cant afford cheese
    I dont like full fat milk but i dont mind skimmed!
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,224 Member
    i cant stand full fat milk. this may sound silly to some, but i swear i can taste the fat in it, it is too creamy and it makes me wanna be sick. i live in a shared house and nuts are banned as one of my house mates will pretty much drop dead if she comes into contact with them so we er on the side of caution.

    think i will get back on the natural/greek yogs at those proportions. sounds just like what i need.

    even if starvation mode is a myth i am still coming in at well under what is healthy at around 950 cals when i eat what i am comfortable eating. and thats before i do any exercise...

    Thanks for the advice guys. and happy new year
    Then your yo yo dieting style will continue, you have to eat and not liking something doesn't qualify as sound logic. Try other full fat options if you don't like milk.....cheese for example, full fat yogurt, use more olive oil on salads that kind of thing.

    1) i do not yo-yo diet. it is simply that the past few years have been particularly difficult meaning that looking after my health and fitness havent been paramount and the weight has crept up.

    2) i do have milk on food i simply much prefer the non fat/skimmed option because i prefer the taste, unfortunately it lacks the fat and thus the calories. I love full fat cheese but i cant afford to eat it every day. i am on a ridiculously tiny income and one block of cheese would take up almost 1/3 of my weekly food budget!

    so to clarify:

    I cant have nuts
    I cant afford cheese
    I dont like full fat milk but i dont mind skimmed!
    Ok, just eat more foods of the foods you eat. Eat nuts at work or away from the house......eating is not complicated.
  • MrsPixelbark
    MrsPixelbark Posts: 175 Member
    What about bread? A slice of toast easily adds up to 100 calories- and if you need a few more, a slather of chocolate spread/jam will add anywhere between 50-100. Peanut butter/nutella would be the logical answer here, but as you have a housemate with a nut allergy then you'll have to work around it. :)

    If you're on a budget, have a look at tins. Half a tin of rice pudding is 200 calories before you add anything to it, a quarter of a tin of custard which you could put on top of anything from banana to a small slice of cake, tinned fruit- or if you want savory- as someone else suggested, use olive oil in your cooking- bulk meals out with pulses (lentils, beans etc are extremely cheap if you're willing to buy them dried) etc.

    Ice cream- go pick your favourite brand and voila that's about 200-300 calories for a small bowl. I like using fruit loaf/items like mince pies/fruit pies when I have low days myself- you don't have to have very much for the calories to very rapidly add up. Dried fruit is normally surprisingly high in calories- you'd only need a handful to add on a few extra calories.

    There's PLENTY of ways to add up the extra calories. What did you eat before you came to this website? Think back, and you may rapidly have an idea of what you love that's higher in calories. You must have overeaten at one point to be here.
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Rice and pasta is very cheap and I know I can only usually have a small serve if watching calories so eat up on those perhaps.
  • japruzze
    japruzze Posts: 453 Member
    Without seeing your diary it's hard to make suggestions. Try eating more frequently. Keep to low fat proteins, non-fat dairy, low sugar fruits (berries) and veggies. I have a hard time getting my calories in (when I'm on plan). If I stay below 1200 consumed (I don't try and eat back calories burned) for any length of time I end up losing energy, and weight loss slows or stops. I also find that even a minor slip up adds weight back quickly. So focus on eating healthy small frequent meals and keeping calories steady at at least 1200 a day. Good luck!
  • NeverGivesUp
    NeverGivesUp Posts: 960 Member
    I am sorry but you didn't get to be 93 lbs by undereating. I never understand how people complain about not being able to eat enough food. I can eat 1200 calories in an hour lol and I looooove veggies too lol. Just enjoy not being hungry and losing weight. If you are being honest with yourself then you are good to go. You have to answer your own questions ultimately. This is your journey after all.
  • JillyCornwall
    JillyCornwall Posts: 376 Member
    What you need to do is examine the diet you were on that caused you to 'gain' 90lbs. It may have been slow but you still had to be eating in excess of what your body needed to gain those pounds. If you have always eaten below your BMR you will have suppresed metabolism; so by eating less again you are just in a downward spiral of calorie intake which needs to be addressed if you are to maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    If you really do want nutritional help and you are not willing to open your diary so we can see what you actually eat then get your GP to refer you to a dietician because you really do need to get it sorted otherwise when you are older you will have any number of diet related illnesses ranging from Osteoporosis to heart disease. Your choice!
  • Firefox7275
    Firefox7275 Posts: 2,040 Member
    Right, i have been filling out my food diary in the morning so i know what i can and cant eat throughout the day and dont go over my allowances and to encourage me to plan my meals.

    but i am struggling to eat enough calories. i keep getting the note at the bottom saying my body will go into starvation mode (which of course is counter productive). i have my 5 fruit and veg a day, some dairy, some protien, fat and carbs. I struggle with big portion sizes as i have a hiatus hernia...

    has any one got any reccomendations for increasing calories without going over other things... i am not a big meat eater and am trying to decrease the levels of fat and carbs in my diet.. i just love veggies... kind of stuck...

    HELP!!!!

    Your diary is locked so we are flying blind. See an NHS dietician, eat small meals more frequently, add in avocado, olives, block creamed coconut, seeds (watermelon, hemp, pumpkin, flaxseeds, not related to tree nuts AFAIK), cocoa powder, very oily fish like mackerel and sardines. Fat is not the enemy, healthy fats do not make you fat unless you massively overeat them - in fact some (long chain omega-3s, lauric acid in coconut) may contribute to reduced bodyfat! Less healthy fats are saturated animal fats (easy to convert this to bodyfat) and most omega-6s.

