What do ya do when you don't like fruits and veggies?

I'm 61 yrs old. Never in my life have I enjoyed fruits or vegetables. I was always the last one at the table because I was told to stay there until I finished my peas, green beans, cauliflower etc.
Don't get me wrong, I have tried and actually eaten veggies at parties but I don't enjoy them. I've tried telling myself to eat it anyway cuz it's good for me or stop being such a whiner and just eat 'em. I've tried recipes that I "hide" veggies in but end up picking at the food and then eat junk later.
Fruits are ok, but not satisfying for me. Some I can't eat because of GERD, some are disgusting and most of 'em are just blah.
I can't be the only one who doesn't like tomatoes or mushrooms.
Of course there are some I'll eat but how long can you eat corn, potatoes and watermelon and still lose weight. :smile:
I know some of you will come back and say just keep trying and eventually you find something, but after 60 years what are the chances?
So what do I eat? Breads, meats, fat-free/low-fat dairy and JUNK. I've been on diets, food plans, exercise programs - you name it. I've read the books, been to the meetings, tried online programs, tried the call in coach thing - and I'm no closer to keeping weight off than I ever was.
I'm tired of trying but know I have to keep on.
I need some encouragement please.
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  • mazdauk
    mazdauk Posts: 1,380 Member
    I was never a big veg eater and when I was growing up tehre was only limted fruit varieties. (Limited veg too - I never saw a pepper until the 1980s!)

    Do you like frozen peas/broad beans? How about tinned fruit/berries? As long as you drain them and don't buy varieties in syrup they are not too calorific. I don't like big lumps of veg on my plate, but chopped up in a shepherds pie or a pasta sauce is fine, or make a soup and blitz it so there's no "lumps". Or how about in a fajita? (just keep the cheese/sour cream low!)
  • Peas are the WORST! Canned fruits are sooooooo mushy I don't buy them. I've tried smoothies but that is only so-so and so time consuming. Soups are ok, never been a big fan of those either but have been trying to make them at home so the sodium content is lower and I know what's going into them.
    Thanks for commenting tho. I will continue to try and add veggies in foods.
  • letbc
    letbc Posts: 27 Member
    I'm not a big veggie eater either. I know it takes a few minutes (6-7) but I have a strawberry, banana & OJ smoothie every morning for breakfast with a scoop each of Green Super Foods, Flax seed & Hemp Protein. That way I know I'm getting some healthy protein, fiber & veggies every day.
  • Food4Fuel
    Food4Fuel Posts: 37 Member
    I'm 23 and in the same boat, will be watching this thread closely. I don't even eat salad, which blows my friends minds. I can do minimal veggies, like green beans tomatoes and squash but fruit I really only like the "sugary" options such as bananas, grapes, and watermelon. My weight has ballooned after college but I don't know what to do other than limiting my palate to the relatively few options I listed above to reach my properly proportioned plate.
  • Firefox7275
    Firefox7275 Posts: 2,040 Member
    We were made to eat a wide variety of healthy foods as children also and sometimes sat there hours, much of the food was fresh from our garden or allotment and home cooked. As an adult I was extremely picky until I got sick, partly through my poor lifestyle choices. I retrained myself, first time I opened a can of salmon I was literally gagging now I eat it in certain dishes and I really do enjoy fresh trout. I don't love all healthy food but I have learned to enjoy some and tolerate others. I am never going to want to bite into an apple nor eat a side of veggies and I really struggle with the texture of squashes and root vegetables cooked, but a fruit salad and canned evaporated milk or savoury meal with a tasty sauce I can deal with.

    For you I don't know whether you are trying them often enough, research suggests you need to keep at it don't expect to enjoy them the first time or after eating them once every five years. Or if you have negative associations with the GERD and healthy foods. Or if you are not really trying, if the veg is hidden really it is your choice to pick at the food or make an concerted effort. You don't retrain your palate by continuing to eat sugary and salty junk, why is that still in the house when you are trying to eat better? A smoker or junkie or alcoholic rarely does well knowing their drug of choice is in the next room.

    Other than that I don't know what to say, if you read your own post you have cleverly dismissed all logical arguments - you know full well you won't change without putting those foods in your mouth, over and over again. Some people change in many ways in middle age, they go back to university, they get divorced and run off with a younger model, they have gender reassignment, they sell everything and travel the world, they quit drugs/ alcohol/ smoking. Others get busy dying. Either you are ready to make a change for life or you are going to carry on seeking short term solutions, a diet just until you have lost the weight. IMO consider counselling or hypnosis to change your attitude to food.

