Help! How do u say no to sweets?

Hi, I`m writting `cause I started MFP a month ago and after checking everything I eat I noticed I eat a lot of sugar! How do I do to stop doing that?

It`s horrible because I feel like an urge to eat and, if I do so, then I feel guilty and ashamed :(

Every comment is welcome!

Thanks!
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  • Codefox
    Codefox Posts: 308 Member
    I have an iron will ;)
  • tricksee
    tricksee Posts: 835 Member
    Not buying it means your arent eating it.

    next time you go shopping.... go AROUND the sweets aisle!!!

    BOOM!
  • sallydurkin
    sallydurkin Posts: 211 Member
    Make a sign and hang it on your fridge or cupboard give it look before stuffing your mouth. I have one on my fridge it say "No Refined Foods, No Processed Foods, NO EXCUSES!" That fits my goals, also make business card size keep it in your pocket or purse so before you grab money to pay you see it.
  • Snitch1
    Snitch1 Posts: 201 Member
    Moderation is the key. Realize you can't go cold turkey off of sugar or caffiene. Eat a little piece of dark chocolate every day. Or, just let ONE Hersheys kiss melt in your mouth. you would be surprised how long that takes, and how good it tastes.
    (Damn typos..damn computer..damn fingers..)

    Also, look at the ingredients before you by boxed/processed foods.
    Like Mc D's oatmeal is supposed to be healthy-it has something like 26T of SUGAR. Yeah, that is why it tastes so damn good!
    I make my own at home- I packet sugar-free maple oatmeal, 1/3 c Walnuts, 1/2 med apple. Yummy! Only natural fructose from the apple.

    Hope that helped..
    Off to bed now kiddo's!!
    Snitch
  • Mokey41
    Mokey41 Posts: 5,769 Member
    Just say no. Don't buy it, don't look at it. Once you kick the habit it's much easier and the cravings will go away.
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
    Hi, I`m writting `cause I started MFP a month ago and after checking everything I eat I noticed I eat a lot of sugar! How do I do to stop doing that?

    It`s horrible because I feel like an urge to eat and, if I do so, then I feel guilty and ashamed :(

    Every comment is welcome!

    Thanks!

    It's easy, so long as you aren't depriving yourself. I eat sugar every day. So on days when I can't fit in a treat, I just save it for another day. If I thought I had to give up sugar for good, I would have a heart attack.
  • I was informed by a nutritionnist that carving sweets often means you are lacking some protein... if you have protein, you surprisingly won't crave as much sugar. From personal experience, having a higher protein diet won't make me crave the sweets... I also have a chocolate flavored protein shake that's flavored & sweetened with stevia.
  • Thjs is useful as just saying no doesnt work in the long term, just be aware how much sugar you are having, use sweetner when possible and just reduce the amount.
    Moderation is the key. Realize you can't go cold turkey off of sugar or caffiene. Eat a little piece of dark chocolate every day. Or, just let ONE Hersheys kiss melt in your mouth. you would be surprised how long that takes, and how good it tastes.
    (Damn typos..damn computer..damn fingers..)

    Also, look at the ingredients before you by boxed/processed foods.
    Like Mc D's oatmeal is supposed to be healthy-it has something like 26T of SUGAR. Yeah, that is why it tastes so damn good!
    I make my own at home- I packet sugar-free maple oatmeal, 1/3 c Walnuts, 1/2 med apple. Yummy! Only natural fructose from the apple.

    Hope that helped..
    Off to bed now kiddo's!!
    Snitch
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    Not buying it means your arent eating it.

    next time you go shopping.... go AROUND the sweets aisle!!!

    BOOM!

    Works for me.
  • The taste of sugar makes you crave more, and sweeteners are sweet. JUST LIKE THE DREADED SUGAR. Try rewarding yourself a small amount each day, but only after a huge workout.
  • jeme3
    jeme3 Posts: 355 Member
    I am at a point now where I can eat a little something sweet and stop, but when I first started here, it was much easier to say no thank you than to have just a little.

    One of the things i did was make a personal rule that I don't eat anything at work that I didn't bring (people are always bringing sweets to share). And I bring plenty of tasty stuff I like to nibble on.

    Also, think about- really think about- why you want to eat it. I have discovered that I frequently want to eat something sweet when I'm feeling tired or low energy.

    If I'm at work and I'm feeling that way, a healthy snack (fruit, nuts, whole grain crackers, etc) and lots of water, or a cup of tea usually helps.

    If I'm at home, if I am really tired, I'll go take a short nap, but the biggest thing that got me through the roughest time is I would just go for a walk when the cravings got bad. Takes care of the cravings, and gives me a burst of energy.

    Spreading my calories throughout the day as evenly as possible makes a huge difference, too. Try to eat some protein, some carbs, and some fats at every meal, and don't go more than about three hours without eating something.

    Plan ahead for the day as much as possible.

    For me, artificial sweeteners do not satisfy the sweet cravings, taste terrible, and make me feel yucky, so I avoid them.

