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    edited January 11 in Chit-Chat
    What do you look for most in a person? (friends or lovers, just people in general)

    I mostly look for the ability to smile even when the going gets tough. People that ***** and moan over spilled milk irk me.

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    • Posts: 2,205 Member
      A similar sense of humor and similar tastes. If we can't laugh together then whats the point?
    • Posts: 49
      wisdom, honesty, and good humour
    • Posts: 336 Member
      Someone who is witty with a good sense of humor. Someone who laughs and loves life.
    • Posts: 69 Member
      Puts out on the first date...will let me borrow money for action figures.
    • Posts: 708 Member
      A heart beat...not mandatory but preferred
    • Posts: 330 Member
      Sense of humor is important and the ability to talk and carry a conversation comes in a close 2nd.
    • Posts: 286 Member
      Somebody who gets me, and can make me laugh. :)
    • Posts: 286 Member
      A heart beat...not mandatory but preferred

      lol
    • Posts: 621 Member
      HONESTY always luckily Im married and at the end of the day if you are lying about how you are feeling you are just screwing yourself in the end. After 2 children 19 months apart moving and a whole lot of other things you see whats important.
    • Posts: 82 Member
      Honesty, the ability to laugh at their mistakes, good sense of humor, and has priorities.
    • Posts: 351
      An Equal
    • Posts: 627 Member
      bulge in the pants.

      kiddingggggg, sort of ;)

      well, I definitely have a thing for someone who can constantly make me laugh
    • Posts: 1,387 Member
      bulge in the pants.

      kiddingggggg, sort of ;)

      well, I definitely have a thing for someone who can constantly make me laugh

      I have a very large clown in my pants. How YOU doin???
    • Posts: 1,704 Member
      Humor, personality, laid-back attitude, spontaneity is nice as well but I also respect a person that makes plans, as long as they're not overkill with it.

      Dreams - Gotta Have Them. I don't want to date or hang out with someone that has ambitions of being a lump/loser for the rest of their life.

      Honesty - I'm honest, so I want someone else who will be too. Honesty cuts a lot of time-wasting BS and confusion out of the mix and is mostly beneficial, even when it hurts a little.

      Sharing - Do it. I want to hear it, it's a part of you, and I wouldn't be listening if I didn't care about you.

      Intelligence - If you can't hold a moderate to fairly in-depth conversation, you will not hold my interest or my mind for very long. Hold my mind and you Hold Me. :)

      Loyalty is big with me as well, in friends and in lovers.

      Have fun. With Me! I like it too! :D

      Attractiveness/Looks are subjective, if a person is awesome in all those other traits, they become extremely physically attractive to me regardless of their mainstream looks.
    • Posts: 627 Member
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      I have a very large clown in my pants. How YOU doin???

      that was brilliant. too bad i am terrified of clowns!
    • Posts: 1,387 Member
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      that was brilliant. too bad i am terrified of clowns!

      Kicks rocks....
    • Posts: 1,651 Member
      A heart beat...not mandatory but preferred

      How YOU doin?
    • Posts: 1,479 Member
      Intelligent, funny and doesn't take things too seriously. We can always talk about something.
    • Posts: 708 Member
      Humor, personality, laid-back attitude, spontaneity is nice as well but I also respect a person that makes plans, as long as they're not overkill with it.

      Dreams - Gotta Have Them. I don't want to date or hang out with someone that has ambitions of being a lump/loser for the rest of their life.

      Honesty - I'm honest, so I want someone else who will be too. Honesty cuts a lot of time-wasting BS and confusion out of the mix and is mostly beneficial, even when it hurts a little.

      Sharing - Do it. I want to hear it, it's a part of you, and I wouldn't be listening if I didn't care about you.

      Intelligence - If you can't hold a moderate to fairly in-depth conversation, you will not hold my interest or my mind for very long. Hold my mind and you Hold Me. :)

      Loyalty is big with me as well, in friends and in lovers.

      Have fun. With Me! I like it too! :D

      Attractiveness/Looks are subjective, if a person is awesome in all those other traits, they become extremely physically attractive to me regardless of their mainstream looks.

      So you're still trying to figure it out?
    • Posts: 1,392 Member
      someone who's nice and respectful :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 788 Member
      Men - Kindness
      Friends - Humor
    • Posts: 1,704 Member
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      So you're still trying to figure it out?

      Nah, got it pretty much down pat :D;)
    • Posts: 2,244 Member
      In friends I like people who are loyal, with a similar twisted sense of humor, fun and outgoing (shy people don't tend to do well around me LOL).

      In a mate/lover, pretty much the same as I look for in friends. I have a thing for dominant men, my head tends to be turned by guys who are confident and well spoken.
    • Posts: 143 Member
      I love this question...if they are just passing through, I just try to be polite. If they are staying for a time, or if I am wanting them to, then humbleness, curiousity, honesty, integrity, and commonality, oh, and intelligence (or at least a willingness to learn..back to the humbleness and curiosity) :happy:
    • Posts: 4,349 Member
      In friends I like people who are loyal, with a similar twisted sense of humor, fun and outgoing (shy people don't tend to do well around me LOL).

      In a mate/lover, pretty much the same as I look for in friends. I have a thing for dominant men, my head tends to be turned by guys who are confident and well spoken.
      Were you reading my mind? :)
    • Posts: 60 Member
      someone who makes me smile&laugh, and someone who is happy to be given that back
      =)
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      Were you reading my mind? :)

      It's possible, I got skillz :)
    • Posts: 80
      someone who does not run away in times of adversity and a cute smile will do :smile:
    • Posts: 325
      A heart beat...not mandatory but preferred
      Yes! I was thinking along the lines of, has body and is able to speak the same language.
    • Posts: 22,834 Member
      Heartbeat is a good start. Add in a little breathing and I'm on the board.
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