How do i quit?

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  • 714rah714
    714rah714 Posts: 759 Member
    When I quit for the very last time, my first smoke free day was on a Saturday. This way, by the time Monday came rolling around, I had two days under my belt, and after two days, well you can't give up now. The next two weeks were torturous, a living hell, but some how, some way I manage to go smoke free and have been that way since 7.7.7. My lucky number. At the end I was smoking more than two packs a day and quitting not only changed my life, it saved my life. So my question to you is , what's your lucky number going to be?
  • jkdhoo
    jkdhoo Posts: 3 Member
    I smoked for 16 years and was up to about 3 packs a day, which basically means I always had a cigarette in my mouth. Even the thought of quitting smoking made me so nervous I only smoked more. I was only able to quit by using electronic cigarettes. I started with the high level nicotine liquid and am now at the lowest level of nicotine in the liquid. My lung capacity has increased tremendously, my daytime and especially nighttime wheezing has stopped, the morning lung pain and coughing fits are over, and now when I get out of breath it's because I'm overweight and not because I can't inhale. I can only work on one thing at a time :happy:

    If you're interested, www.cignot.com is where I got all my electronic cigarette equipment. Fast shipping and friendly service, but they aren't the only sellers out there. I use the Ego-C Type-B system with a Ego-C Upgrade Pass-Thru battery that lets me plug in to USB when at the computer, or unplug and take it with me when I leave. As expensive as cigarettes are now, I took a chance two years ago on something that costs the same amount as I would spend on cigarettes in a little over a week. Haven't looked back since and it was one of the best decisions of my life.
  • furniem
    furniem Posts: 145 Member
    I quit on my 40th birthday using the patch and it worked for me. What kept me going was the feelings of being able to breathe freely again and all the $$$$$ I was saving. In Canada it is over $10 a pack for cigarettes for the ones I liked so it added up quickly. I am turning 42 this Friday and have saved approximately $3500 from quitting smoking!