    The first couple of weeks are hard. Then you realize it's gotten much easier. Then you see the weight dropping, and it's all worth it.
  • RobynLB
    RobynLB Posts: 617 Member
    The only way I can do it is to just not have it around me.
  • bongochick45
    bongochick45 Posts: 130 Member
    Everything in moderation. Allow yourself one small sweet a day or one cheat meal a week. If you're like me and you live with people with a sweet tooth ask them to keep their stuff in their rooms and away from you. Also I've found it helpful to put my sweets up really high so I need a ladder to get to them. That way I really have to think about it and decide if it's worth the effort to go get them or will the banana on the counter do instead. 9 times outta 10 the banana wins. And lastly make sure you keep lot's of yummy fruits in your house. The sweet fruit helps curb that need for processed refined junk. Hope this helps.
  • tigersword
    tigersword Posts: 8,059 Member
    I was informed by a nutritionnist that carving sweets often means you are lacking some protein... if you have protein, you surprisingly won't crave as much sugar. From personal experience, having a higher protein diet won't make me crave the sweets... I also have a chocolate flavored protein shake that's flavored & sweetened with stevia.
    No, it doesn't mean you are lacking protein, the human body can convert protein into glucose. Sugar is your body's main energy source (your brain alone uses roughly 150 grams of glucose a day) which is why you crave it. When you increase protein, your body can convert the excess into the glucose it needs.
  • wildflower0517
    wildflower0517 Posts: 2 Member
    Don't say NO!!! Moderation is the key.. I, too, love my sweets..... I don't say no completely I just have less... Alot of it comes from self discipline.... And I've noticed too that once you really start eating healthy, clean food that you really don't want as much sweets. One thing that has helped me greatly in that department is Shakeology.. It tastes like a sweet treat so I don't feel like I'm depriving myself of anything..
    You could be taking in too much refined sugar in the form of processed food too which is making you want more and more....
  • Skinny Cow Heavenly Crisp Peanut Butter bars. I keep box in freezer and allow myself one per day, if craving sweets/chocolate. (110 calories).
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    its all about willpower, say no no no no
  • erg2013
    erg2013 Posts: 84 Member
    I really do not have a sweet tooth anymore. Here is how I did it.

    A few years ago, I started putting on weight for the first time. I was drinking probably 5 cans of soda a day. And lots of sugary snacks. I wanted to give up sodas completely.

    So, I decided to go cold turkey. Not just giving up soda but no sugar at all - not even in condiments, etc. I only ate the natural sugars found in whole fruits.

    After two weeks, I decided to treat myself to some Domino's pizza. I almost spit it out because all I could taste was the sugar in the sauce. WOW, that was an eye opener. Couldn't drink my beloved coke either - tasted like syrup. So, I no longer craved it.

    **What I learned is that my taste buds got kind of numb because of all the sugar I was consuming.

    I still limit my sugar, not as militant as before, but when I do splurge, I totally enjoy it. If you have a day with no added sugars and you bite into a salty carmel... well, that is heaven. You can really taste it, enjoy it.

    I hope that makes sense!
  • bacitracin
    bacitracin Posts: 921 Member
    I say "NO!"
  • alpine1994
    alpine1994 Posts: 1,915 Member
    I found it easier (and more effective) to ween myself off of it instead of going cold turkey. I had a SEVERE donut problem! Like I would get 2 donuts every morning. I started by just getting 1 donut, then a donut every other day, then just on Fridays, etc. I haven't had a donut in at least a few months now but I know that if I really want one, I will get one. There's no point in depriving yourself completely because then it will be all you can think about. Just try to slowly adjust.
  • footiechick82
    footiechick82 Posts: 1,203 Member
    I'm not sure what you're background is, but for me, lent is coming and I loooooooove to bake. My bf loves my cupcakes and cookies and I've been baking every weekend since Christmas...it's not good! LOL... if you see my diary on Sundays, always sweets day, so bad!

    Anyway, for lent this year, I'm giving up sweets/sugar (I say sweets because there is sugar in wine, and I'm NOT giving up wine!) I started yesterday, although, lent technically starts tomorrow. I have oatmeal chocolate chip cookies at my desk at work and I was craving them like crazy yesterday and didn't have any - they're homemade, 'healthy' (whole wheat flour and no butter sub with applesauce) BUT I told myself "NO!" So, I had an apple, orange, grapefruit and blackberries with my yogurt yesterday. My protein shakes are chocolate and vanilla (I bought both) and they're sweet, so that helps A LOT! I have one in the am when I wake up and one post workout (right before lunch).

    At home, if I don't see it, I don't crave it. So I stay the heck away from my roommates junk and make sure they 'hide' it or put it away and keep it out of sight so it's out of mind. It also helps that my bf and I have agreed to no more baking after this past Sunday so the sweets won't be coming into the house because of us.

    If you can do this for 40 days and 40 nights, you will have the willpower to say no once it's over - so I keep telling myself! haha

    Good luck :)
  • I don't! I just choose a sugar-free alternative to whatever I'm craving...chocolate? Sugar-free chocolate pudding, OR, even better, a Weight Watchers Giant cookie-covered chocolate ice cream bar - at just 130 calories, it's my favorite after-dinner dessert! Must be working - I've lost 18 lbs so far...and counting! ;-) Best of luck to ya - and don't sell yourself so short. You CAN do this, with a little ingenuity and a lot of willpower!!

