UGH, men...

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that is pretty funny. look at the bright side - he didn't forget!

I appologies for all fo man kind...
I know not everyone can be as awesome as me and for that i'm sorry.

I appologies for all fo man kind...
I know not everyone can be as awesome as me and for that i'm sorry.

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that is pretty funny. look at the bright side - he didn't forget!

Exactly!!

Just work it off today and enjoy the fact that you have a great and loving man....most men woulda either forgotten.....or well, gone to Mckie D's.

Gotta enjoy the good times! :flowerforyou:

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that is pretty funny. look at the bright side - he didn't forget!

I pretty much told him 10 times the week before... lol... guess what, I didn't get anything besides a fatty dinner! :noway: Not even a card. :grumble:

And 4 years of relationship

He didn't forget, and I mean it was a special day. He even remembered your favorite dessert! Just write off the evening as a cheat night and keep on going!

Yeah, these past 4 years feels like 40. :laugh:

LOL, oh man, and you're not even married yet!!!! :laugh:

I wish he had bought *me* tiramisu....

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I wish he had bought *me* tiramisu....

Its a date J.:flowerforyou: :blushing: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway:

Welp. Being bought tiramisu by a large harry fellow from Illinois with a bicep fetish....My life's dream is about to be fullfilled...(I'm amazed by just how *perfect* everything is....) :blushing: :blushing:

Why stress on special occasions? I agree it was insensitive for him to say "well if you knew you'd feel this way....." Men put their foot in their mouth a lot, and don't mean it in a negative way.

My boyfriend has crushed me in the past with things he's said. And when I explain why they're hurtful, he understands, but he really DIDN'T mean it that way.. or didn't realize the repricussions. (I can't spell that word!)

Anyway, every once in a while, let loose! Enjoy your fiancee and remember why you are together--and planing a wedding!

My BF had his 40th last week and we went on a weekend away, saw a concert, and had an expensive dinner out. I savored every bite of teh 10oz NY steak smothered in mushroom/brandy/cream sauce, the loaded baked potato and the salad with blue cheese, adn the bottle of wine we shared.

Yeah, the next day I ran and pushed myself a little harder, and yes, I didn't lose any weight this week, but ....

I love him. and i loved dinner, and sometimes a perfect night is worth the extra calories (as long as it isn't too often)

Still, ordering dessert without you asking, was maybe a bone-head move on his part, but was maybe a romantic move. He wanted you to have what you love, and wanted you to not have to stress bout "should I, or shouldnt' I" ordering it.. He was thinking of you. Appreciate it for what it is.

(easier said than done. A few weeks ago I actually cried some real tears when my BF brought home almost an entire loaf of "leftover" garlic bread his mom had made when he had dinner with his family the other night..I was having a down day after not losing any weight and got all mad at him, accusing him of not being supportive of my diet as he knows I LOVE bread, and have very little willpower when something's in front of me. He threw it all in the garbage, and then I felt extra guilty, for wasting food! Sometimes you just can't win when you're a guy! We girls can be soo emotional and complicated!)

Good luck on your weight loss, and on teaching your guy to be more sensitive to the challenges that come with dieting. But please, try to remember to take time for yourself and him. and Enjoy your love. Date, have fun.. just everything in moderation!

well not everything...

"Laugh and Love with passion, everything else in moderation"

Don't worry about splurging, it's good for the soul AND it was for a good reason. Happy 4th. And just remember, men ar men and always have the ability to say and do the wrong things at the wrong time. We has women have to try to understand the poor souls and forgive them when they transgress. :-)

Boys are so stupid.

and thats why we should throw rocks at them :devil: :bigsmile:

Sticks and stones...*starts getting pelted by rock throwing women*
ok ok boys R stupid. Geez:grumble:

you guys just make me :laugh: .