    If you need the visual, get a big jar and put the money you would have spent on cigarettes in the jar each week and let it add up. Seeing that will give you motivation. Then take that money at the end of each month and buy yourself something nice as a reward or continue to let it add up and go on a trip with your family!
  • sugarlips1980
    sugarlips1980 Posts: 361 Member
    I've been there - I've had so many unsuccessful attempts over the years and felt so weak that I could only last hours or days (some times I got to a few weeks or even 2 months, just to start up again). Last July I decided enough was enough. I threw away my nicotine aids, went cold turkey and went on a no smoking forum almost daily for a few months. I'm now 7 months down the line and can't believe how strong I feel now! I haven't had a real craving in a couple of months now. Believe me, I was a 17 yr smoker and a real nicotine-a-holic, so if I can do it, you can! You have to commit. Decide that NO EXCUSES are allowed anymore. If stress and work are a trigger for you, I would book a fortnight off work and go through withdrawal at home, trying to relax with walks, baths, massages etc. Then every day, post how you are feeling in a forum and educate yourself by reading (eg Why Quit website and recommend Allen Carr book) so you reprogrammed your brain to undo all those associations you've built up over the years. I too believed I needed smoking to deal with stress but it's an EXCUSE, junkie thinking.Whatever stress you're got going on will still be there whether you smoke or not. In fact now I see them as totally separate. If something's not going right I honestly think think god I'm not smoking too, that's one area of my life that is sorted. My quit is a strength in stressful times now! Commit to it and guard your quit with your life - you CAN do it! It's a temporary adjustment, the craves WON'T kill you, then you have to put in the self-help work, then it all gets better believe me. So worth it, best thing you will do for yourself!
  • 1aurane
    1aurane Posts: 73 Member
    I agree with a support group, I attended one, it supported & encouraged my desire to stop ...and the fact that I was no longer going to be a 'slave' to a 3" white stick ...liberated over 3 year's now ...
  • I quit smoking in October after 25 years. I also thought I was a smoker for life! I have four children and quit every pregnancy but I waited and waited because I knew the moment I went into labor I was firing up a cigarette!! I must have quit a total of 10+ times, so many I have lost track.
    I think what finally did it for me was that I made up my mind to quit. I no longer felt good after smoking, I felt like crap!! I spent WAY too much money on these things, hated the OMG moments when I knew I didn't have enough smokes to get me through the day. I didn't want to end up one of those old ladies who are all wrinkled up and sound like a raspy man. My kids hated my smoking and I want to be around to enjoy my grandkids. I spent every break and lunch at work running outside so I never really got a break did I?
    I could continue to go on about why I quit, now you have to find your own reasons. They can't be anyone elses. You must own this!
    Ok, this might sound crazy, but I think it is true. I smoked Marbs for years, then Winston and finally settled on Pall Malls for the last few years cuz they were cheaper. Got a coupon for American Spirits and liked the idea that these were just tobacco-not all the chemicals and stuff the tobacco companies add to keep us addicted! It took awhile to get used to them (a pack or so) but then I spent the extra $$ and ended up smoking less. Instead of 2 on break I would smoke 1. Then I would try to skip a break, I could do it!!
    I set a date to quit and haven't lit up since. I did arm myself with nicotine gum and all of the other things to shove in my mouth that people talk about, *see the ecig info at the bottom. This time I really didn't have the withdrawal symptoms like I had in the past and I think it all had to do with the fact that I switched to those all natural cigs first and flushed all of those chemicals out of my body while I was still smoking. Other people tell me that's stupid,but I only know how I felt. My husband quit as well (25+ years, 2 pack a day-er, hardcore smoker) and boy did he have a terrible time. He still goes through a box of 100 piece gum at full strength a week, but hey, he doesn't smoke! I don't need any gum or anything anymore and have lost the 10lbs I put on after I quit. You will gain weight, but tackle one problem and then deal with the other. My doc says I am still much healthier for quitting than putting on a little weight.
    *If you need to continue to have the puffing sensation for a bit, try some of the e-cigs on the market. They sell them pretty much everywhere now and the disposable ones are relatively cheap so you can try them out before you would invest in the "real" ones. I can't tell you enough how these helped in the first weeks of quitting! I still went out and just puffed on my ecig. Now I only use it on the drive to work and home because that is the main trigger for me and I am down to just very light nicotine in them. I asked my doc about these too, and he said it's the tar and the smoke from the cigs that are bad, so he was fine with me using these for awhile. I say do whatever you need to to get off the smokes. You will be SOOOOOO glad you did:happy:
  • cebreisch
    cebreisch Posts: 1,340 Member
    Wanting to quit and being willing to go through the challenge of doing it are two different things. I knew for forever that I needed to lose weight, but wasn't willing to go through the effort until I went to an event at my daughter's school and could hardly walk to the door for being so obese and out of shape. Once inside the door, I had to sit down to catch my breath. I still remember sitting there thinking "Something has got to change."

    You'll quit when you're ready...when you have your moment of "something has to change."
  • icmuse
    icmuse Posts: 263 Member
    Cigarettes are the hardest to quit.

    I smoked from 18-24, and I LOVED it! It was also the worst thing I could have been doing to my health so I decided to stop.

    The only way I could quit was to go cold turkey, I also stopped drinking alcohol all together, went vegan and worked out like a maniac - boxing!

    I was in the best shape of my life :-)

    The vegan thing and no wine thing lasted about 4 years, than I started slowly incorporating animal products and wine back into my life, BUT cigarettes no longer seemed appealing. Even to this day I cannot stand the smell of them!!! Now cigarette free almost 13 years.

    Good luck!!!!
  • Bumbeen
    Bumbeen Posts: 263 Member
    The Kitavans smoke daily with no incidence of throat or lung cancer.

    They also have much lower stress levels than we do and eat paleo out of necessity.

    This leads me to suspect smoking is not as bad as the standard american diet and lifestyle.
  • sugarlips1980
    sugarlips1980 Posts: 361 Member
    You will quit when you are ready. You are ready when you are willing to do whatever it takes to quit. You simply may not be ready yet.

    I know you mean well, but with smoking there's the danger of just expecting to wake up one day a non-smoker but it doesn't happen without effort to free yourself. And time doesn't half pass by when you're 'waiting' to feel ready. Here's a good little post I came across...