    We can eat potatoes, bread, corn, watermelon and dairy when we are getting healthy or managing our weight. The body needs a wide range of different foods and nutrients to feel satisfied and for health. It's about how you cook and serve them, about portion control because all those foods except natural dairy turn to sugar in the body very quickly. If you see food as filling an emotional need, solely about pleasure and don't see it at all as fuel or accept that your body is not a trash can you won't change. Is this more about the healthy foods not triggering the reward centres in the brain, not releasing the 'happy' chemicals, maybe even about food addiction? Are you self medicating with sugars and other high glycaemic index carbs? Why do you expect every meal to be enjoyable and totally satisfying?
  • stfuriada
    stfuriada Posts: 445 Member
    Same.

    Eating broccoli might as well be pushing a steam roller up hill for me. I do replacements like diet V8 fusion , 1 serving of 50 cals is equal to like 2 servings of fruits and veggies or something like that.

    There are also vegetable/fruit replacement powders that I'm thinking of getting.
  • caitlyn30
    caitlyn30 Posts: 207 Member
    I just don't eat them, bananas are okay in a shake, I will do green beans(after 40 years of not) - i do corn. apples are okay, but boring. carrots only if they are glazed. yep, thats about it!:drinker:
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    Eat them anyway. You are a grown up, do what you know you should.

    I don't like going to work everyday, but I do because I should.

    That said, try all dif types, and ways of preparing them, you should be able to tolerate at least some prepared certain ways.
  • aj_31
    aj_31 Posts: 994 Member
    I'm 32. I was never a fan of veggies. My mom never forced us to eat them growing up because she didn't like them so they weren't made in our house. My husband on the other hand loves and eats everything.

    It took me up until last year before I learned to like almost all veggies. The only way to like them is to eat them. Make them different ways and try and find what works. The only veggie I still have issues with is tomatoes. Otherwise I eat whatever. My mom looks at me like I have 2 heads when I tell her I made a dinner that was filled with veggies. I only wish I had started sooner so that my kid would have grown up eating more veggies. She's now learning to eat them along with me.

    As far as fruit I stick to apples, bananas, grapes, oranges, clementines, and pineapple. Anything else I throw in a smoothie and then I don't have any issues with eating it.
  • Car0lynnM
    Car0lynnM Posts: 332 Member
    I don't like to eat fruits, so I make smoothies with them. Add protein powder, flax seed, almond milk. They're delicious. Find a smoothie recipe book that has smoothies with fruits and veggies and you're set.
  • amanda52488
    amanda52488 Posts: 260 Member
    Not sure if this was already suggested but, make a monster smoothie aka green smoothie.

    You add in fruits and some spinach and you can not even taste the spinach. I have been having one every morning!
  • Kimberly120977
    Kimberly120977 Posts: 1 Member
    Try V8 Fusion that's your fruits and vegetables. I love it!
  • Meganalva
    Meganalva Posts: 282 Member
    We were made to eat a wide variety of healthy foods as children also and sometimes sat there hours, much of the food was fresh from our garden or allotment and home cooked. As an adult I was extremely picky until I got sick, partly through my poor lifestyle choices. I retrained myself, first time I opened a can of salmon I was literally gagging now I eat it in certain dishes and I really do enjoy fresh trout. I don't love all healthy food but I have learned to enjoy some and tolerate others. I am never going to want to bite into an apple nor eat a side of veggies and I really struggle with the texture of squashes and root vegetables cooked, but a fruit salad and canned evaporated milk or savoury meal with a tasty sauce I can deal with.

    For you I don't know whether you are trying them often enough, research suggests you need to keep at it don't expect to enjoy them the first time or after eating them once every five years. Or if you have negative associations with the GERD and healthy foods. Or if you are not really trying, if the veg is hidden really it is your choice to pick at the food or make an concerted effort. You don't retrain your palate by continuing to eat sugary and salty junk, why is that still in the house when you are trying to eat better? A smoker or junkie or alcoholic rarely does well knowing their drug of choice is in the next room.

    Other than that I don't know what to say, if you read your own post you have cleverly dismissed all logical arguments - you know full well you won't change without putting those foods in your mouth, over and over again. Some people change in many ways in middle age, they go back to university, they get divorced and run off with a younger model, they have gender reassignment, they sell everything and travel the world, they quit drugs/ alcohol/ smoking. Others get busy dying. Either you are ready to make a change for life or you are going to carry on seeking short term solutions, a diet just until you have lost the weight. IMO consider counselling or hypnosis to change your attitude to food.

