Cheating?

Do you incorporate a cheat meal or day into your week? I haven't done this so far, but I'm considering the inclusion of a cheat meal (with dessert) each week that I wouldn't have to count. I'm hoping that looking forward to my cheat meal will keep me from wanting to cheat throughout the rest of the week. What works for you?

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  • nxd10
    nxd10 Posts: 4,570 Member
    I don't. But I do have dessert planned into most days (1/4 of ice cream or something similar). And if I decide to eat a piece of cake or anything else I eat it - actually, usually a small portion of it. I enjoy it and I count it into my calories.

    I love food. I love to eat. I love eating healthy. And I have really enjoyed losing weight.

    Rather than planning a cheat meal that doesn't count, why don't you just have a meal where you're going to relax, but then make sure that OVER THE COURSE OF THE WEEK you make sure you're under.

    In other words, know that you'll go over one day, but know you'll make your goals for the week.
  • aminer31
    aminer31 Posts: 54 Member
    I tried having a cheat but found I would go to far that day! So no more planned cheat days. However if something comes up or I just can't resist something I go ahead and have a cheat item. Today that was a delicious donut that kept calling my name. :)
  • umer76
    umer76 Posts: 1,272 Member
    Do you incorporate a cheat meal or day into your week? I haven't done this so far, but I'm considering the inclusion of a cheat meal (with dessert) each week that I wouldn't have to count. I'm hoping that looking forward to my cheat meal will keep me from wanting to cheat throughout the rest of the week. What works for you?

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    All of us have cheat days here and there but even on cheat day you should count all the cals you will be eating this will allow you to realize the damage done. Atleast keeping track will help you to balance out in the rest of the week:)
  • JesterMFP
    JesterMFP Posts: 3,596 Member
    This works for some people.

    i've never done it. I just eat the food I like all through the week, and I don't call it cheating. :wink:

    If you're going to do it, it would be wise to keep an eye on the calories, at least to start with, just to make sure you're not going to wipe out your week's hard work. It's unlikely you'll do that with one meal, but some people manage it! On the other hand, some people find that taking the break from counting is the important bit, psychologically, but don't necessarily splurge while they do it. Play around a bit, and find what works for you.
  • I've heard mixed results but I just don't have the willpower yet to try to pull it off.
  • mgmlap
    mgmlap Posts: 1,377 Member
    i usually have a "cheat" everyday..but it fits into my macros..so no worries...other than yesterday...ice cream was so spontaneous....we were having a bad day..so we got ice cream to make it better..!
  • garystidham1
    garystidham1 Posts: 30 Member
    i was wondering on your cheet day how many cal do you eat is it your mantaine cal needs or just 100 over your avarage i feel bad if i go over my allocated cal
  • syrklc
    syrklc Posts: 172 Member
    Do you incorporate a cheat meal or day into your week? I haven't done this so far, but I'm considering the inclusion of a cheat meal (with dessert) each week that I wouldn't have to count. I'm hoping that looking forward to my cheat meal will keep me from wanting to cheat throughout the rest of the week. What works for you?

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    not cheating yet. some interesting comments here so far :wink: i think i might consider it after 10 pound loss :drinker:
  • littlewhittles
    littlewhittles Posts: 402 Member
    I don't plan for one, but if something comes up (dinner out with friends, a party, etc) I allow myself an indulgence. Otherwise, I get grudgey and throw my whole diet out the window, lol.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I eat whatever I feel like having most every day, I just mind the calories and eat smaller portions.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I've found it's better to set a reasonable deficit and fit treats into my calorie goal/macros. Sometimes emotions or events will cause me to have a higher calorie day and I don't stress out when it happens, but I try to limit them.
  • Catlady87
    Catlady87 Posts: 302 Member
    Im confused about what exactly a cheat day or meal is. Is it a meal you don't add into your diary or is it when you go over you calorie limit because say you're having a pizza?
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    I keep track of a weekly deficit instead of daily ones.
  • VorJoshigan
    VorJoshigan Posts: 1,106 Member
    I can understand why you wouldn't want to use the forum search function. SOOO many people talking about infidelity on a fitness message board! WTF?!
  • barb1241
    barb1241 Posts: 324 Member
    Why not just incorporate the things you enjoy into your daily LIFESTYLE? Rumor has it that it will help you to lose weight more consistently and to maintain if you don't feel like you are on a "deprivation diet" all the time.

