Getting really discouraged...the scale just won't budge

Just curious, have you done your tdee calculation? I know loosing the last 10-15lbs is the hardest but they say take your tdee - 10percent for those last few lbs. I know right now I'm doing my tdee -20 and loosing 1-2 lbs a week. Also take measurements, sometimes when we are not loosing scale lbs we are loosing inches. Just don't give up. I hope you feel better soon.

Don't give up! You can do it, get yourself better first though. You'll only be more discouraged if you are hard on yourself while you're sick.
One thing I noticed in your diary is your low (on most days), water. Try drinking a minimum of 8-9 glasses a day.
You might consider looking at your macros. Are your macro (protein, carb, fat) percentages where they should be? Is that something you are aiming for daily or is it just calorie count?
Yes calorie in vs calorie out is key to losing weight, but the types of calories can make a big difference. Try cutting back on sugar intake (not just table sugar, but also those found in white foods like white bread, white rice, etc). That stalls some people.
Seek put the advice of others here on MFP who are in the same boat, either looking to lose the same amount of weight, same height people and same age.
I just turned 40 (how did that happen?!?) and it does get harder, but you can do it!

My 2 cents? If I ate pancakes, biscuits, & hot pockets I'd GAIN weight. Whether I was within the calorie restriction or not! I don't see any real veggies in there or whole grains when I just did a quick check. I'd go old school. Cut out processed foods as they contain chemicals, salts, sugars, and oils that are above and beyond what is healthy to eat. The current medical recommendation for healthy diet relating to sodium levels is 1500mg/day. With processed foods it is easy to get double that. Sugar also comes in many names to be hidden in the ingredient list. Both salt and sugar hold water in your body. If I even eat bread my weight will go up a pound overnight! Fruits, veggies, and cooked dried beans are the way to go. healthy fats are found in raw unsalted nuts and avocados. Eating raw veggies helps lose weight faster than anything and you can really have as much as you want for a relatively low calorie hit. Also read this great post on weighing your food versus measuring or eyeballing: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/766769-weighing-vs-measuring-food Just my take! Good luck to you!

Edit: I looked at your diary again and checked out your sodium intake which was like 3200+ and a fiber intake of 6gms one day. Eating 35gms of fiber is the current medical recommendation for a healthy colon. Eating fiber helps decrease your colon cancer risk and keeps you full, and makes you very happy in the bathroom! = D I remember one of the very first recommendations given to me was to make sure that every grain product I ate was a whole grain. Learn to read labels and consider the benefits/risks to your health as you do. Changing your diet now will make your life easier later on. It's never too late to increase your health with healthy eating! I did see 1 cup of carrots the other day and half a cup of Uncle Ben's Brown rice. The sugar in whole fruit is a component of a real fruit and is healthy rather than pancake syrup or sugar in your coffee. It doesn't count as "bad for you" as those sugars do. You can do much better in the veggie department. Start thinking in terms of one big salad either at lunch or dinner and put EVERYTHING you can think of in it except dressing. OR really water down your dressing to start. Cubed mangoes make a great dressing because they are so juicy and sweet!

Edit again! Just wanted to let you know that I started my adventure at 205 pounds when I was 49. I've had hypothyroid disease since I was 19. My only exercise for the most part is walking for 30 minutes twice a day and I spend my day behind a desk. If i can do it you can do it. My success I found was related to what I would give up. I couldn't eat my old way even in smaller portions and expect to get to 135. I decided there was more to life than donuts and pizza and darned if there isn't! You can do it!

Don't give up. Just keep trying!

You're in a tough spot, being so, ahem, short. :-) But you can do this.

If it were me?

I'd start by knowing my TDEE and BMR
And then eating TDEE minus 15-20%

I'd also mix it up a bit. You eat an awful lot of heavily processed foods.
See what happens if you eat more whole grains
More protein
More fruits and leafy green vegetables
More fiber.
If I ate your diary, I wouldn't poop. Ever (tmi)
I have to eat whole wheat versus white bread, and brown rice versus white rice.
Maybe your body is telling you something too? You never know. All you know is what you're doing now isn't working.

You can do this!

Based on the stats you have given your BMR is around 1356 and your TDEE is around 1865 http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/ suggests you eat 1678 to lose 1/2lb per week, maybe consider eating more :flowerforyou:

I've been stuck with no wt loss for ~4 months now. I am NOT happy, it has been recommended I increase my daily goal a bit and I've put myself back on a regular meal schedule (I had been working the craziest hours so not eating at regular meal times) And stepped back my carbs a bit. (I can't do "low carb" my hair falls out, but I can have tuna salad without bread)

So, I don't have an answer for you, but I understand the frustration, just don't give up!

I wouldn't worry so much about losing weight and instead use measurement to track progress and work on being fit. When you don't have much to lose already, it's much more advantageous ti turn those extra pounds of fat into muscle instead.