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  • murphy612
    murphy612 Posts: 734 Member
    btw i really hope not to gain weight back. i worked really hard for this :(

    I understand. Losing weight is hard, getting the body you want is hard and you don't want to have to do it all over again. But at what expense are you willing to go for this body? I don't know what your height and weight are but if you stopped having a period it sounds like it's not a healthy one. If you're unwilling to gain weight then you'll probably just have to sacrifice having a period, BC pills are not going to "bring back" a natural period. If having children is important to you not having a period may not prevent you from having a healthy pregnancy in the future but being at an unhealthy weight will. You have to choose what's most important to you and figure it out from there. Anyway, see your doctor and hopefully things will get better.
  • triciaj66
    triciaj66 Posts: 253 Member
    Never have taken them cus I heard so many bad things about weight gain and making you crazy ... No thanks
  • walkwithme1
    walkwithme1 Posts: 492 Member
    Exactly what Murphy said. Just like being fat can wreak havoc on regular periods being underweight can also. TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR face to face. Over the phone won't do you any good. They need to physically see you. And yes pills CAN make you gain weight it's not just how much and what you eat. You really need to research the pills to figure out what to take if that's seriously the route you need. Remember everything you put in your body has a side effect whether good or bad. Good luck.
  • deksgrl
    deksgrl Posts: 7,237 Member
    Hmm, no, didn't notice any of that. What I did notice is that it was a *very* effective product - once the libido has tanked you never need to worry about getting pregnant since sexy time is the farthest thing from your mind.

    That's because the pill simulates pregnancy, that is why you don't get pregnant, your body already thinks it is. Ditto the weight gain.
  • When I was on BC, it regulated my period and my cramps were actually not as bad. I never really noticed much of a difference anywhere else and, didnt really see a difference in the Girls. BUT, then again, I was on it last time I lsot weight and i didnt feel like I lost any of them last time while this time losing weight, they seem to be dwindling away...

    I am actually thinking about going back on it myself to get back to a regular schedule with TOM and to see if they help with my hormone embalance.
  • alexbusnello
    alexbusnello Posts: 1,010 Member
    I was on it but had to stop taking them because I missed a few days in a row....by accident. Now my period has stopped. That could be because I'm a bit underweight, but if I go back on them, will it come back? I was on them for a few years before having to stop.
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    I had a tendency to retain alot of water while I was on it. Plus, I had really low energy, which made it difficult to work out like I should have. I haven't been on any kind of birth control since 1998. I have PCOS, so my doctor has me on Metformin. It's taken a while, but I finally had a period at the beginning of this month. It's the first one I've had in years (besides occasional light spotting) without the aid of birth control.
  • Little_Laura_K
    Little_Laura_K Posts: 57 Member
    The majority of my problems came after having the implant inserted, I had it for 4 years. Shortly after having it put in I developed tinnitus which has never gone away and I do think it is connected to the mediciation. I put on a lot of weight for two reasons I retained water weight and I also had an increased apitite. I also had no period and really bad skin and low energy!

    I did Insanity and eat well and still didn't lose weight!

    Since having the implant taken out and not taking any birth control I feel so much better, skin has improved, hunger under control, I have energy I don't feel I'm going to faint anymore and water weight comes and goes. I have my period back too.

    But I'm left with tinnitus which is awful !

    I am glad my boyfriend agreed with me to have it taken out and discontinue any use of BC again.

    Sorry its not a happy experience if you need BC then consult your GP as to which may suit you best I also had a lot of migraines on the pill like constant.

    Can you increase your calorie intake and try and get a good sleep routine going to help bring them back? Sleep and lack of routine always makes me late.

    Laura xo
  • girlygirlnicole
    girlygirlnicole Posts: 54 Member
    I take birth control pills, I however don't really agree with them but I don't want to fall pregnant. its putting hormones in your body that shouldn't really be there, it should be only what your body produces.

    it brings my periods back to normal as they did stop. I was happy with that although known it wasn't healthy as a female.

    didn't notice any chances to be honest on the pill. but the implant completely change my personality into a rage, could feel the rage thru my veins and was constantly angry was crazy! but changed to the pill and I'm alright now healthy and calm and back. to.my. normal self.

    I think with birth control pills or without girls do experience bloating pms and emotional states from.time.to time.
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member

    it brings my periods back to normal as they did stop. I was happy with that although known it wasn't healthy as a female.

    you also lost them due to being underweight?
  • MrsSardone
    MrsSardone Posts: 194 Member
    The pill won't make you gain weight (unless it's water weight) but it MIGHT make you have cravings. I was on the Nuvaring and while it WAS convenient, it made me very unhappy. Then I switched to the mini pill but that made me break out (but my sec drive was through the roof!). Now I'm on ortho cyclen...so far so good.

    Yeah if your period went away cuz you're underweight you might want to cut the calorie restriction thing out and gain weight.
  • goldair23
    goldair23 Posts: 160
    Nothing happened to me, I've tried several different types. One made me a little moodier than normal, but none of the others made any changes that I noticed.
    And in regards to barely ever wanting sex once on it, I have to disagree! It didn't change anything for me, if anything I was having it more because it was just easier while using the pill as the only protection! (With a boyfriend, not strangers!)
    I wouldn't worry too much, my friend just started on it and was so worried and scared. It's not a big deal, you can always change it to another if you notice any side effects xx
  • I will never take them again! I had horrible reactions with each I tried.