    BTW the UK recommendations are for AT LEAST five fruit and veg a day not simply five, the research actually supports the equivalent of around nine servings, five was selected to be manageable for a population on closer to two. Most western countries advocate seven to nine and a couple even advise ten servings. How much is 'some' dairy - three servings? How much is 'some' protein? Do you have oily fish several times a week? Low glycaemic index wholegrains or beans/ lentils at every meal and snack?

    If you want to decrease fat and carbs you will need to compensate with increased protein, but this is the most expensive macronutrient and the easiest source is meat which you don't eat much of so you are making a rod for your own back. The only way to do that on a tight budget is going to be to eat certain fish and organ meats daily.

    Canned oily fish like mackerel and pilchards in tomato sauce (£2.20 a kilo for a large can) is actually cheaper than many meats and jam packed with protein, vitamins, essential fatty acids and minerals if you eat the crumbly bones. Also consider dried beans and lentils, canned tomatoes, many frozen vegetables, fresh root veggies, certain dried fruits, plain cottage cheese, Value eggs, porridge oats, organ meats (pork liver £1 a kilo, packed with vitamins and minerals) are all reasonably priced in the UK. The cheapest cheddar I can see on Asda is £4.25 a kilo, a serving is 30g which is about 13p so cheaper than cottage cheese which is absolutely useless on the calcium front so has a large serving size.

    It's not difficult to eat well on a tight budget but you need to be willing to be open minded with new foods and recipes. Fresh fruit, many meats and processed foods are expensive here but there is no real need to eat much of these within a healthy diet. Head over to Moneysavingexpert forums, seek out Weezl74's many threads.
  • kathyms13
    kathyms13 Posts: 497 Member
    You make me smile, you could eat enough to put on the extra weight. Really eat to much get fat eat less loose it simples
  • I have been having this same problem, it isn't a myth, I met with a personal trainer and nutrition coach and upped my healthy carbs, such as, brown rice, a piece of whole wheat toast, sweet potato etc, in two days of adding a little more food and not being so far under on my calories I lost a pound. Try it!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I dont think starvation mode is a myth just ask anyone in the Donner Party, but I wouldnt worry too much. Listen to your body and try to eat wholesome food.
  • I am not stupid. i didnt put the weight on through eating healthily. i put the weight on because i was always on the move. unable to cook and eat properly through having no utensils. I have been effectively homeless for 2 years going from homeless hostel to homeless hostel with nothing but a duffle bag. living on take out and food parcels because i cant afford the space in my bag to carry a range of pots and pans and crockery and cutlery etc etc etc. so it wasnt a matter of eating a lot before, it was eating the wrong thing.

    I finally have a long term placement in a hostel and hope to start getting my life back on track and back to normal. now i am eating healthily again i dont want to go under a healthy calorie level but neither do i want to compromise the purpose of my diet by eating poor foods.

    i suggest you all get down of your high horses. As a private person i find it rather degrading to have to air my laundry in such a way. think i will just use this site for my own monitorring and leave the forum/community alone from now on. seeing as you all seem to think that people join this site to lose weight without actually wanting to change their diets etc. youre all idiots.

    I will get my weight back to where i was comfortable without your unhelpful *****ing. its like frikkin highschool in these rooms.
  • watfordjc
    watfordjc Posts: 304 Member
    Starvation mode is not a myth - it is a physiological effect on metabolism.

    Just because you know everyone using the word "hacker" should really be saying "cracker" to be linguistically correct, publishing RFC 2828 and stating "Today, the term is frequently misused, especially by journalists, to have the pejorative meaning of cracker." will have absolutely no effect because the term is already in use and the most common meaning is understood by everyone.

    ETA: OP, are there any of those "wrong foods" that you might be able to fit back in?
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,224 Member
    Not your fault you gained the weight, got it.
  • akaMrsmojo
    akaMrsmojo Posts: 762 Member
    Starvation mode - not a myth. You need calories especially if you workout. Don't listen to your body, tell you body what you want.

    I will eat a spoonful of peanut butter. If you can't have nuts, try a high in protein snack.

    Your body needs calories, they are not evil little things trying to trip you up.

    My mom "listened to her body" and did not eat enough calories, she damaged her body so bad, she lost her hair.
  • Pepper2185
    Pepper2185 Posts: 994 Member
    What about:

    Avocado

    Bowl of oatmeal with raisins

    Toast with butter

    Chocolate milk

    Roasted veggies in olive oil

    Sausages

    Just a few things I can think of that won't break the bank and can add some extra cals in.
  • It is my fault. i f*cked up my life and got myself in this mess. I went to the doctors and asked for help with my metal health and lost my job followed by my home, my friends, my family, everything as a result. I should never have asked for help and i wouldnt have been fired. To be honest, it should have taught me not ta ask for help as if it had i wouldnt have posted in this forum.

    I am completely aware of whos fault it is, mine, i put the food i did in my mouth, I spent days not physically moving through fear of p!ssing somone off and being made street homeless again. I am fully aware that everything that is wrong in my life, my weight and health included is my fault. so you can naff off you narky little troll.
  • bronnyd
    bronnyd Posts: 278 Member
    I always love it when someone posts a thread asking for help and then cops major attitude with anyone who replies with advice. Usually advice they don't want to hear.
  • Bron, i will accept advice on what to do about it now. but their is no use in people advising me with 'you should have eaten less/better in the past'. i cant do anything about that except to shed the weight now, which is what i was asking advice on. not, how do i make a balance meal in a mug whilst sleeping in a shop door way. but, how do i make sure i dont keep this weight on.

    the helpful advice i am very greatful of.

    the personal digs about my past are useless to me and dont exactly make me want to continue in changing my life.