120 lbs to lose, maybe more. HELPPPPP

I'm 22 and a whopping 280 lbs. I have problems with my ovaries and it was either have my children now, or never get the chance to have my own babies. We chose to have our children now, and having 3 pregnancies back to back has been very stressful on my body. It doesn't help that I've gotten pretty lazy since my weight gain aswell. But I really want to lose the weight this timenot only for me but for my kids. I need people to hold me accountable for my actions on her and be truthful about my eating choices. My diary is open and I could really use encouraging people.
Thanks all and have an amazing new year!

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  • sarahmichelle91xx
    sarahmichelle91xx Posts: 113 Member
    Hi, I'm 21 with 2 kids trying to lose 40 pounds, your welcome to add me, wishing you luck on your journey!
  • Hi, my name is Kristie. I was on here last year and then stopped. Im back on and have about 80 lbs to lose.

    I have found that it helps to look at it in small increments. Such as every 5 lbs is a goal. If i look at the entire weight i need to lose, the task seems so overwhelming and impossible.

    On top of this, i am going to over eaters anon. Good luck and keep in touch.

    Kristie
  • anemicroyalty10
    anemicroyalty10 Posts: 58 Member
    Thanks ladies, I'm going to add you both. We can do this (:
  • Ballard12
    Ballard12 Posts: 109
    My name is Linsie and Ive been here for over a yr. I 29 and started st 296lbs and im currently 252lbs. I have 1 child and had a very hard birth...almost lost my life. When I delivered I was 325lbs. I want to have more children in the near future so I have lots of weight to lose. My current goal is to weigh 199 by august so I can go to Disneyland with my son and over all would like to be 160-170lbs.
  • skankamaggot
    skankamaggot Posts: 146 Member
    I'm trying to lose about as much as you! I'm close to halfway there, you can add me for support if you like :)
  • Add me!
  • jenhenning219
    jenhenning219 Posts: 385 Member
    i sent a friends request i have 90 lbs total to loose but i will be happy to loose 30 lbs and see how i look then
  • anemicroyalty10
    anemicroyalty10 Posts: 58 Member
    You can do it linsie, I'm rooting for you!
  • ladiluvbug83
    ladiluvbug83 Posts: 38 Member
    hey my name is Sarah and my goal is to lose 100 pounds this year. Feel free to add me to your friends and we can keep each other motivated. :flowerforyou:
  • You can do it! This site is a huge help too. Feel free to add me =)
  • The_New_Christina
    The_New_Christina Posts: 818 Member
    I have 60-70 pounds left to lose. Add me if you'd like
  • Hey! feel free to add me! im Laura 28yo mum of a 9yr old daughter, im hoping to lose 50+ lbs on day 2 now so just starting my journey! i wish you all luck gettin to your goals x
  • kbdalt
    kbdalt Posts: 11
    You can add me!
  • Robyn120
    Robyn120 Posts: 249
    You can add me if you'd like :)
  • monroe61
    monroe61 Posts: 620 Member
    you got this :) I'm older (30) but I have had 2 kids and weigh 232...started at 253 with about 60ish more to lose. Feel free to add me as well!
  • mshopey
    mshopey Posts: 125 Member
    Hello, i am 20. I'm getting married this year, and i want to lose 100lbs in 11 months. I've had the site for ages now, and i've used it on and off but never with friends. So maybe you could add me and i could work out how to used this thing and lose some weight too :)
  • Still_Fluffy
    Still_Fluffy Posts: 341 Member
    I've lost 130 and still have 35 to loose. If you wanna loose weight you have to work very hard at it. Watching your calories is not enough. I recommened running. I dropped over 100 pounds mostly through running. When I started I was 15+ minute mile and I had to walk a lot of it. I aimed for 1-2 pounds loss a week as it is considered healthy weight loss. Feel free to add me. Then get off the computer and go workout! Good luck!
  • 1julietax
    1julietax Posts: 117 Member
    feel free to add me as well.I could use more encouragement as well and offer it.
  • deb5512
    deb5512 Posts: 2 Member
    I like you have 117 to lose. I would love a sounding board for motivation and encouragement. Feel free to add me. Congratualations on your children.
  • 321van
    321van Posts: 8 Member
    Hey I need someone to help me with my goal
    I need to lose 100 pounds add,me I think I weigh 240 right now and I would love for someone to help me in this goal to keep me motivated.
  • Hi people my names Nicola I'm new to this' I have about 60lbs to loose too, I am 28 also with 3 children, this is the biggest I have been and it's so depressing. Really need to shift this weight to feel better about myself x
  • nharder1
    nharder1 Posts: 110 Member
    I have been doing this for the past year. I started last January and I was at 204lb. I weighed in this morning at 170lb. So 34lb isn't the greatest, but it works. I used MFP all year, but just wasn't as hard core as I should have been.
    Here's to a new year! I will gladly assist.
  • Shelliphant
    Shelliphant Posts: 9 Member
    Hi, I'd love to help support you. Add me and anyone else out there feel free to add me too! Let's do it right this time! x
  • OMG_Twinkies
    OMG_Twinkies Posts: 215 Member
    So far, I've lost almost 50 of 120
    You can do this! :)
  • drzira
    drzira Posts: 29 Member
    One pound at time. One day at a time. I started at 352lb, so my goal was about 200lb, which definitely felt overwhelming. I try to focus on each small victory, like losing a pant size, rather than how much longer it's going to take to get down to my goal weight.
  • sweetpea129
    sweetpea129 Posts: 755 Member
    You can do it! Try to break it up into mini goals, it feels more achievable and less overwhelming that way. I also had 120 lbs to lose. I took it 10 lbs at a time. Good luck!!
  • Valtishia
    Valtishia Posts: 811 Member
    Feel free to add me. I just started back up on MFP. I was using it for quite some time, then found out I was pregnant so I had to back off the weight loss. I now have some weight to lose from my pregnancy but also some weight that I wasn't done losing as well.
  • Timmmy40
    Timmmy40 Posts: 152 Member
    I will gladly help you on your journey. I started at 356lbs and I have lost 123lbs so far. I have 44 more to go. I always need encouragement myself, and I am glad to help. Keep Punching! All Is Possible! It Is A Choice! No Excuses!

    :happy:
  • anemicroyalty10
    anemicroyalty10 Posts: 58 Member
    Wow, congrats to all of you who have already lost so much weight! I'll be joining you there soon enough (: we can do this!
  • I started at 285, so I TOTALLY feel your pain.

    Think of your kids as squirmy barbells! My arms have seriously toned up just from tossing my 5 year old niece in the air. :)