my husband is tormenting me!

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  • GingerSnark
    GingerSnark Posts: 153
    He thinks it's funny. Im sure he is joking around, but I don't find it funny.

    He will take some ice cream, and just gobble it all up in front of me, and go on about how yummy it was.

    I have told him before that I don't find it funny. I have asked him to stop but he just keeps doing it thinking that it is funny.

    It is driving me nuts!!!

    I don't buy ice cream or any of that stuff when I go to the store.... but he will go out and get some. I don't even want that in my house!

    Sorry needed to vent!

    grr!

    Wow, no offense but he's being an *kitten*. Thank god my fiance is totally supportive of what I'm doing. If he ever pulled something like that on me I'd slap the spoon out of his mouth literally. Then empty ever once of junk food he brought into the house into the garbage disposal. Husband or not, you don't mess with me like that or anyone for that matter.
  • SarahAlt
    SarahAlt Posts: 44
    Keep your chin up, lil girl! You've been doing fantastic. Just remember that what you're working for is worth so much more than a bite of ice cream or a sip of soda. And the next time he taunts you with something you love, just walk away and don't say a word. Doing that shouldn't start a fight but it will show him you're stronger than he thinks you are. Eventually he'll get bored and give up.

    I'm sorry he's not being supportive. I know how that can feel. Luckily my husband and I are working together because we both had 30 lbs to lose. Doing it together has made it a lot easier.

    Maybe you could ask him if he'd like to lose weight with you?
  • miriambeal
    miriambeal Posts: 13
    Darling! My (ex) husband did that to me for 5 years... do not put up with it! stand your ground tell him why you are doing this and if he needs to pig out he can do it in another place!
  • rockinright
    rockinright Posts: 241
    oh it pisses me off when my boyfriend makes fun of the way I eat. I finally got mad enough one day cause he was making fun of me while I was working out. I said d$mmit travis if you make fun of me one more time I will get skinny and hot and then I'm gonna bleepin leave your bleep.......he hasn't done it since, and when his friends are over they go on the back porch until I'm done. It makes a person mad when you're so serious about something and you get made fun of. I really think it took me yelling at him to realize this was serious to me. He has been really supportive since then..hah

    As a guy, a few points...it can be rather annoying/discouraging to be with someone who won't eat what you do, and takes time away from you to work out, etc...it also can be annoying to be the one working out and eating right while nobody else is. Honestly, I think the reason my wife and I have been successful so far is that we're both doing this together...and are there to encourage each other, and tell one another "no, let's eat this instead" when one of us has an idea for a "bad" dinner that we shouldn't have and pull one another back in line.

    MUCH easier to change your lifestyle and lose weight when your bf/gf/spouse is either doing it themselves, or at least is willing to eat the same things as you (to avoid cooking two seperate meals) or respect what you're doing and not eat junk around you.
  • antiadipose
    antiadipose Posts: 447
    This may sound strange coming from a guy but...

    When it's just the 2 of you... you know, maybe at night or something... do something, anything that you know drives him nuts (in THAT way :devil: ) like wear something he really likes or less :wink: then don't let him do anything at all. Do that a few times after he does the ice cream thing and each time you tell him no-no remind him that's how him doing what he does makes you feel.

    I PROMISE it will stop pretty quickly. :laugh:


    thats our ultimate weapon for EVERYTHING hahahah
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