What if I lost weight and ended up...

MyChocolateDiet
MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
looking like this? You think I'd have any friends left?

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  • lisa4you143
    lisa4you143 Posts: 49 Member
    Hahah I think they would all try to hide their husbands/boyfriends! lol jk... Dang I wish I could just snap my fingers and be that fit! The one thing that sucks about trying to be fit is I feel like it consumes your life and it's all you think about. When you go out for drinks or dinner it's always like "how many calories is in this" "did I workout enough to eat this?" "I probably shouldn't order that." I think that's the hardest part is trying to find that balance and getting to a point where it's not always on the mind. Sorry kind of got side tracked there... lol
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Hahah I think they would all try to hide their husbands/boyfriends! lol jk... Dang I wish I could just snap my fingers and be that fit! The one thing that sucks about trying to be fit is I feel like it consumes your life and it's all you think about. When you go out for drinks or dinner it's always like "how many calories is in this" "did I workout enough to eat this?" "I probably shouldn't order that." I think that's the hardest part is trying to find that balance and getting to a point where it's not always on the mind. Sorry kind of got side tracked there... lol

    no perfect topic because i am having to like notice and take it back a little to avoid annoying my naturally slender in shape hubby.

    he won't say he's annoyed but i notice "awkward" moments sometimes so yeah that's a thing to notice. getting OCD about it.
  • gerard54
    gerard54 Posts: 1,107 Member
    I'd be ur friend eeaaahhh...
  • Superchas
    Superchas Posts: 129 Member
    The only people who you may lose on the journey are some of your fat friends who see you as a source of provision of cake and biscuits etc.
    There is a danger that you will become a diet bore and p off most people but I doubt it.
    Still the same you whether 200 or 130 lbs but expect a lot more attention.
    If you look like this I would be interested in the superficial you
  • sam308lbs
    sam308lbs Posts: 1,936 Member
    i think of this a lot too.One solution i came up with was to keep a very heavy beard for 2-3 months while i reach my goal weight so i dont get too much attention(i look hideous with a beard) and get some time to adjust to the new me
  • <~~~~~~~ looking like this guy
  • PinkyKiwii
    PinkyKiwii Posts: 512 Member
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  • sofielein
    sofielein Posts: 539 Member
    Even if your hot, I believe covering up your modesty, and refraining from tattooed thin eyebrows and the trout pout lip pose helps a lot.
  • LOL!
  • Hahah I think they would all try to hide their husbands/boyfriends! lol jk... Dang I wish I could just snap my fingers and be that fit! The one thing that sucks about trying to be fit is I feel like it consumes your life and it's all you think about. When you go out for drinks or dinner it's always like "how many calories is in this" "did I workout enough to eat this?" "I probably shouldn't order that." I think that's the hardest part is trying to find that balance and getting to a point where it's not always on the mind. Sorry kind of got side tracked there... lol
    my one thought about this, once you get to a point like the picture, you are in such an eating habbit you don't think about the calories so much. drinks, no matter how high your tolerance once was it is so low now you only can have a few. and eating, you feel the effects of varring from your diet even more. so you don't think about it at the time, but you pay for it later.
    it's a true lifestyle change
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Even if your hot, I believe covering up your modesty, and refraining from tattooed thin eyebrows and the trout pout lip pose helps a lot.


    GREAT advice. Beard was better, but I don't think I can pull that off.