weight loss help. im trying so hard here..

Just looking at your meal now...

Losing weight is painfully slow. Your ticker shows 17 lbs. lost and that you joined Jan. 2013. How long have you been doing this?

You are def not EATING ENOUGH. I was stuck at 235 lbs for 3 months and was really discouraged. I was eating 1400cals a day and weightlifting and saw no number changes. I upped calls to 2000k a day and have since lost another 13 lbs and the weight flew off.

http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/

You should be eating between your BMR and TDEE. If you want to lose, just eat 10-20% less than your TDEE. So 1700 is too few of a calorie for you....it's less than your BMR.

yeah I would definitely increase your calories. I am a 24 y/o female who weighs 124 lbs, and I eat between 1400-1500 a day, so you should definitely be eating more than me! Even still, 1 lb every 2 days is great!! I know it would be nice to lose more, but it will take time. Which is why you want to make sure you are eating enough and not going too overboard because this is a lifestyle change as opposed to a quick fix diet. Make it liveable and your food still enjoyable so you won't mind doing it for so long. So keep it up!! You're doing great!

First off, if you've just recently begun working out and trying to lose weight, you're very likely retaining water because of your workouts. Read this thread for a simple explanation of it:

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/595473-why-the-scale-goes-up-with-a-new-workout-program-must-read

Secondly, given the stats you posted, you're most likely eating far too little, not too much. A deficit that large (especially when combined with daily workouts, which further deepen the deficit) will likely result in the loss of a lot of lean body mass (read that as "muscle"), and some degree of metabolic slowdown. Read this thread, do the calculations Dan outlines, and start feeding your body what it needs:

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/654536-in-place-of-a-road-map-2-0-revised-7-2-12

Read this article to understand why you shouldn't be doing what you're doing:

http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/why-big-caloric-deficits-and-lots-of-activity-can-hurt-fat-loss.html

This 100%

+1 to this... although as Lyle says in that blog posting, this doesn't apply to everyone.

But wait, did you say 1lb every 2 days?!?! And you're not happy with that? That's an amazing weight loss. If you're able to do that, not be unbearably hungry and keep it up consistently then you would be a huge success story. When I first read your post I thought you said 1lb a week, which for many is actually not bad if it's consistent. I do understand where you are coming from though. When you have a large amount of weight to lose and it feels like it's coming off so slowly it can feel like the task is insurmountable. How can I keep this up for years? My advice to you is to focus on smaller goals. 20 lbs lost, past a threshold like say 250 lb, or 222 lb (100 Kg). Perhaps it's fitting into a small size jeans or some other milestone. The honest truth is, much of the benefit of losing weight kicks in much earlier than when you reach your overall goal. People will comment, you'll look better in the mirror, climbing those stairs will easier and so on. So why only focus on the final goal? Focus on the tangible improvements as you progress.

Also, consider getting a BF monitor, they aren't super accurate but they can show a trend. Sometimes weight will not shift, but BF% will. I also believe this is a better measure of healthy than weight.

Keep doing what you're doing, if you find your weight loss stalls, consider the post on bodyrecomposition.com.

I believe you did the right thing switching from 6 meals a day, there is little evidence this has any beneficial impact.

Before you know it, you'll be at your goal.

Carbs convert to sugar which causes an insulin release. Regular white bread actually has a higher glycemic index (70) score than table sugar(68). As someone who checks blood glucose, I pay attention to starches and carbs, not merely sugar.

When you eat carbs, your body wants to burn that for energy. When you eat fat as well, the insulin release in reaction to the carbs will store the fat...that is what it does. If you have fat with very little carbs, your body will be forced to use the fat for energy rather than store it. But, a diet only works if you can stay with it, so it might not be for everyone. But since reducing my carbs to <30g (rarely more than 50g) a day in mid October 2012, I have lost 64 pounds, lost my high blood pressure and my blood sugar is completely normal. (A1C 4.8)
This was without exercise by the way. I have started riding my bike now because I have lost enough weight to do it again.

You don't have to be extreme, though. I was already losing weight with under 100g of carbs a day, but reduced it further to help my blood sugar faster. If you try reducing your carbs (and I know this is hard, but cutting bread/wheat or processed foods in general) and getting most of your carbs from veggies and some fruits or beans and eating the recommended calories for your weight and height (not far lower), you should be able to tell within a month if that helps at all.

I also do a protein shake every now and then. It is hard for me to eat the recommended amount of protein for me each day (100g or so I think). I use Pure Protein Frosty Chocolate, with unsweetened almond milk, adding walnuts, almond butter, fiber, almond meal, cocoa powder, a little splenda for the cocoa, and some frozen strawberries with ice. I will satisfy any sweet fix with this. But I don't do it everyday.
The longer you work at this though, you will learn about different recipe plans and what works for you to keep it varied. I certainly cook A LOT more since starting this!

Your weight loss seems good though. I lost a lot the first month, but a lot of that was water. Since then, 2 pounds a week is about average for me.

(this was partially in reply to Now_or_Never1, but it doesn't seem nested)

1 lb every 2 days is an excellent rate. Be proud of your progress. :flowerforyou:

1 lb every 2 days is very rapid weight loss. Unless when you say "the same 1 lb" you mean you are gaining/losing the same one pound and your weight is just fluctuating.

I think the best TDEE calculator can be found here: http://www.iifym.com/tdee-calculator
This site gives you a good idea of how many calories your body needs based on a realistic view of your daily activity.
(I do think the protein advice on iifym.com is a bit too high though.)

Congrats on your progress!!