    She was 17 and thought it was cool
    She was 18 knew she was in control
    She was 19 living in the fast lane
    She was 20 and would quit before hitting 21
    She was 21 and thought new years eve was better
    She was 22 the new job was to much stress right now
    She was 23 and her fiancée smoked anyways
    She was 24 the baby would be fine, what’s a little nicotine
    She was 25 what else is there for a stay at home mom to do
    She was 26 job interviews are just to demanding
    She was 27 in this job you have to be social
    She was 28 her uncle just died but she would be alright
    She was 29 thinking this time Im ready and 30 is my number
    She was 30 maybe just one more year
    She was 31 who can handle a divorce all alone
    She was 32 working two jobs and life’s to hard
    She was 33 and the new boy friend doesn’t mind anyhow
    She was 34 wedding plans are all she could do
    She was 35 his kids are so wild , just need the break time to time
    She was 36 a quit would have to wait , to much on her plate
    She was 37 forty wont be to late
    She was 38 a daughter and two steps sons a mini van and career
    She was 39 one more year and so done
    She was 40 are you crazy and gain weight
    She was 41 and probably couldn’t anyways
    She was 42 and enjoy smoking
    She was 43 but I should try, just for a month
    She was 44 her little girl smoking, and wonders what went wrong
    She was 45 The Doctor said it wasn’t good
    She was never 46
  • TLEIGH33777
    TLEIGH33777 Posts: 93 Member
    Chantix did it for me.
  • rabt6f
    rabt6f Posts: 37 Member
    I quit for my child. My mother always smoked and always said she would quit. As a teen, I started smoking and completly denied it was because my mom smoked. As an adult, I've come to realize how many habits I picked up that my mother taught me, no matter if she meant to teach them to me or not. As an adult, I have now watched my mother, stiill smoking, become more obese because she looses her breathe if she tries to exercise or walk around a lot. My mom has only smoked 3 to 5 cigs a day for the last few years, but it's still affecting her greatly and she's only 52. When I got married and we decided to have a child, I knew I had to change a lot of habits in my life. The 1st was to stop smoking, the 2nd was to add in exercise and be active while meant limiting tv, and the 3rd challenge was to eat healthier. I quit because I want to be a good role model for my children, I want them to be proud of their healthy mother. It wasn't easy, it was horrible and I always had to have something to chew on during the quitting process. I used gum, celery, chewed on straws, pen caps (ya, I know, gross), I had to keep something in my mouth at all times. Now I realize how gross smoking smells and it makes me sick to see so many people still smoking. My mother, at 52, now has to ask my 2 year old to "slow down" instead of running with her to have fun. It's sad to see my mom not being able to keep up with my daughter because of smoking for so many years. I don't want to be that person.
  • lodiloohoo64
    lodiloohoo64 Posts: 60 Member
    My thoughts for you are hard but simple. There are several factors that are at play here. You are here to get healthier. Stress is a health robber as is smoking. While I understand that it is very hard to break this addiction, like weight loss, you have to be mentally ready. You have to just wake up one morning and say, "I don't want this in my life any more". Then, you have to be strong and make a plan. I am a nurse and have pushed pills all my life. I am a hypocrit as I hate pills and think they are for the most part, for the weak and thoughtless.

    So let's say you make a plan. Let's say you decide that $4 a pack is alot and that you start counting those little white sticks and take away one from the pile each day until you are down to just a couple treats each day. All the while, let's say, you put the money saved every day into a jar.....in a remote secret place that only you know about. Then with every 10 pound loss you go to....let's say Kohls and buy something new that maks you feel attractive and smart, smart for not smoking so much.

    Part of that plan has to be changes in where you hang out, who you hang out with and shifting that to something more productive then taking 15 smoke breaks every hour. Heck, you may even get promoted for your added productivity. Also just smoke those two little things in a designated place. Clean everything else. When the day comes that you no longer need that two, you will...if you have had a two pack a day habbit, be $120.00 richer at the end of the month.

    See, to me, it is about wasting money and killing myself. But to you, well that may be all together different. You have to sit down, think and decide why it is important to you to quit and then make a plan. Anything you do in your day that does not end with seeing your goal met, you have to ax, and I do mean ax. You will have haters and people who will not support you because secretly they want to quit too and just don't want to make the effort to change. Ignore them and make your life count.

    At the end of the day, addictions are just our way of escape, whether it is food or drugs or smokes. The only way out is to make a plan and to stick with it. It helps so much to pray and ask for divine help. I heard a sermon once. It was titled The Dog or the Dove? I like to think of that sermon as clean living or trash living. The point was this. The one you feed most, is the strongest. Feed you goals for clean and healthy living or not. The choice is yours alone as are the yeilds of each.

