Question about exercising for those of you who hate it. (or

MelissaLu
MelissaLu Posts: 83
edited September 20 in Fitness and Exercise
K, so I've pretty much always been the out of shape/ fat kid. I'm no longer necessarily fat but I'm still out of shape and I HATE to exercise. It's just so incredibly boring and honestly there's so many things I'd rather be doing.
Of course, I know this is absolutely no excuse not to do it because it's essential for my health. My question is how long did it take you guys to get into the swing of exercising on a regular basis? I want do know if there's anyone out there like me (I'm sure it's not hard to find) and even if there are those who used to be like me and now love to exercise.
It's just one of those things that I know I should do but just can't muster up the motivation to do it for one reason or another. I know with only 15 pounds to lose I'm really going to need to get my act together =/

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  • leadman
    leadman Posts: 7
    Try different exercises and you might find one that's more interesting. For example I get totally bored running on the treadmill, even with ipod or TV, it's just mind numbing and hard to stay motivated to keep going.

    But running outside I don't have this problem at all, maybe because you have different landmarks that you can focus on. I also like bicycling outside or indoor rowing.
  • Hi hun,

    I joined a gym a couple of minths back and after a couple of weeks I was bored stiff of just being on the treadmill and bikes so I started to look at classes. I now do body conditioning, spinning, aquafit and the gym and love it and its working. Vary what exercise you do be it indoors or outdoors and do a little to start off and build it up. I love it now and exercise 5 times a week.

    Good luck hunni, hope you get that exercise bug :) x
  • ToriaNixon
    ToriaNixon Posts: 3
    Hiya, I am with you there...but I joined a gym last summer and I have to admit the hardest part was actually getting there! Once I was there I enjoyed working out and felt good afterwards, but it was just so easy to not go that my determination soon wavered and before I knew it I was at home eating crisps in front of House rather than working out.

    I think its three things that change it, one is variety - if like me you dont mind running but hate the treadmill, dont use the treadmill! I used the cross trainer, bikes, rowers, steppers, weights. Also as previously posted, make use of the classes...this brings be to the second thing...socialising...if you go on a tuesday night with Brenda and Lisa to Bums and Tums youre more likely to keep going than if youre at it alone, partly because of the good company as you hop unbalanced along the back row, but partly due to ompetitive human nature, you would all want to be a bit better, lose a bit more or sweat a bit less than your pal! And third is regularity. Once you get used to going twice a week its just routine you may want to step it up to three times a week, but once its part of habit you think of it less as a chore and more of 'you time'...

    Trouble is it just is not hard to knock you off the exercise perch....I say this as i sit here wobbling on my couch with my fat fingers stabbing away at keys.....so im talking myself round here too!!
  • lilmissy2
    lilmissy2 Posts: 595 Member
    A very very long time ago I hated exercise too. I was soooo unfit and started out just dancing around in my bedroom with the music up loud and taking long walks. It wasn't long before I could start running for bits and pieces of my walks.

    But, my real passion for exercise came when I started going to group fitness classes. They can be so addictive (but be careful not to overdo it, in the end I stress-fractured my foot because I loved it so much I was doing 6-8 classes a day!) and the best part is that it helps you do things for longer. If I run, I find it hard to do more than 20 minutes (even though I'm not tired or anything) but I can do an hour class no problems.
  • kwardklinck
    kwardklinck Posts: 1,601
    I used to hate it. Now I'm addicted to it. I started out with some Richard Simmons DVDs. They were fun and I enjoyed the music. Within weeks, I felt stiff if I didn't exercise. Now I'm training for a 5 K and run 3 times a week. On the days I don't run, I do Pilates and the hundred pushups challenge. I feel really young and energetic in a way I haven't in a very long time. I'm even considering playing soccer again (I loved it in high school). Just pick something you like and make yourself do it. I don't always feel like doing my exercise but once I get off the couch, I really enjoy it.
  • I feel the same way about exercising. I LOATHE it.:noway: I'm 54, and I knew if I wanted to be around to watch my grand daughter grow up, I needed to do something about my weight. I've always wanted to do karate. This class is tae kwan do. So, a little over a month ago I joined a class. I go for an hour, twice a week. Since I enjoy it so much, I don't even feel like it's exercising and I burn over 1000 calories each time I work out. I absolutely love it. On days I don't do tae kwan do, I walk between 30 and 45 minutes while listening to my mp3. What keeps me going, is looking into the future and what I will look like when I reach my goal. Good luck.
  • hill242
    hill242 Posts: 412 Member
    Great suggestions so far from those who've responded. My personal suggestion is maybe you need to find a competitive sport to keep you interested in exercise.
  • nosbod
    nosbod Posts: 4 Member
    Boy, I hear ya! I start to exercise and then a week or two later I stop! I have a couple of health issues to hinder my efforts too- arthritis in hands - (can't do yoga), weak ankles - major sprain two years ago and last year tore a tendon in my arch - that was after starting a walk/running program....
    It just gets frustrating, but now I'm thinking of trying jazzercise - anyone do this? One just opened about 10 minutes from my house - have always been curious about it....
    I have weights, dvds, treadmill at home, but somehow end up doing laundry or something like that.....:ohwell:
  • Never done jazzercise, but a lot of members on MFP have mentioned doing zumba. Not sure what all it involves, but everyone that's mentioned it just loves it. Might be worth a try. Good luck.
  • lotusfromthemud
    lotusfromthemud Posts: 5,335 Member
    Here's something that might help:

