I am not a sexist, or a demeanor.

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TheUnthinkingMajority
TheUnthinkingMajority Posts: 82 Member
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I posted a thread earlier, titled "Girls With Muscles". it talked about my preferences. how I thought girls with some muscle tone are attractive.
thats when the raging posters flew in, pretty much insinuating that i am a sexist for thinking that muscles are only a male attribute, and pretty much saying i'm being demeaning to women. I dont understand that, honestly. I was just stating what I like, and I even said in the post "i even like girls who don't have muscles"..

Anyways, the point of THIS thread is to apologize to everyone for the misunderstanding and to let you all know that I posted the thread with good intentions.
Someone told me the Road to hell is paved with good intentions, and that's a good quote.
This isn't a thread complaining about being "attacked" or "belittled".. it's a genuine apology, from me, to all of you that I offended.

That's all. thank you.
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  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,472 Member
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    it is what it is, who cares what others think?
  • TheUnthinkingMajority
    TheUnthinkingMajority Posts: 82 Member
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    While that's true, i am a people pleaser. if I feel that i have upset or offended anyone, I will do my best to make things right. Even if I wasn't in the wrong.
  • mariannekehl
    mariannekehl Posts: 66 Member
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    I didn't take that message away from your original post at all. Happy day!:drinker:
  • TheUnthinkingMajority
    TheUnthinkingMajority Posts: 82 Member
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    Happy day to you too!
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    You'll need a tougher skin if you plan on sticking around here for awhile.

    Those people were overreacting.
  • professorRAT
    professorRAT Posts: 690 Member
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    Don't worry about it. It was very nice the way you quickly apologized once you realized you may have offended some. People around here can be pretty sensitive and are quick to judge. Just brush it off.
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
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    Don't worry dude, I took it in the spirit with which it was intended... there are enough real d-bags in the world without worrying about your slightly misguided wording :)
  • mariannekehl
    mariannekehl Posts: 66 Member
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    Happy day to you too!


    THIS
  • 4summer38
    4summer38 Posts: 25
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    I saw your original post, and I didn't see anything wrong with what you said. I'm a female, I have little muscles, under fat though, working on that. :laugh:
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
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    I wasn't offended, don't really understand why some people were, you weren't a 'sexist pig' in any way that I could see. Just keep doing what you're doing, there's always gonna be someone out there that has issues with ANYTHING. :D
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
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    Thanks for clearing that up.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
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    Don't take it personally. People like to fly off the handle if you give them any opportunity.

    It's fun. :drinker:
  • sarahrbraun
    sarahrbraun Posts: 2,261 Member
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    I wasn't offended, don't really understand why some people were, you weren't a 'sexist pig' in any way that I could see. Just keep doing what you're doing, there's always gonna be someone out there that has issues with ANYTHING. :D

    this exactly!! I even posted a personal pic for you :D
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
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    Thanks for the apology, even though there were good intentions, it comes off very wrong. You like women with or without muscles, so I didn't understand what you point was.
  • LittleBallofFurr
    LittleBallofFurr Posts: 242 Member
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    Trolls will be trolls, you are fine :)
  • AKosky585
    AKosky585 Posts: 607 Member
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    I didn't see anything offensive with your original post. People take things way too seriously. Don't even worry about it. You did nothing wrong. :)
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    I thought that said dementor ,whoops.
  • dawndw
    dawndw Posts: 203
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    While that's true, i am a people pleaser. if I feel that i have upset or offended anyone, I will do my best to make things right. Even if I wasn't in the wrong.

    You can please some of the people some of the time but, you can't please all of the people all of the time :-) besides there was nothing sexist or demeaning in the original post..... It's all good!!! :drinker: Cheers
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
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    Welcome to the boards. :flowerforyou:

    It's like this all the time. You'll get used to it.

    Or not.
  • mikey1976
    mikey1976 Posts: 1,005 Member
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    Thanks for the apology, even though there were good intentions, it comes off very wrong. You like women with or without muscles, so I didn't understand what you point was.

    BINGO me two i don't get the haters gonna hate

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