New here

Hi everyone I am new here 31 year old mom of 2. I hope to meet some online buddies to help me feel motivated. I keep saying I am going to exercise and buy healthy food, but can't get off my lazy butt. I drive 2 hours a day and all I want to do is sit when I get home and do nothing, but I feel icky and know I can't live this lifestyle eating unhealthy and not working out. I gained 40 pds since 2007. I never know where to start or what to cook. Any women looking for some friends to talk about progress or complain about the same fears like me please contact me really need some motivation.