    We can eat potatoes, bread, corn, watermelon and dairy when we are getting healthy or managing our weight. The body needs a wide range of different foods and nutrients to feel satisfied and for health. It's about how you cook and serve them, about portion control because all those foods except natural dairy turn to sugar in the body very quickly. If you see food as filling an emotional need, solely about pleasure and don't see it at all as fuel or accept that your body is not a trash can you won't change. Is this more about the healthy foods not triggering the reward centres in the brain, not releasing the 'happy' chemicals, maybe even about food addiction? Are you self medicating with sugars and other high glycaemic index carbs? Why do you expect every meal to be enjoyable and totally satisfying?

    Couldn't have said it better!
  • cls_333
    cls_333 Posts: 206 Member
    ummmm, your profile says you're 35, so which is it?

    Do you wanna be healthy, that's the question? You have to want to be healthy & eat them, no one can help you but you.
  • ajlon
    ajlon Posts: 16 Member
    I bought a good HAND BLENDER, mine is the TEFAL - TURBOMIX PLUS - 350W (there are others on the market)....
    I make veggie soups and fruit smothies....Very simple and healthy!!
    I generally make my soup from boiling frozen carrots and cauiliflour and add some chicken stock cubes (melt cubes in some hot water first)
    I blend the veg in the pot and water they were boiled in.... makes a custard/ soup texture by adding chicken stock cubes in hot water. They last a few days in the fridge or you could even place some in freezer bags and do a good batch of your favorite.
    have a go!! :D
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I cram down veggies as fast as I can and then eat the better stuff afterwards. I don't like the taste of a single one and never will. But a lot of the time I can eat them in casseroles with a cream base.
  • naner61
    naner61 Posts: 85
    Juice them!
  • FITnFIRM4LIFE
    FITnFIRM4LIFE Posts: 818 Member
    Juicer-Drink them-they taste different blended. Puree and add to soups. Dry or roast them with seasonings you like. Try new ways till one clicks for you..Good Luck!

    http://www.livestrong.com/article/553273-how-to-start-to-like-vegetables-if-i-hate-them/

    http://www.webmd.com/diet/features/eat-your-vegetables-15-tips-for-veggie-haters
  • cboutin89
    cboutin89 Posts: 79 Member
    Either take an multivitamin and or/ mix fruit with veggies in a milkshake. There are also juices like V8 that have the source.
  • Eat them anyway. You are a grown up, do what you know you should.

    I don't like going to work everyday, but I do because I should.

    That said, try all dif types, and ways of preparing them, you should be able to tolerate at least some prepared certain ways.

    My thoughts exactly. There are reasons that as kids we are all made to eat these things. Becasue they are good for you and you need them. If they are bland then that should not bother you, as long as they are not bad tasting. You do not get much blander than water...

    There are 1000s of different fruits/veggies and ways to prepare them. There is no way you cannot find one that you like.

    You know what you should do here! You got this! Good Luck!
  • petesouthwood
    petesouthwood Posts: 1 Member
    What´s your goal? Do you want to loose weight? Or just eat in a more healthy way?
  • My suggestion would be to try foods from different cultures. If you don't like veggies as a side dish try finding some dishes from other cultures that use them in different ways. There is a whole heap of difference between carrots served boiled and a carrot and chickpea tagine from Morocco.

    Basically though I think you just need to deal with it, as long as your mental attitude is "I don't like veggies or fruit" then you won't get past it.
  • ludgerclay
    ludgerclay Posts: 95 Member
    ummmm, your profile says you're 35, so which is it?

    Do you wanna be healthy, that's the question? You have to want to be healthy & eat them, no one can help you but you.

    Troll?
  • MissJanet55
    MissJanet55 Posts: 457 Member
    I have read that when people don't like a particular food it is more often because of texture than taste. So I would suggest steering clear of frozen or canned vegetables, and eat fresh. There is such a wide variety of taste that it's hard for me to imagine you dislike all except for a few (and for what it's worth, I was recently looking at the Canada food guide and potato is no longer listed under vegetable, it's under starch). Eggplant might be a bit of a stretch, and I know many people find a lot of greens too bitter, but there is a ton of variation out there.