    Bless you and hope you find the courage and the strength to change for your health and for your life.
  • You should try the e-cigs i used one for about a month then just stopped havent had a cig in 29 days now and dont even notice! think they helped me off the cigs alot id deffo recommend them! there called nicolites or even 5colours GOODLUCK!
  • rhall9058
    rhall9058 Posts: 270 Member
    I took myself out of my home and work environment for 9 days I stayed with a non smoking friend and went cold turkey
    it worked for me

    I love this
    I have thought of this many times
    I think when my son goes away to camp this year
    I am taking off in my camper to the wilderness
    just me and my dog
    for a few days
    away from all the stressors

    I'm not so sure this would work as you will be by yourself with all your own boredom and rage. Why it works when you are with the non-smokers is because you fall back on them to "keep you mind busy" without the the smoking. While I am an advocate of the Chantix, I perfectly understand it's not for everybody. But what you can pull from out of the Chantix program is all of the online tools, tips, tricks they give you which really helped me as part of the overall program. Most of that revolved around, keeping your mind busy elsewhere with non-smoking friends and acquaintances. Good Luck!
  • Richie2shoes
    Richie2shoes Posts: 411 Member
    My mother's cancer came back and I promised to quit with her. I quit, she didn't.
  • rustie45
    rustie45 Posts: 4 Member
    When I could no longer climb a flight of stairs without struggling for air, I got really scared. it was expensive, but I went on the patch and the gum at the same time. The directions said not to do this but it worked for me. I was smoking 2-3 packs of cigarettes every day and pots of coffee. Today, 15 years later I am completely smoke free and 1 cup of coffee a day. It was hard but I can climb a flight of stairs and went from not breathing to riding a bike. Good luck.
  • lenniebus
    lenniebus Posts: 321 Member
    I quit smoking a year ago after 22 years of smoking. Here's what worked for me. You have to REALLY want to quit...do your research about addiction, the harmful effects of nicotine. My big motivation was that both my parents died from lung cancer--I loved them, and wanted to honor them. Also, I watched two very special people die, and I got mad to be honest. It was not an easy death. I hated that cigarettes contributed to it. Next, you have to believe you can stop. I used nicotine gum for 2 weeks to help me overcome the belief that I wasn't strong enough. After two weeks, I felt I could go it alone :). When stress hit, I reminded myself that cigarettes wouldn't help, tried to deal with it, and took lots of deep breaths. I also tried to be nice to myself in other ways--eating well, exercising...just relaxing when I could. Most important for me was I learned about why I was craving cigarettes--the drugs in cigarettes make you crave them...it's not real, nor is the enjoyment you receive from cigarettes real. It's you brain, which has been chemically changed by the cigarettes, craving more. The "enjoyment" is feeding the addiction. Yes, I enjoyed a lot of things associated with smoking--but I found I also enjoyed them (even a little more) without the cigarette in hand. It's really a great feeling to not be chained to a small white stick...plus you save TONS of money!!!
  • Dezmodus
    Dezmodus Posts: 68 Member
    I had a kid (well, my wife had her, but i helped ;) ) and that was that. I gave it up the night i found out she was pregnant. I grew up in a house full of smoke and I didn't want that to be her life. I wanted to be able to run around and play with my kid. I wanted to be able to sing songs and carry her up the stairs when she fell asleep in the car and stand up to clap for her at her graduation and I couldn't see myself doing those things if i still smoked.

    all that sentimentality aside, i was a raging jerkbag for about 2 months and I feel terrible about that to this day, but i haven't had a cigarette in over 4 years and I finally got rid of the weight i gained when i quit, so i'm feeling pretty good. :)

    my advice, drink lots of water and go for walks. Avoid eating too much (that was the worst for me, the post-feast cig was my fave) and just keep reminding yourself that there are more important things in the world.
  • Do it for your health man! Replace the bad habit with a good one. Just do it, and that is that.
  • bufger
    bufger Posts: 763 Member
    I was also a smoker that actually enjoyed it. I enjoyed every single cigarette and had no intention of quitting.

    Then my wife got pregnant with our first child and I decided I didnt want to be a smoking dad. I didnt want my babies to inhale my smoke and be used to seeing an adult smoking increasing the chances that they'll smoke when they're older.

    I remember my last cigarette. 15th November 2010 at around 6pm in my back yard. 2 days before my son was born :)
  • rae_rae330
    rae_rae330 Posts: 39 Member
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