    What did you like to do when you were a little kid?

    (almost nobody liked to sit around...although times are changing...)

    I asked myself this question, and found my favorite forms of exercise: I used to love to dance, so I tried Zumba (super fun and totally not boring). I also used to love to ride a bike, so I got hooked on spinning.

    And remember, any activity is good. Just move, and you might discover that the body likes to move. (the body likes to move, trust me.:wink: )
  • TCASMEY
    TCASMEY Posts: 1,405 Member
    Remember to start with small steps. Don't overdo any new exercise or you will be so sore you will probably give up right away.

    I love my stationary bike (its actually my outside bike but I bought a stand for it so now I can ride it year around inside) I get a good book start pedaling a reading and before you know it you have gotten in a good workout. Lots of times I set next to some shelves put my computer on the shelves and watch a movie or some show I missed. It helps time go so fast for me at least for me,
  • MelissaLu
    MelissaLu Posts: 83
    Thanks for all the wonderful comments, they're very helpful. Yeah, I think I just need to kick being so lazy. Another thing is I think I've been starting out too hard. Like I think, hey, I'm not that big, I can handle. WRONG hahahaha. And I don't think joining a class at the gym is good for me, I hate doing that kind of stuff in front of people, I'm very shy lol. I'm gonna try some work out videos and try to switch it up. I need something that's going to keep my attention, because I've noticed that I have a very short attention span and I get bored too easily. Must be my generation, been sitting in front of the computer half of my life hehe. >_o
  • Lulzaroonie
    Lulzaroonie Posts: 222 Member
    I just do it whether I hate it or not. I know the end result will be more pleasing than what I had to go through to get there so I use my goal as my motivator. You can't get fit if you can't be bothered =]
  • mhotch
    mhotch Posts: 901 Member
    I would not say I love {or like it} exercise, but I love what it has done to my body. That is all the incentive that I need to continue. Plus I love the comments from my husband. It makes it all worth it.
  • 00trayn
    00trayn Posts: 1,849 Member
    I have never exercised regularly in my life until February. I hated it, but I realized that if I wanted to lose any weight sitting at a desk all day instead of walking around college like I was used to, I'm gonna have to do it. I didn't want people to see me either, so I used the Wii that I got for Christmas and invested in EA Sports Active. I can close the blinds and do it right in my living room. It basically takes you through all different exercises so I didn't get bored, and it was a 20-30 minute workout so it wasn't too time consuming. I also decided to take advantage of the little gym my office building has. There are usually a few guys there, but I just get on the elliptical and do my 50 minutes. The one thing that keeps me occupied for the whole 50 minutes is that I watch movies or TV shows on my ipod. I've been watching a miniseries on the Apollo mission (I'm a space nerd...) and it's about 50 minutes per episode. I'm never bored and the time goes by really fast.

    So my suggestions from this novel is to find something you like that you don't mind doing, find something to occupy you while you do it, and get exercising into your schedule. I do it as soon as I get home from work, or as soon as I get out of work and go straight to the office gym. If I don't do it right when I get home, I'd get distracted and never end up working out. Three months into this, I actually enjoy it, my endurance has gone up SO much, and my body looks alot better since I'm eating right and exercising. My waist is alot smaller even when I was this size at the beginning of college. It just takes time and effort to adjust. You can do it though!
  • drp121274
    drp121274 Posts: 34 Member
    I have always HATED to exercise. I was a couch potato all of my life. However, I joined Anytime Fitness two weeks ago, and LOVE IT. I can go 24/7, and it is small enough that it isn't a meat market. All the cardio machines have a tv on them, so you can watch whatever you want. I figure out a show that I want to watch at night, and I watch it at the gym. It makes the time go by so much faster and I would have never been able to do this at home.
  • amelia_atlantic
    amelia_atlantic Posts: 926 Member
    It only takes three weeks to form a habit!

    Definitely look into classes, it's a whole hour of exercising without even noticing. Zumba is amazing!

    As far as the gym:
    Buy new workout clothes you feel comfortable in.
    Make a playlist of all your favorite upbeat songs.
    If your gym has individual tvs, go at the times your favorite shows are on.
    Tell yourself you'll exercise for 15 minutes. Chances are, you'll stay longer once you get going!

