Flirting/Sexting...How??

Build up the anticipation and expectation by sending something simple... like " I can't wait to see you tonight, I have a suprise for you xx " and maybe ad a pic of some ligerie (not necessarily worn) or a close up of a bare shoulder....

Don't worry, sexting is just a fad. Just like oral sex. They will be gone soon enough.

wait... .WHAT?!? :noway:

Please no

not for me

aww this is sad!
think abt something super dirty you secretly want somebody to do to you and then SAY IT to somebody.
its that easy!

like "i want you to come over after work and poop on my chest?"

exactly

Just don't hold your breath for that one...

All I can say is that you know you are doing it right when the responses don't make sense and then stop for two minutes.

*waits for the OP to get an inbox full of filth as "examples"*

Word.

Attention-seeker is attention-seeking.

Sez the girl with all the bikini pics on her profile (and one with her kid) Ick!

So what you are trying to say is kids and bikinis are nasty?
HEH this post would insinuate that you need to get out more..

Not at all what I'm saying - What I am saying is that if you're trying to be provacative and alluring then maybe you shouldn't have your kid in your pics.

I don't necessarily need to get out more, I just need to be able to express myself better.

Because the female body is instantly sexualized nevermind the fact that at the end of the day it's just skin regardless of what she may or may not be wearing, right? Her body language in the picture in question says zero, to me at least, about 'trying to be provocative and alluring'.
If you're reading provocative into a picture of a mom in a swimsuit with her kids then...not gonna lie that strikes me as kinda weird.

All I can say is that you know you are doing it right when the responses don't make sense and then stop for two minutes.

HA HA, or when the text starts coming in all full of typos cause they are only using one hand

*waits for the OP to get an inbox full of filth as "examples"*

Yep :laugh:

The easiest way to start is just randomly text unexpected things... They don't have to be super riske to have the desired effect - you just want to surprise them with an "i'm thinking of you". As you get more and more comfortable with it and get feedback from them as to what they like you'll probably naturally start to turn the heat up.

My ex-wife had a deck of cards with examples and ideas. She never sent any to me though... :huh:

My ex-wife had a deck of cards with examples and ideas. She never sent any to me though... :huh:

I think I received them :drinker:

All I can say is that you know you are doing it right when the responses don't make sense and then stop for two minutes.

HA HA, or when the text starts coming in all full of typos cause they are only using one hand

exgraetbbly

WOW, I am GOOD! LOL

I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.

*noted*

I don't agree if you have a good imagination and can picture what that person is saying its fabulous

Anyone has the balls to type a sexy text message, but could you say those dirty words with your own mouth to someone? I could read the dirtiest text, story, email, message, etc ever and it wouldn't do a thing for me.

Ah that's a shame, you're missing out on alot of fun

Sounds like a blast.

Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

Even weirder because there is a kid in the profile pic.....