    P.S. - I tested my own willpower recently, by going to Golden Corral buffet for lunch...and you know what? I did GREAT! I was so proud of myself for making healthier choices, and by-passing the foods that I normally would make a beeline for. You can do the same - just don't set yourself up for failure by thinking you can't dine out or have dessert, because if you deprive yourself, you're destined to give up. Take care, and God bless!! :-)

    -April

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  • Energizer06
    Energizer06 Posts: 311 Member
    Closest thing to appease the sweet tooth ...eat a piece of fruit (apple) at least the fructose high last about 15 min. Then do something to take your mind off it.
  • southern_star
    southern_star Posts: 89 Member
    I closely watch my sugar intake and am constantly looking at the labels of products that I buy. I plan out my meals in advance and if it is going to be over 5g sugar total, I won't have it unless it is a special day or something. I also eat on a regular basis now of about every 2-3 hours and have found that I don't have the cravings that I used to have. Another thing that helps is I have a small piece of dark chocolate at night or some fruit (lower sugar fruits like raspberries) I can't stand the 85% dark but can tolerate the 76% AND i treat my fruit as candy and save it as that nightly treat if I do have it. Sometimes I fail and will have it at breakfast but not often.

    And this fat girl loved donuts and cupcakes! I used to excuse of buying it for my employees but now they don't get it either lol.
  • It's quite easy. You press your tongue to the front of the roof of your mouth and then form an O with your lips. It sounds strange but it's a lot like the word 'snow' without the 's'.
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    Dang, I'm eating a cookie while replying to this. I've cut back from multiple sweets a day (cookies, ice cream, candy bar) to just a couple things a week. If I have the calories leftover, I'll have a fudgebar, one large cookie, etc. I still have sweets, just less of them. :)
  • freckledrats
    freckledrats Posts: 251 Member
    Trick #1: Replace the processed, refined sugar treats with lower calorie, healthier treats like apple slices, frozen grapes, pineapple, etc.

    Trick #2: If you have the calories to spare, don't give in to the urge still. You can fill those calories with a treat that's still way better for you and tastes like sin. Peanut butter and semi-sweet chocolate chips? Hell yes. Peanut butter between banana slices, that sort of thing.

    Trick #3: Once a month or something, go ahead and have a small pack of skittles or M&Ms or whatever crap you want to stay away from. Not only will this help curb cravings (because knowing you can't EVER have something is just the recipe for wanting it all the time), you might (maybe) find that after replacing it with healthier stuff most of the time that you just don't appreciate the taste as much as you used to, who knows.

    Trick #4: Think of yourself. You want that candy, but the satisfaction will last, what.... 5 minutes? How will you feel when the package is gone and the flavor has passed from your mouth? Sad? Regretful? Stuck in one place? Back at Square One? That candy isn't doing anything for you. Healthy food can be delicious and totally works to your body's benefit.

    Trick #5: In your weakest moments, the stuff above probably doesn't work. So, a temporary measure is to shove it out of your mind. You're in the store, looking for something good for you and you pass the candy aisle. Pull up a blind spot. You didn't see that candy aisle. It's not even there. This store doesn't have candy, you were mistaken, go get some bananas.

    Trick #6: Don't give up too much at once. If you've got a sweet tooth problem and that's your priority, don't quit diet soda or smoking at exactly the same time. So much stress, and most people don't have the kind of iron mind to deal with that. One thing at a time.
  • shellma00
    shellma00 Posts: 1,684 Member
    Out of Sight, Out of Mind...I also have sugar free Dairy Queen Fudge Bars that are only 50 calories for when I get a sweet tooth. Skinny Cow and WW also have some really good, low cal, low sugar sweet treats.
  • It is a constant struggle to say no to sweets, and while I had a medical necessity to give them up it is still very difficult to see my favorite foods pass by. Breads, donuts, cheesecakes and the like, it's so difficult to give them up. BUT, to that I will say that being a year off white breads, added sugar, sweeteners, and starchy vegetables has made my body feel so much better and I've learned to get energy from other sources besides sugar. It is especially difficult when other household members continue to eat these delicious treats. Encouraging them to make healthier habits is a great idea.

    I have found that if you cut them out, eventually you will find you don't taste foods the same, and foods will taste sweeter without so much sugar. I have also found that all natural stevia has provided a sweet fix when baking and you don't have to use as much of it as you have to use sugar.

    Keep an eye on the ingredients list and the sugar contents, because those high numbers will blow you away. Also when you're looking at those, keep in mind that many agree that women should have no more than 35g of added sugar a day...many of our favorite foods have double that! That alone is enough to make me put it down. And sweeteners sit around that lovely tire women tend to get on the hips...imagine that gone. I hope this helps!
  • fstender
    fstender Posts: 165 Member
    Have you tried the sugar free jello pudding...it is so yummy and will take away your need for chocolate...I sometimes top it with some semi chocolate chips. Also sugar free jello is great substitute as well....

    oh and a banana with peanut butter hits the spots for me too!