    I like working out but when I'm not feeling it, I use these tips and it helps! :bigsmile:
  • joneswife09
    joneswife09 Posts: 207 Member
    One thing that has helped me with exercise might work for you. (It may not) Everything is so different for everyone. Some days when I think I might struggle with my exercise I go ahead and put the exercise in my journal and eat based off of that. Then I feel obligated to do my exercise or I know I'm going to see more weight on the scale. I also Love, Love, Love my Tae Bo. It might be a low intensity for some, but for me its definitely a workout. If you don't think you are in great shape maybe you could try that. Compared to me you may be in really good shape :laugh:
  • sonjavon
    sonjavon Posts: 1,019 Member
    Exercising has never been my thing. When I started MFP, I could hardly do 10 minutes on my treadmill. I was honestly too afraid to "push myself" in fear that I would have a heart attack or at the very least an asthma attack. Once I got in the swing of things and realized that I wasn't as out of shape as I THOUGHT I was (even at 286 lbs) - it got a little easier.

    I think the big thing that has helped is a change of mindset. I looked at it as something that I HAD to do to lose weight. Now... my exericse time is something that I GET to do for me. It is my ME time. I'm a 35 year old stay at home mom, I homeschool my son, my husband works from home and I volunteer at a local animal rescue.... I am ALWAYS on the run doing something for someone else. My cell phone is always with me and someone is always calling for something. Once it occured to me that I could use my exercise time as a "time out" from the world... I started liking it. I can get on the treadmill and as long as I'm walking... everyone knows that they'd better not bother me unless there's blood involved. I can go for a walk and not answer the phone if someone calls (Sorry, I was working out - couldn't answer the phone). I can kick my family off the tv because I need to workout on the Wii. Exercise is the one area in my life where I allow myself to be selfish. It's GREAT!

    Now... does that mean that I jump up every morning anxious to exercise? No... but I always feel better when I've done it - and I have to remind myself of that all the time! The other things is... being able to eat a bigger dinner or dessert that night? Fabulous!

    I'm like you - I don't enjoy doing classes in front of anyone... but the treadmill at home allows me to be the complete dork that I am... I listen to my music on my headphones, do arm movements and sing. Nobody is there to see me and I can be as silly as I please - and it feels good. It also gives me a lot of time to "think"... which is good. I like workout DVDs too - but it's sometimes hard for me to find ones that I like... anything too hard makes me feel like I'm failing. I LOVE the Wii though... I do Wii Fit and Just Dance. I may get the Biggest Loser next... but for now, I'm pretty happy.

    I highly recommend getting a HRM - that way you can count just about anything you're doing as exercise... I'm always amazed at how many calories I burn cleaning.
  • joneswife09
    joneswife09 Posts: 207 Member
    Boy, I hear ya! I start to exercise and then a week or two later I stop! I have a couple of health issues to hinder my efforts too- arthritis in hands - (can't do yoga), weak ankles - major sprain two years ago and last year tore a tendon in my arch - that was after starting a walk/running program....
    It just gets frustrating, but now I'm thinking of trying jazzercise - anyone do this? One just opened about 10 minutes from my house - have always been curious about it....
    I have weights, dvds, treadmill at home, but somehow end up doing laundry or something like that.....:ohwell:

    My cousin is a jazzercise instructer in Barlett, TN I believe. She absolutely loves it. I think she has 4 or 5 classes a week or more. I want to try it so bad, but they don't have jazzercise around here.
  • Holton
    Holton Posts: 1,018
    When I started this journey back in January I knew that exercise would be my weak link, as I am in my 50's and just didn't want to do it (though I had enjoyed it when I was in my 20s), so I only commited to doing something 2x a week for 30 minutes. That started out to be just walking at a very very fast pace. At my work, they have a small workout room, so I visited one day and tried out the elliptical and found I liked it, so now do that at least once a week. Since the pounds starting dropping and I have started feeling better and the weather has improved, I find that I actually enjoy getting outside and walking several times a week, but never feel the pressure as long as I meet my 2x a week goal. So I would suggest you start slow with something simple and as you progress, build and add into that so that you can enjoy success along the way without feeling that you should be always be doing more. I think that comes with time.
  • MelissaLu
    MelissaLu Posts: 83
    Wow! All the responses are so incredibly helpful! Thanks for taking the time to respond!
    Well I started my journey to get in shape yesterday by doing some online work-out videos and I really liked it. I've set a goal to get at least one good work out 2-3 days a week. And what's funny (and a lot of you said this exact thing) that once I started I didn't really want to stop and I felt so amazing the rest of the day and ended up burning 300 some calories. I think having something to pay attention to really helps because of my short attention span lol.
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