    It's working for me, maybe not for anyone else-YMMV. But I have a snack every evening, usually chocolate, cheese, wine, popcorn-whatever fits into my macros for the day (not usually the SAME day, LOL!) and I've lost 70-ish pounds that way.
  • Don't reward yourself with food.
  • I have 2 "Blowout days" a week where I have a really good dinner and dessert. I usually have something for dessert every day, even if it's only a couple of biscuits. I usually average about 1900 calories a day (net) which include about 4 hours of hard exercise a week. I am losing about a pound a week. This week I went out for a curry and finished the evening with an ice cream sundae! Needless to say the hour on the exercise the next morning was painful! I guess if the weight loss plateaus off then i'll have to cut down on the blowout days!
  • xxmangexx
    xxmangexx Posts: 13 Member
    I have done it both ways, and now that I think about it, I am have fallen into sloppy tracking habits as of late. Probably because of the cheat days. Here is the thing, I have done a daily way since I started. I was fascinated to see how eating differant foods would have an affect on me. For the first 30lb's or so I did not have one. After a few months the birthday season followed by holidays and more birthdays I incorportated 1 day a week I wouldn't track. I didn't deviate from my diet plan so much. I would still monitor portions, but if I wanted a beer and hot wings, I would have that as a lunch and go back to healthier options through out the day. I did see a wild swing in my weight when I did this. I would put on 2 extra lbs in the next few days and have to work it off before my weigh in day. If you are ok with seeing the swings or feeling kind of bad after months of healthier options....go for it.
  • eandrsmom
    eandrsmom Posts: 119
    I have one meal a week where I can enjoy whatever I have been craving. Savor it, log it, and next meal is back to normal. :smile:
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    Who needs to cheat when you can work it into your meals! If you want something completely devious (so bad it takes up a whole days worth) then just plan the rest of your days around it or work your butt off to have it :)
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Not a cheat day per sei, but I do eat to maintenance pretty much every Saturday...sometimes just a tad over. I log it all...I don't feel bad about it...it's the one night I can really go all out and make a really fine meal and we often have friends join us, cocktails, etc.
  • Synapze
    Synapze Posts: 499
    Ive been on this diet since the first of 2013. Put in a solid effort and so far lost 5kg.

    Today ive been invited to a good ol' Aussie BBQ.

    Ive decided I'm gonna go, eat all the yummy lamb, Munch on the Potato Salad...all the good stuff, and even sink a few Strongbow Ciders. (Man ive been missing them through the Summer)

    Still going to log all the food i munch down for the day when i get home (Or tomorrow if i pass out on the floor):laugh:

    This way i will be held accountable for my actions, and kick my own butt to get back on the diet on Sunday.

    I feel like I've deserved an afternoon off from worrying about Calories.

    Regarding 'Cheating', I feel that if i don't log it, I'm only going to be 'Cheating' myself, and by logging what i eat, it gives me an incentive to try and work it off during the following week.

    Like a challenge to see if i can squeeze out everything i ate before my next weigh in.
  • There are some days where you want to eat things you normally steer away from. Two suggestions: Don't EVER do it in your home, and log EVERYTHING. Remember that even your calorie goal includes your deficit, so if you are having a cheat day and eat 700 calories more than you normally do while running a 1000 calorie a day diet, you are still running a deficit. I would save those days for special occassions, though, and plan small portions of your favorite foods into your calorie budget. Saying a food is forbidden just makes me want it more. Saying, ok, I want to eat that and if I eat fewer calories for every other meal of the day, I can "afford" it. But honestly, usually what happens is I start rearranging my foods for the day and end up deciding whatever it is isn't worth it.
  • BellaFe
    BellaFe Posts: 323
    I don't plan it but if it happens I go with it, also I don't call it cheating it's a treat. Cheating is so negative.
  • JumpingDog
    JumpingDog Posts: 125 Member
    I don't reward myself with food but seeing as how food is a very social thing in my family, I take the time every once in a while to eat something a little out of my norm just to have fun and "be there too" instead of cooking my own dinner. I do it probably twice a month and my cheat usually falls within my caloric and macro goals but isn't the "best choice". Tonight I ate one piece of pizza, one wing, and half a bread stick for dinner. I still have ~160 calories to spare and I'm full and pleased.

    I think cheat days are good for some people and bad for others. You have to have willpower to abide by cheat days, and I do not believe they should be planned. My cheat dinner would have been a cheat disaster if I ate three bread sticks and three pieces of pizza (or more) like I would have done prior to changing my eating habits.
  • chimp517
    chimp517 Posts: 185 Member
    When I cut I still follow IIFYM (if it fits your macros) and eat anything I want as long as I can fit it in.
  • andersonjo0306
    andersonjo0306 Posts: 304 Member
    My cheat is wine. I have to admit. I just make sure that I adjust my calories on the day I want a glass or two.
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    Nope, I eat what I want when I want as often as I want.. .but in moderation. I have ice cream pretty much every day just because I want it and it fixes my sweet cravings and never makes me go over my totals so I figure I am good.
  • lisadlocks
    lisadlocks Posts: 212 Member
    I incorporate cheat days or cheat meals. But I log in every sordid detail so that I can see those 5000 calorie plus days or 2000 calorie plus meals. These red numbers have a sobering effect and help you remember. You will be surprise to see that "cheat days" used to be a typical day pre my fitness pal. LOG LOG LOG. Reality is your friend! Unfortunately moderation is not my friend. Learn you patterns and avoid any that lead you down to the road to red numbers across the board!!!!!! Good Luck!
  • VanillaBeanSeed
    VanillaBeanSeed Posts: 562 Member
    When I first started, I had a cheat DAY every week. Ate what ever I wanted!! Was losing the weight pretty steady. Now I only have one once in awhile when sometime comes up. Like a lunch out with friends or a special day like christmas/birthday parties.

    :)