    Smoothies do take a little time to make and to clean up after. But if you really want to make a change you have to be prepared to put in a little effort. It will be worth it.
  • footiechick82
    footiechick82 Posts: 1,203 Member
    My best friend is the pickiest eater I've ever encountered in my LIFE! She has a similar pallet to you...

    I stuff her with healthy food when I'm with her because she has a tendency to eat like crap. The best way I get her to eat her veggies is to put them with something and make them taste like candy OR, put them in soup.

    1. Chicken and Rice Soup... I load it with carrots, celery and onions and I make the rice on the side. I get her to put in the broth first and from there, she adds as much rice as she wants. That way I know she's getting at least a full serving of veggies in her soup.

    2. I make a whole chicken. I use moroccan spices (amazing!) because they are sweet. I use sweet potatoes, white potatoes (or red), carrots and sometimes I will throw in zuccini or whatever else I can find. Because of the spices (mostly the cinnimon I add), the carrots and the sweet potatoes come out so sweet it's like candy-ish.

    3. Baked Cauliflower and Broccoli. She is IN LOVE with this and asks me to make it for her everytime I see her. VERY easy and I let her eat whatever else she wants if she eats a good portion.
    - get a pirrates dish (or whatever is deep enough) and put in the broccoli and cauliflower broken up
    - add oil (preferably extra virgin olive oil or rice bran oil [rice bran promotes weight loss]), salt and pepper, garlic and thyme (preferably fresh)
    - get your hands in there and mix it around
    - bake @ 350 for about 25-30 minutes or until the veggies are tender (the cauliflower usually gets a bit brown)
    - sit for a few minutes to cool off and serve

    4. I stuff chicken breast with asparagus and cheese (old cheddar, parm or goat usually) or I use broccoli. If you are good at stuffing the chicken before it goes in the pan, great, if not *do it after the chicken is browned before putting it in the oven.
    - make sure the chicken is washed and dryyyyyyy (very important!) dip in egg and then in bread crumbs
    - place on HOT skillet with oil
    - let cook until golden brown, then flip to make it golden brown on the other side (for the crispiness)
    - *if not stuffed - do so now!
    - put in the oven @ 350 and let bake for 15-20 minutes or until the chicken is cooked

    5. Boathouse smoothies - sweet and lots of veggies and fruit but healthy. http://www.bolthouse.com/products/beverages/smoothies

    There's a few suggestions on how I get her to eat up! I can't STAND mushrooms, so sorry, can't help there! LOL
  • dare2love81
    dare2love81 Posts: 928 Member
    One of two answers:

    1. Eat them anyways.
    2. Don't eat them.

    Simple, really.
  • leannems
    leannems Posts: 516 Member
    ummmm, your profile says you're 35, so which is it?

    Do you wanna be healthy, that's the question? You have to want to be healthy & eat them, no one can help you but you.

    Troll?

    Something about this thread smells bad.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I'm the same way, and desperate to get more greens. Thinking about cooking spinach, then mixing it up in ground sirloin and having that.

    An omelet with spinach and mushrooms are a possibility as well. I just hate the slimy texture. I love onions and garlic, and don't eat near enough of anything else.
  • peejay34mason
    peejay34mason Posts: 131 Member
    Is your issue more taste or texture? If taste, I would suggest spicing things up a bit (literally) curry, oregano, ginger, dill or even as simple as salt. Be creative think outside the box. I have been amazed my some of the things people come up with (like honey, ginger, brown sugar spaghetti squash, which I just fixed for my family who would have NEVER eaten squash and they loved it particularly my picky husband who really likes very few veggies) Also, you can juice your veggies and/or fruits really mix things up.

    If the issue is more texture, just avoid the soft slimy styles (mushrooms and tomatoes as you had mentioned). You may want more the turgid style of fresh veggies not cooked, eat them raw again can be doctored to your liking with dips (low fat, low cal versions) or glazes.

    Worst case, as some have mentioned, drink V8 infusions to get your RDA of fruits and veggies.

    I am only throwing out suggestions as I do not have the loathing of fruits and vegetables as you, so if it helps great! If not... sorry I tried!
  • AllonsYtotheTardis
    AllonsYtotheTardis Posts: 16,947 Member
    Pureed soups. I can get my kids to eat AN veggie if I puree it into a soup. Roast the veggies first for the best flavor. Toss in all your favorite seasonings, blend away. Add a little water if it's too thick.


    Really - not to be a snotty brat, but you're old enough to know better. If you don't like them served one way, try another. No one said you had to eat them all raw, or from a can.