    Weight gain (excessive water weight: went from at most 3 lbs gain at TOM to 7!!!)
    Mood swings
    No sex drive at all
    I was tired all the time
    PMS was hell (the cramps and headaches alone had me doubled over in pain)
    And my boobs actually got smaller and I was having breakouts which I never did before.
    Basically a lot of issues it is supposed to help with actually got worse for me.


    Stopped taking bc about three months ago and it has made a world of difference. My husband and I still other methods of pregnancy prevention.
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member

    Weight gain (excessive water weight: went from at most 3 lbs gain at TOM to 7!!!)
    Mood swings
    No sex drive at all
    I was tired all the time
    PMS was hell (the cramps and headaches alone had me doubled over in pain)
    And my boobs actually got smaller and I was having breakouts which I never did before.
    Basically a lot of issues it is supposed to help with actually got worse for me.


    omg :(((
  • I have been on the pill for 3 years and I have nothing to sing but its praises. For every one person that gains weight, there will be another that loses. I was actually one of those people. i mentioned my concerns to my OB and she said that weight gain is somewhat of a myth. While some women do put on weight, in clinical trials there is an equal number who lose weight. I also noticed a decrease in the severity of my period and my skin cleared up a lot. Plus that whole not pregnant thing is a bonus. There are many formulations of hormones and finding the one that works for you might take some time.
  • I gained weight BECAUSE of the increase of appitite.

    You only gain 5 pounds in water weight, after that, its your fault completely.

    BC doesnt make you hold onto fat, thats stupid.

    I was RAVENOUS on birth control. I couldnt fit enough food in my mouth to feel satisfied.

    If you can control your appitite and what you eat, try it.

    I didnt have my period for a whole year and felt like an angel... ;)
    -BB
  • I've always had a hard time with BCP's and switched to the Depo-Provera shot for years. I loved not having periods and not having to remember a pill everyday, but I gained SO much weight!!! NOT a huge fan of that. For me, due to health concerns and my husband and I not wanting children, I finally had a tubal at 30. I certainly do not miss the birth control rollercoaster! Good luck to you! Hope you find something that works for you and doesn't cause crappy side effects!
  • silverboot
    silverboot Posts: 15 Member
    After 12 years of off and on periods, I finally have it regulated with out the pill. I went to see numerous doctors and specialists and no one seemed to be able to help me. I was on all kinds of birth control and others to either stop them because they wouldn't stop, or to start them because they wouldn't start for a few months. This became "my normal" as they told me.

    A month and a half ago, I went to see a naturopath that was reffered to me by people that had all kinds of weird "normals" for them. I thought, what have I got to loose. Within a week I saw results the doctors and specialist never were able to provide with all their pills. So far, I'm regular, just taking vitamins, naturopathic pill and changing my diet a little from his recommendations. It was the best thing I've done for myself. He also helped me with other things I was having problems with.
  • When I went on the pill, I did put on weight.

    But I'm still on it, and losing weight, so it can't be all bad.

    I found that my sex drive has gone through the roof since being on it. Which is good when you have a partner, sucks when you're alone.
  • Colleen118
    Colleen118 Posts: 491 Member
    "Periods are a modern day invention" Dr. Michael Reirmaier, AKA my OBGYN

    Most Dr.'s will tell you there is no MEDICAL REASON to have a period, that in today's times women use their period to try and diagnose possible pregnancy when one is missed. And even though this is usually accurate, it is not always and women who believe they are possibly pregnant should always contact their doctor for confirmation.

    Having a period only happens when your body fat % is increased. NOT to say you are an unhealthy weight, but women with LOW body fat % will not get their periods. It was very rare "back in the day" for women to have a normal period because diets were so restricted that MOST commoner women were very petite and only the more wealthy were of a more solid build and would have the anomaly of having a menstruation cycle.
  • srpm
    srpm Posts: 275 Member
    I was on the pill for 12 years, yes I gained weight during that time but not from the pill. I actually found that I gained weight easier/that it has been harder to loose since I went off the pill but being off of it (just over 1 year now) also made it possible to discover some other issues that I didn't know I had which could also be the culprits for the difficult loosing/ease at which I am gaining weight.
  • rebeccap13
    rebeccap13 Posts: 754 Member
    I've been on the pill off and on for 4 years, I cannot attribute any weight gain to the pill itself, I just have/had no self control. In fact, while on the pill I feel more regulated, less freak outs, less depressive episodes which in turn usually means less binges. Also, no loss in libido at all. I think it depends on your age for how it affects your libido, also there's so many other hormonal things and psychological things that affect your libido its hard to tell if its the pill or not.

    I had a friend in a similar situation I think as you, her body fat got so low (small framed college softball pitcher) that her body stopped producing progesterone I believe. The only way she can have a period now is while on birth control. She is hoping that eventually they can get her back to producing its own progesterone. as she wants to have kids.
  • Pinkgingham_19
    Pinkgingham_19 Posts: 28 Member
    Just feel the need to chime in, for any women who would like contraception without the hormones and without barrier methods- the copper IUD is awesome! Only downside is heavier cramping and heavier periods, but it's not a nightmare or anything, Doctors are still in the dark ages for the most part about IUDs, but a knowledgable women's health doctor should be able to insert an IUD for most women.